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Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

author:Bean Cat Xiaoyu
Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

Sometimes, I often wonder, what does marriage give a woman?

The best years of youth give birth to children, and people work diligently in their old age to bring children to their children. Use your youth to accompany a man to gamble, and over the years live to become a grudge.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

Revisiting Second Spring, I found the real answer. The unspeakable loneliness of middle-aged women, the complete loss, hit the softest place in the depths of their hearts.

Throughout a woman's life, it feels sad and lamentable, and few people can truly bloom themselves.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

When people reach middle age, "empty nests" are like a tide that springs into the family. The children grow up and the partners are busy

In order to make money to support the family, the sadness of a full-time wife came as promised.

A simple simulation, a woman's "empty nest" countdown.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

If you get married in your twenties, have children and delay a few years, and the child officially enters society at the age of eighteen or nineteen, basically in his 40s, he will face the situation of "empty nest".

Shirley in the movie is a most vivid representative.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

At the age of 42, she wakes up early in the morning to go shopping at the supermarket, then returns home, standing in the kitchen and busy, talking to herself has become the norm.

On her body, you can see the figure of many middle-aged women.

Without career and income, palms up become logistical support for the whole family, and the kitchen is the main battlefield.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

When I saw Shirley chatting with the wall, I wondered if I would feel the same loneliness if I were that age.

Shirley cut the dish, recalling the happy scene in her mind, and she was transferring the pain of loneliness in her own way.

Empty room, home full of warm furniture, but there is an echo of speech.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

Shirley's behavior is very strange, but when the camera turns, there is a woman next door talking into the microwave, and the clever shot explains what loneliness feels like.

She is a good mother, although she misses her children in her heart, she also understands that her children are not helpless, and they should be given space to let them break into a wider world.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

Many people are curious, why did the husband not give companionship?

Frankly speaking, marriage begins with sweetness and passion, and over time, most people form an inherent template, and no one wants to break the comfort zone.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

For Shirley's husband, going out to earn money, contracting the expenses of the family, and settling in the rear by his wife is a happy life, and there is nothing wrong with it.

Otherwise, he would not read the newspaper quietly after work, in this man's heart, everything Shirley did was a matter of course, and there was no wrong division of labor.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

Shirley was very lonely, there was no place to talk to, and gradually she began to talk to herself against the wall.

Between conversations, the woman mentioned the past. It was when she and her husband had just married, and the two young men were full of passion, couldn't help kissing, and their eyes were full of little stars.

But over time, not to mention kissing, even sex life ceased to exist.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

It is worth mentioning that Shirley did her best to pay, not in exchange for the other party's gratitude, but various complaints.

A friend proposed to go out together to relax, and she was very excited in her heart, like a haze waving away to see the sun. However, it didn't take long for Shirley to hesitate.

She worries that after she is gone, her husband will have no one to take care of.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

While talking to the wall, Shirley bluntly said that she was afraid to leave and there would be nowhere to go. I have to say that this sentence is very meaningful, vividly expressing the sadness of middle-aged women.

Shirley herself was very miserable and had wanted to be herself happily, but she was full of worries.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

She is used to living in her comfort zone and becomes an integral part of the family. Although the marriage was no longer intimate, Shirley was at a loss and even began to have self-doubt, but she did not have the courage.

Long out of the trajectory of life, suddenly into the tense rhythm, where to start, is the first difficulty that needs to be overcome.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

How many women, like Shirley's situation, guard the battlefield of "self-righteousness" and a marriage as calm as water, healing themselves again and again, and their hearts are lonely.

She is a very responsible mother and a virtuous wife, what about herself?

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

I have worked hard for half my life, and I have paid my heart and soul for everyone, but I have never stopped to take a good look at myself.

Frankly speaking, there are many such women in life, who seem to be busy and busy, and there is nothing for themselves.

Shirley used to be a very interesting woman, with a hearty and bold personality, full of confidence. But over the years, she gradually faded these shining points.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

Now she is a "madman" in the eyes of her husband, how ironic.

This woman poured the best time of her youth into the family, ignoring her dreams, in exchange for such an evaluation.

Shirley originally thought that when the child grew up, she would get out of the sea of suffering and pursue her true self.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

But the child is growing, she has no youthful and beautiful years, and she doesn't even have a place to go.

Jane is Shirley's only friend, and the two of them talk about everything. She prepared two tickets and invited Shirley to travel with her.

But Shirley was hesitant, she was worried that when she traveled, her husband would have no one to take care of and her life would be a mess, so the whole person hesitated.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

Back at home, Shirley prepared food, originally thinking of changing the taste of her husband, but did not think, the other party was completely unappreciative, and directly said that her hard work was "garbage".

At this moment, I saw the "ugliness" of marriage in a trance.

For Shirley's husband, he works outside the home and controls the financial power of the family, so the wife should be well-behaved and should not make these small actions.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

This man has never sympathized with his wife's difficulties and takes everything for granted.

Because of this incident, Shirley's whole person was grief-stricken, and gradually the situation strengthened the decision to travel.

She was nervously waiting at home for the call to leave, but she didn't think that her daughter had a conflict with a friend. Shirley hurriedly made coffee for her daughter, showing the relationship between Shirley and the children.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

The daughter lay on the bed, directing Shirley to work, looking like she was enjoying it.

The father and daughter had the same "enjoyment", taking their behavior for granted, which stabbed Shirley's heart fiercely.

She eventually refused, saying she wanted to travel. I thought that my daughter would understand her mother, after all, she has given a lot for the whole family over the years.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

Unexpectedly, her daughter felt that this was very humiliating, and she slammed the door directly.

Eventually, Shirley leaves a note behind and embarks on a journey, where Jane meets a man and she is once again alone.

But compared to the cold space at home, the noisy sound in the crowd made Shirley relaxed.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

Travel has always been Shirley's dream, and she has finally made it happen.

She sat on the beach, holding red wine in her hand, quietly enjoying the scenery in front of her, and her heart was full of mixed tastes.

Shirley longs for a wonderful life, but marriage is consumed by loneliness, her heart is not willing to be ordinary but can only be ordinary, she has lost herself.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

Later, she met a man, and Shirley was very calm and not emotional.

After the trip, she made a decision to stay in the place and get a job in a restaurant. At that moment, I was very relieved that Shirley was slowly finding herself.

The same is paying, since the circle of the family takes everything for granted, why not get value for money?

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

The trip was like a spring of water irrigated in the desert where Shirley had dried up. She did not meet a man, but let the desolate and dry manor in her heart come to life again.

In the past, Shirley focused on her family, silently giving, hoping to be understood and tolerated.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

But now, she just wants to live for herself, this is respect for the little time left in the rest of her life, timely stop loss is not terrible, terrible is a road to the end.

After Shirley left, her husband realized the importance of his wife.

If it were not for this woman's dedication, how could she wear clean clothes and eat delicious meals, and her children could grow up peacefully.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

On the other hand, some men in life take their wife's efforts for granted, why not the same gesture?

I want to say to some middle-aged women that after their children enter society, they will have their own families, strip off their identities, and pursue their dreams.

If your husband makes you feel unhappy, go on a trip and find who you used to be.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

There are some things that you can't empathize with, and you can only understand what it's like to experience it yourself. Xiao Beisheng is newly married, which can enhance the relationship between husband and wife.

Marriage needs to be held together in the right way, not swallowed up by loneliness and immersed in a world of self-doubt.

Only after becoming an adult did I understand that the charm of 42-year-old Shirley remains, which is the best revenge for marriage and family

The world is so big that you can go and see, firm a dream, do something you like, even if it is a short bloom, is not an excessive behavior.

Life is short, you should cherish it, care for and understand others, and look back at yourself more.

There is not only marriage in life, but also dreams and pursuits, no matter when you give up being yourself, otherwise you will not have self-confidence.

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