Recently, someone broke the news on the Internet, saying that Zhang Ziyi served as the examiner of this year's Central Academy of Drama, and as soon as the news came out, it rushed to the hot search. (At this time, I don't know that Wang Summit, who can't be on the hot search, won't want to cry??? ）
Netizens also have mixed opinions about this matter, but for Zhang Ziyi, it seems that he should also be used to it.
After all, in 2015, when the news broke that Zhang Ziyi and Wang Feng got married, netizens began to ridicule when they would divorce, but a full 7 years have passed, and people sing with their wives. It can be said that the family is harmonious, treating his stepdaughter as his own, and Wang Feng's career is soaring, frequently appearing on popular variety shows, Zhang Ziyi has undoubtedly become a virtuous helper.
Thinking about the "international chapter" of that year, in 2004 and the rich third generation Huo Qishan sparked, once made people think that they would marry into a wealthy family, but they finally broke up because of the rules of the man's family.
In 2007, at Wendi Deng's drinking party, her generous communication and beauty fascinated a Jewish super-rich Avnivo, and then fell in love, and even generously posted a pigeon ring, and finally made a storm because of a "prenuptial agreement".
After returning to China, he and his talented son Sabine had a relationship that did not seem very coordinated, which soon ended in a breakup.
Until 2013, Wang Feng began to pursue Zhang Ziyi, a song "I Love You So Much", which finally made Wang Feng hug the beauty and married Zhang Ziyi in 2015.
At that time, many people were shocked, compared with Zhang Ziyi's three rich, rich and talented predecessors, how to see that this is a bit merry and married three times and Wang Feng with a baby is not a better husband, however, it is this marriage that is not favored, and now 7 years have passed.
Is only Wang Feng the most suitable for Zhang Ziyi?
I think it is!
Why do you say that?
I think there are three reasons.
▶ Marriage, like love, the order and timing of appearances are really important
When Zhang Ziyi and Huo Qishan met, it happened that her career was still rising, at that time, relying on the status of "Mou Girl" and the attention after the success of "My Father and Mother", her career can be described as sky-high, although it has also reached the level of talking about marriage, but the Huo family requires that her daughter-in-law cannot develop in the entertainment industry after marriage, which undoubtedly directly buried this relationship.
On the one hand, she is a career that is like a sky, and on the other hand, she is a wealthy daughter-in-law, and at that point in time, she chose her career.
For Zhang Ziyi, who has relied on her own efforts since she was a child and worked hard from a not very wealthy family to achieve today's achievements, how can she be willing to give up this straw that has been held in her hands because of her strong personality, her dedication to career, and her inner thinking that clearly knows what she wants?
In fact, if it is placed at the time when I met Wang Feng, or if I met and fell in love with Huo Gongzi after experiencing Aviniwo and Xiaosa, to a certain extent, it is also a "door-to-door pair", then the result may really be different, after all, Zhang Ziyi at that time was already fame and fortune, but where did so many assumptions in life come from?
Fate is that simple and important.
Even Wang Feng once said:
"If we had met five years ago, we wouldn't have been together, and the timing of fate is important."
It can only be said that there will be right and wrong choices, but feelings are not. Love may happen by chance, but marriage will not be accidental, and the person you will choose to marry at a certain point in time will also be different.
▶ The feeling of tiptoe is destined to go far, and without equal strength, it cannot last long
Later, Zhang Ziyi's career went to a higher level, movies were filmed one after another, various awards were soft, the success of domestic careers gave her more confidence, and there was room for choice, her ambition, saw the broad international stage, at this time, she needed a step, and this step was Avinivo.
And falling in love with the rich Avignivo is also a very wise choice, which makes her position in the entertainment industry more stable, unparalleled for a while, and finally achieved the "international chapter".
The success of her career and the material wealth brought by love have allowed her to live a life of drunken gold, often watching performances, attending banquets, beach vacations...
These looks like a show of affection, in my opinion, in fact, to some extent, material satisfaction, and the needs of career.
However, Aviniwo, who is 16 years older, will undoubtedly not satisfy Zhang Ziyi's spiritual pursuit, with the constant ambiguous scandals with other women, Zhang Ziyi has sobered up, and there are even rumors that on that "prenuptial agreement", Zhang Ziyi will not get anything, which is undoubtedly the last straw that crushed the camel.
Spiritually unsatisfied, materially and materially.
Even after the breakup, the gifts were taken back.
This is undoubtedly the same ending as Huo Gongzi's relationship.
The daughter-in-law of a wealthy family is not good.
In fact, Zhang Ziyi has also reaped the continued rise of her career in two wealthy relationships, someone to help, double the result with half the effort, she also needs this kind of career help, but this kind of relationship that needs to be looked up to, how can she be willing?
How can a person who is still pursuing success and fame be willing to be a "woman behind the scenes" who swallows his words.
Even the relationship with Xiao Sa has such a problem.
At that time, Zhang Ziyi was already an international superstar with both fame and fortune, and there was no need to look up to others materially, and he naturally preferred Xiaosa's talent.
After all, after a person has played so many characters with distinct personalities in the false world, he is undoubtedly empty mentally, and his heart will undoubtedly want to pursue more exciting feelings in real life.
And the relationship with the talented Sabine is undoubtedly able to find this kind of mental stimulation for Zhang Ziyi.
That is to say, after material abundance, then you will think about pursuing something more exciting spiritually.
At that time, Sabine bought a gold ring for Zhang Ziyi, but Zhang Ziyi also boldly posted it, and it can be seen that Zhang Ziyi at this time is more pursuing spiritual satisfaction.
Unfortunately, in terms of material life, after all, it is still too disparity, the happy story of the cowherd and the seven fairies is still very rare in reality, just like a poor boy, met a mother-in-law who asked for a house and a car, and someone else's ordinary lunch may be the entire salary of your hard work for a month, how can such a lifestyle be long.
In the face of uneven material conditions, all good looks reluctant.
▶ In marriage, security is a must-have
As Zhang Ziyi's mentor, Zhang Yimou undoubtedly knows her, so he said in an interview:
"Zhang Ziyi is already very famous, it can be said that he has both fame and fortune. She doesn't need material things, she needs security. ”
In fact, as mentioned above, the timing and order of appearance of Wang Feng appearing in front of Zhang Ziyi are accurate.
Another point is that when Wang Feng met Zhang Ziyi in 2013, although he was not as famous as Zhang Ziyi, he also had his own status in the music industry, and his career could be said to be evenly matched.
In terms of wealth, in fact, Wang Feng is not poor, and when he proposed marriage, he also sold a mansion of 100 million, so he can also have contacts in material terms.
Then after taking advantage of the time and place, in fact, Wang Feng also got people.
How to say it?
Wang Feng has experienced several marriages, although he also has the name of affair, but from the side, Wang Feng is a veteran of the love scene, and for Zhang Ziyi, who was extremely pursuing spiritual satisfaction at that time, this was undoubtedly the right heart.
"I'm going to live for myself once."
This is certainly not an empty phrase.
After the previous relationship failed, Wang Feng no longer burned all for rock and roll during that time, and began to pay attention to three meals a day
And Wang Feng's desire for family just meets Zhang Ziyi's spiritual needs, hitting it off, evenly matched in wealth, and having a common pursuit in career, naturally communication in intimate relationships will create an infinite beautiful spark, and can also give each other a sense of security.
In the 7 years after Zhang Ziyi and Wang Feng got married, Zhang Ziyi accepted his original family, helped him to reach a higher level in his career, and gave birth to two children for him.
When we can't see, we go to the supermarket to buy vegetables together, walk together after meals, and talk about trivial things at work together, this is the normal family life after marriage, parents are short, three meals a day, and have children.
You may nag before a business trip, and you will report safety after landing, but what you feel is not a problem, but a sense of security.
And these, spiritually, the two giants cannot be given, and materially, Xiao Sa cannot be satisfied.
So, that's when we're going to understand.
Some people can get a license after talking for three or five months, and some people can't get married after seven years of love.
In fact, it is more insecure, the deep thoughts, after throwing out, there is no response, and there will be obstacles to communication after a long time.
You don't mean what you say, and he doesn't mean what he says.
It's like,
At 18 and 38, the pursuit of love may be completely different.
What the 18-year-old wants is unforgettable, tall and short, fat and thin, and the highest score for lovers.
At the age of 38, I will consider firewood, rice, oil and salt, cold and warmth, hunger, and the best companion.
Therefore, in the criteria for choosing a lover, how can a person who is evenly matched meet your sense of security at the right time not be the best lover?
At this point, Wang Feng is undoubtedly the most suitable choice for Zhang Ziyi.
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