When I first saw the name "The Way to Open Life".
What comes to mind is not the black leather who climbed out of the sewer in "Crazy Stone" and spoke fluently "Dao brother dialect".
Nor is it the simplicity that was betrayed by her boyfriend in "Unconfused Journey", but successfully stepped out of his comfort zone.
For me, whether it is Huang Bo, who debuted with funny, or Mei Ting, who is stable and steady, it is not the focus of my attention to this drama.
Just because of such a name, a name that is extremely attractive to most middle-aged people, I entered the world of Bian Liang and Fu Xintong.
However, the beginning of the story does not seem to have triggered rave reviews because of the addition of Huang Bo and Mei Ting.
Instead, two factions with clear and somewhat opposing positions have formed.
One group believes that the story is too bloody and ungrounded, and completely devoid of the life and cognition of modern ordinary people.
One group believes that in such stories, many shadows of seemingly familiar can be seen, like those memories that have long been forgotten.
At the same time, under the attack of a number of popular online dramas, "The Way to Open Life" is always in a tepid state.
For me, such a reality and situation seems to be what "The Way to Open Life" should be.
Because this is a work that explores what "life" is, a work that wants to find with the audience that can open up the lifestyle.
In this process, we, as viewers, are no longer pure viewers, but also part of the participation.
It is precisely because of this that "The Way to Open Life" opens with two very different positions.
As a middle-aged man, when your other half is "old and yellow", when you yourself are "more attractive".
How would you deal with the intentional or unintentional contact and closeness of female colleagues or subordinates in the company?
As a man, how many can sit still, at least sincerely feel "itchy", right?
Not to mention the sudden appearance of a first love that once sacrificed everything for each other.
It is also a "single" way to strongly intervene in your marriage and career.
And the only requirement to get rid of all this is to be able to "reconcile the old" with it.
As a man, when faced with "goddess" and "yellow pearls", how do you choose?
At least it will suddenly become a night without return, and there will still be a drink with your first love, right?
As a middle-aged woman, when you dedicate your best life to your husband and children.
How do you feel when you look at your girlfriend who can almost be described as "frozen face"?
The same woman, why do you want to be "old and yellow", while others can "keep their youth forever"?
As a woman, how do you feel when you watch your husband maneuver between female subordinates and female classmates?
As a result, such men and women, such Bian Liang and Fu Xintong, began a journey to find the right way to open life.
And these rather "bloody" and not very grounded background settings are not even appetizing appetizers.
Because until this "feast" ends, you will not find a formal dish on the table.
Because in this journey to find life, there is no so-called main dish and feast.
Whether it is the death of a loved one or the sudden change of life.
Whether it is the frustration of office power schemes, or the failure of self-employment.
Whether it is the struggle of life that falls into the trough of life, or the downplay of everything with a smile on the storm.
All this is just an understatement on life's bumpy road.
No matter how important or meaningful these are, they cannot withstand the unknown and confusion that will follow.
(This article is an original article of "Hua Yuhan", and the non-"Hua Yuhan" account is all plagiarism and handling!) ）
Although Bian Liang is one of the important founders of the well-known enterprise branch, he also has to face the dilemma that his son cannot add glory to his studies.
Although Yu Guang has a huge family business and huge wealth, it cannot change the reality and helplessness that he is his mother's "puppet".
Although Dongxiao has a beautiful and wonderful life experience, she will eventually face the fate and sorrow of not being able to be a complete woman.
Perhaps the background, resume and background of these protagonists are incompatible with us as the audience.
But the stories they experience are not much easier than those of us as ordinary people.
It's like the nameless and nameless characters and background actors in the play.
They may also be experiencing a similar life and life to the protagonist.
Or perhaps, their lives and lives are a little happier than Bian Liang, Yuguang and Dongxiao.
"The Way to Open Life" is made up of many trivial and furry stories.
In this wave of stories and events, whether it is the side light or the afterlight, it gives people a feeling of breathlessness.
And the only time and place for them to relax for a moment is the barbecue stall by the lake.
A few skewers of grilled meat, a few cups of Du Kang, and sitting with friends who hardly intersect with their own lives are the only self-space and time for middle-aged people.
Maybe this is life, this is the life that belongs only to middle-aged men and women.
Although compared to Bian Liang and Yu Guang, this is an unfairness to deal with Xintong and Li Man.
But this is precisely the truest and most "bloody" truth of life.
Aren't those drunk people who appear on the streets at midnight the "prototypes" of the side and the afterlight?
Like Bian Liang and Yu Guang, he is also miserable and frustrated because he has not found the right way to open his life.
Just after I slowly immersed myself in the world of edge light and afterlight.
Just as I wantonly saw my real self through the light and afterlight.
It all came to an abrupt end, and "The Way to Open Life" suddenly ended in 40 episodes.
This is an ending without an "ending", an "ending" that looks like everything is heading towards hope.
But all this always gives me the illusion that "The Way to Open Life" doesn't tell me what the right way to open my life is.
Bian Liang and Yu Guang didn't even give me a full, ending-style finale.
Only then did I come out of the story, and I came out of the life of the edge and the afterlight.
Their story seems to be over, but mine continues.
I've lived through many of the lives they've been through, and maybe in the near future, they've already experienced.
Maybe I'll never find the right way to open my life.
Just like Bian Liang and Yu Guang can't tell me a right way to open up life.
Life, perhaps, will not have the right way to open.
The above is my understanding and perception of episode 40 of "The Way to Open Life", more wonderful analysis, see you next time!
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