Watching the new video of Ma Sichun and Jiang Sida's conversation, I was a little surprised.
Unexpectedly, her and Zhang Zhexuan's "unexpected" relationship, after being ridiculed by the group on the hot search, did not wait to break up and say goodbye, but became more and more solid.
She talked about each other in the interview, and it felt like the sun, which made her heal and made her self-consistent. Isn't it bad that she said that she was not in a hurry to get married, first self-love and then love others?
The girl who began to enter the rebellious period from the age of 30 finally ushered in her own maturity after a long winter of growth.
▲Screenshot of the interview with "DV Project".
The evaluation of mocking Ma Sichun's love brain still accounts for most of it. While the audience was angry, he complained about Zhang Zhexuan, who loves bars, has a lot of love experience, and has few good words, why can Ma Sichun be willing to "fall"?
After all, Zhang Zhexuan on social platforms, there are too many black histories. But evolving to today's Ma Sichun, I think it may no longer be the fragile girl in the audience filter.
▲ Ma Sichun.
The audience always says that good girls are easy to be brainwashed and learn badly, but their love with bad boys may also be a way they choose to repair themselves.
Even if Zhang Zhexuan is not a good destination in the worldly definition, he is a beautiful lover conceived by Ma Sichun and reflected in his heart, a romantic desire for "Wen Qing".
▲Zhang Zhexuan.
Literary girl is a compliment that Ma Sichun has been installed on since his debut, and it is also a label.
She played the girl who was tormented by youth in "Sweet and Sour" and "Left Ear", and indeed performed that clear and sad beauty. But this movie filter fell on the body, and it also became a lingering shackle.
▲Screenshot of the movie "Left Ear".
When she starts to gain weight because of emotional problems, the audience will be entangled in why she is not as literary and light as she was at the beginning. Not being able to maintain a thin figure and appearance is like a step backwards.
Therefore, when she was questioned about starring in "The First Incense", she was so anxious to gain audience recognition and write controversial words.
▲Screenshot of Ma Sichun's Weibo.
Criticism from the outside world is projected onto the subconscious.
Ma Sichun said in the interview that she and Zhang Zhexuan are very comfortable together, and they will talk patiently about history, movies, social topics, and music, which is actually a sense of security that Ma Sichun needs after experiencing group ridicule.
Psychology says that when people are looking for a lover, they are often attracted to people who have the characteristics they aspire to, and I think Zhang Zhexuan satisfies not only the emotional value of happiness, but also Ma Sichun's ideal projection of herself from the bottom of her heart, which is exactly the beginning of her self-foundation.
▲Screenshot of the movie "Buckwheat Grows Crazy".
Ma Sichun grew up protected from a young age, but too much shelter may be more vulnerable to being broken.
Therefore, when she encountered school bullying, the inner division was huge, no one taught her how to digest her emotions, and no one helped her up and let her speak freely.
▲ Ma Sichun when he was a child.
In the first thirty years of Ma Sichun, her spiritual world was gray and twisted. Others said she was fat, so she wore loose clothes to cover her body, netizens said she was cross-eyed, and she suspected that she had to check the distance between her eyes.
With no one to support her, she can only turn to her lover for strength. When she fell in love with Ou Hao, she said that she liked "quack-gas" boys because she had too little social experience.
▲Screenshot of the movie "Left Ear".
At that time, what she wanted to absorb was actually a harder "wildness", she hoped that she could be more bold, braver, and would not swallow her heart for fear of trouble.
When it comes to Zhang Zhexuan, she finds a role model that can help her no longer care about external behavior in the other party's arrogant and arrogant behavior.
Over the years, she has consumed herself a lot, but in the process of becoming bad, she finally escaped the oppression of not being hunted and "corrected".
▲ Ma Sichun in the variety show "Unusual Life".
I have always felt that the person Ma Sichun subconsciously wants to be is never a good girl held in the palm of everyone's hand, but a wild child who can break free. When Zhang Zhexuan was attacked by black history, Ma Sichun also found in him the empathy and new courage that was previously watched by onlookers.
For a long time, another label on Ma Sichun was "resource coffee".
Mom is a gold medal agent, aunt Jiang Wenli is an old drama bone, uncle Gu Changwei is a big director, before his debut, Ma Sichun starred in the big production "Mansion Gate" that began filming in 2000.
▲Screenshot of the TV series "The Gate of the Mansion".
Later, he acted in "The First Incense" with an image that did not fit the role very well.
▲Screenshot of the movie "The First Incense".
The audience's dissatisfaction is the first priority, but what determines Ma Sichun's audience filter is broken, or that most of her works are Waterloo, and Douban's 4.1 score of "Buckwheat Grows Crazy" has become the beginning of her being complained about "pseudo-literature" and "no acting skills".
▲ The movie "Buckwheat Grows Crazy".
So much so that later, although she filmed "July and Ansheng" with Zhou Dongyu and won the queen award together, the negative evaluation of the audience always surrounded her.
Compared with Zhou Dongyu, who won many awards with "Young You" in the later period, Ma Sichun's light image was cut off.
▲Screenshot of the movie "July and Ansheng".
During that time, her weight soared, she was not confident in herself, doubted herself, and her emotions also fell, and some netizens questioned her embarrassing acting skills, she would impulsively "run" out and fight with each other "Where is the bad acting?" ”
▲Screenshot of the interview with "DV Project".
But now Ma Sichun is obviously harder.
She said that the work is not good, it is something that an actor has to predict in advance, and for her favorite "Dream of Red Mansions", she was asked to watch it for more than ten years, did she understand it? She also said frankly: "I don't understand, and I don't want to do any reading and sharing now." ”
Do not lose weight, do not dress up as literature and art, rely on the fat and rough image of women, and shine in "Jiang Zhao Dawn". She is not vain, she should talk about falling in love, she should ridicule herself, and she will talk about it as much as she likes in "Spit Conference".
▲Screenshot of the TV series "Jiang Zhao Dawn".
She seems to have become stronger, even if this energy may not be enough to be seen and praised by the audience. But I still think that instead of saying that Ma Si is purely in love, it is better to think that she is using love to complete her own transformation.
This year, female stars have been perfect since their appearance.
They are exquisite, not in love with the brain, career-minded, very hard and fierce, relying on different tricks in the entertainment industry to kill their own way. Of course, this is very attractive, but I think that ordinary girls like Ma Sichun are also worth seeing in the process of constantly being defeated and getting better.
▲ Screenshot of the movie "July and Ansheng".
She actually represents a more popular woman, the correct view of love and clear self, never sugar from the sky, but from a bumpy and difficult road, constantly groped.
If the relationship with Ou Hao is to pull Ma Sichun out of the pure beauty of fairy tale dreams, then the love with Zhang Zhexuan completes another part of the reshaping of the love imagination - the happiness of love does not depend on the other party, but on oneself.
▲Source: Ma Sichun Weibo.
She said that the previous "want to get married" statement was a slip of the tongue, and now she is more willing to put her expectations on herself.
She doesn't want to dig deep into each other's secrets, maybe she doesn't want to, or she may not dare, but in the final analysis, it is to avoid increasing troubles, Ma Sichun and Zhang Zhexuan's interaction, in fact, like all sibling love, is a new transformation of women's consciousness of love.
▲Screenshot of the interview with "DV Project".
Love with a younger brother is not that the sister is willing to give love, or that she is anxious about marriage in the future, but when the sister no longer treats herself as an older leftover girl, they can use their career, money, status, beauty, and time to exchange for any comfortable relationship.
The tolerance of the flaws of lovers is also a confirmation of the growth of women's consciousness.
The standard given to a qualified couple on the Internet is a good opponent whose beauty, ability, and status must also be matched, but the sister is different, and every girl with the spirit of "sister" hidden in her heart is also different, and they look for love, not to conform to the aesthetics of social discipline, but to find what they want in their hearts, and then thoroughly follow happiness.
▲Screenshot of the movie "Buckwheat Grows Crazy".
There is another pair in the entertainment industry who are very similar to them, Big S and Gu Junye. In everyone's eyes, Gu Junye is "nothing", living in Big S's house, sleeping in her bed, and does not have a fairly serious job and income.
▲ Big S and Gu Junye.
What is the big S chart? She accommodates so many shortcomings that the other party is not good in the eyes of the public, and what she wants to exchange for may be a sense of happiness and love after getting out of a difficult marriage.
▲ Big S and Gu Junye.
Unlike Big S, what Ma Sichun needs is to release himself who has been trapped in the family since childhood and grew up in the evaluation of others, to make up for the lack of relaxation and happiness in adolescence.
After Ma Sichun's love was exposed for so long, I saw that the topic that the audience has been discussing is nothing more than analyzing whether Ma Sichun will break up and will he regret it in the future? I think that whether she regrets it or not, at least she already knows how to enjoy love.
She may not cry on variety shows for the lack of consummation of her relationship a year after breaking up with Ouhao. Her fairytale dreams dispersed, and after puberty ended, she returned to a more mature girl who also understood the meaning of independence.
Every girl is entitled to a good relationship, a bad relationship, an unblessed relationship, but most importantly, to see how a girl rises from a low ebb, slowly and abundantly.
Nothing could be more gratifying.