For young people, the term "midlife crisis" is still a bit far away.
But for many adults in their thirties and forties, the "midlife crisis" also means that life is about to face a turning point that cannot be avoided.
Many people are afraid of middle age, but they are also worried that they will face a period of "old and young", and they have to worry about all kinds of things.
Not only the burden of the family, but also the pressure at work, the humility and powerlessness of middle-aged people, all reached their peak during this period.
In fact, in recent years, there have been many film and television works that talk about the theme of "mid-life crisis", but the stories and themes are similar, and there seems to be no difference.
The recent hit life drama "The Right Way to Open Life" attracted the attention of many audiences as soon as it was broadcast.
This is also a TV series starring Huang Bo after a long time, after all, he was more active in the film industry before.
The strong cooperation between Huang Bo and Mei Ting, two powerful actors, has indeed made many people look forward to it very much.
Although this drama focuses on a "mid-life crisis", the overall plot is not only sad, but a series of life stories unfold in a somewhat relaxed and humorous plot atmosphere.
Many friends who have watched it have said that this drama is really amazing.
In this drama, those embarrassing and manic performances about middle-aged people are all made clear to it, maybe it can be seen to avoid lightning as soon as possible.
First, because of the death of her mother, the manic mood of middle-aged women
In the play, the role played by Mei Ting is Fu Xintong, the wife of the male protagonist.
After marriage, she puts more time and energy into the family, and is also a very typical kind of housewife.
It seems to be the normal life status of ordinary people, in fact, Fu Xintong also has good development prospects before marriage.
High education, beautiful people, good temperament, if you have been in the workplace, maybe the position today is not worse than your husband.
But she chose to become a full-time housewife after marriage, no working time, more daily life.
After a long time, even if she had learned so much powerful knowledge before, she hadn't touched it for too long, and she almost forgot it.
When her husband's work encountered problems, Fu Xintong began to work again and enter the workplace, but at this time she could only take her time from a low-threshold job.
But the thing that really hit her the most was the fact that Fu Xintong's mother had Alzheimer's disease, and if she was actively treated, she could still accompany her more.
The key is that the old man did not want to make his children have such a hard time because of this disease, so he chose to commit suicide by the sea.
Even before doing this, the old lady transferred the house.
Because his mother chose to commit suicide, this incident hit Xintong quite hard.
She couldn't believe that her mother would make such a choice, and she also hated herself for being useless and not even taking care of her own mother.
After his mother left, Fu Xintong's whole temperament changed greatly, his emotions became uncontrollable, and he also showed bipolar disorder.
Seeing her behavior, the mood changed a lot, as if there was no fulcrum all of a sudden.
So many times, such a Fu Xintong, in the eyes of the audience, her behavior is really like a mentally abnormal patient, which is difficult to figure out.
Every time I see her eyes drooping, the sorrow between her eyebrows is really distressing to watch.
Second, emotional cracks, unsuccessful promotions, embarrassment for middle-aged people
The male protagonist Bian Liang, whose profession in the play is a manager of a car sales company, Huang Bo still has a good grasp of the atmosphere and feeling of this character.
The pressure of reaching the age of forty is not only brought about by the family, but also the stagnation of the career.
I want to go up the ladder, but the reality is always very skinny.
He thought that his promotion was already very stable, but he didn't expect that he would kill Cheng Yanjin halfway, or his ex-girlfriend.
This is not only an embarrassing situation in his career, his whole person is in a very embarrassing situation.
What can he say when he should have been his promotion, but let his ex-girlfriend snatch it away?
What's more, the sudden appearance of this ex-girlfriend may also be another kind of scheme.
After all, Dongxiao has been pestering Bian Liang to accompany him to go shopping, and even took wedding photos together.
The focus is on this wedding photo, which was directly posted to the wall of the photo studio, looking at the super large wedding photos, not to mention how embarrassing it is to be bright.
But if he wants to be removed, Bian Liang will lose this job.
I have to say that this ex-girlfriend is indeed very handy, and uses various methods to prevent Bian Liang from having a good time.
Not only did it tire him himself, but it also stirred up his originally normal married life.
If middle-aged people have to experience such trivial things, it does make people feel a little calmer and feel more and more tired.
Third, middle-aged people are powerless to deal with feelings
When Zhu Zhu appeared, it seemed that many people had found the feeling they had before, and the mature femininity in her had always been there.
In the play, Dongxiao, played by her, is also a career-oriented strong woman.
Contrary to Fu Xintong, she has a career but no marriage, while Fu Xintong also gave up her career through marriage.
The reason why Dongxiao and Bian Liang did not go to the end was also because her parents did not like Bian Liang at that time, feeling that he had no development prospects, and later the two were forced to break up, and the woman chose to study abroad.
So in fact, in the matter of feelings, Dongxiao has always been more subject to people.
So much so that she was not married until she was forty years old, and even if she met her ex-boyfriend at work, she would have a childlike mentality and wanted to do something to vent her emotions.
So there is a matter of wedding photos, her thoughts and purposes, in fact, are still very simple, the main thing is to see if Bian Liang's heart still cares about her now.
On the surface, it seems to be the feeling of an elite strong woman, but in fact, it still carries the emotions of a little girl in her heart.
Maybe it's always in turmoil if you can't get it, obviously she also has a rich second-generation boyfriend, but deep in her heart, Bian Liang has never been able to let go.
In contact with her boyfriend, she slowly found that the other party's love was not sincere, but fortunately, she chose to stop the loss in time and did not go further with Zhao Xian.
In her relationship, she has never been able to change anything, and the failure of the two relationships also makes her look so powerless, which is probably the helplessness of middle-aged people.