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"The Right Way to Open Life" starring Huang Bo, Mei Ting, Tian Yu, Zhu Zhu and others is over.
To be honest, it is not at all surprising that everyone finds their own way to open up their lives and do the ending, everything is ultimately with themselves, and to make themselves happy and happy is to learn to let go and reconcile with themselves.
Bian Liang found the answer, Fu Xintong reconciled with himself, Li Man and Yu Guang had the crystallization of love, the harvest was complete, Wen Caocao was proposed by Li Shaobai, and everyone found themselves and had their own beauty.
But there is a thing quite surprising, that is, Dongxiao, played by Zhu Zhu, did not expect that in the end she shaved her head due to cancer, and what people didn't expect was that she was so beautiful with a bald head, worthy of being the goddess of "the world's hundred beautiful".
In fact, in the play, the most attractive thing about Dongxiao played by Zhu Zhu is not her beauty, but her sobriety and reason, and each play is very emotional, allowing people to see a different Zhu Zhu.
01
This is the first cooperation between Zhu Zhu and Huang Bo.
Zhu Zhu is a recognized goddess, not only has the face of oriental beauty, but also has a western open and clear character, and has a charming temperament;
And Huang Bo is not a handsome guy, and even a little ugly, I didn't think that the two of them would make any sparks together, but I didn't expect Dongxiao and Bian Liang to make such a stop, and they inexplicably matched, and the aura was also quite compatible.
In the play, Dongxiao appeared when the headquarters sent her to evaluate the Hera Group, and Bian Liang was the sales manager of the Hera Group.
Originally 42-year-old Bian Liang and Fu Xintong have been married for many years, have a son Bian Xiaoliang, the family's life is perfect, and Bian Liang is about to usher in a new stage in his career.
However, Dongxiao's arrival made him feel more stressed, not because he did not do his job well, but because he had another unknown relationship with Dongxiao.
Dongxiao is Bian Liang's ex-girlfriend.
Bian Liang couldn't figure out Dongxiao's intention to come back this time, and she looked prepared.
So he tried his best to find out the reason for her return, first inquiring about her personal problems from the side, and then tempting her through his friend Yu Guang.
Dongxiao was also direct, in the face of Bian Liang's various temptations, she saw through and did not say it thoroughly, directly told him that she was single, and then pulled him to eat, shop, and even take wedding photos.
This made Bian Liang's life a "mess", and when he wanted to test again, she told him directly that she came back to him this time.
Note that it is "rushing", this rush has two possibilities, one is to rush his work, because she is now Bian Liang's boss.
Another is to rush into his life, because she is single now and can do anything. This made Bian Liang's sleep difficult.
Indeed, Dongxiao's purpose is very clear when she comes back this time, from the moment she appears, it feels like she came with the vision of her ex's revenge, whether it is directly telling Bian Liang about the assessment, or pulling him to take wedding photos and hang the window of the photo studio.
This kind of looming emotional embodiment makes Bian Liang unpredictable, and also makes the audience proud, is it affectionate, ruthless, or simply revenge? It's hard to tell.
In the rivalry between Zhu Zhu and Huang Bo, there is a very enjoyable scene, that is, Bian Liang is ready to resign, and before leaving, he asked Dongxiao to meet on the rooftop.
First Bian Liang said "I'm sorry", Dongxiao was stunned for a few seconds, and then she exhaled heavily, her eyes reddened at the same time, and then smiled, "It's enough to have your words," she said, with relief hanging at the corner of her mouth.
She came back this time, so tossed Bian Liang, just to wait for this sentence, the heart knot that had been in place for many years finally opened at this moment, and she could finally let go of Bian Liang and let herself go.
It turned out that after the breakup, Dongxiao didn't know that she was pregnant and had a car accident on the way to find Bian Liang, and then she couldn't give birth for the rest of her life, she has been living in some kind of obsession for more than twenty years, and she came back this time to Bianliang, and all she wanted was this sentence "I'm sorry."
02
In fact, Dongxiao has a boyfriend, and the reason why she told Bian Liang that she was single was to see how he reacted.
And this boyfriend of hers, not only is he more handsome than Bian Liang, younger than him, but also a lot of gold, and most importantly, he cares about her very much.
Of course, this was all before she found out that he was cheating.
Dongxiao's boyfriend Zhao Xian is the son of the Hera Group, he is handsome, young, and has great ambitions, and he is also quite compatible with Dongxiao.
But as the plot progresses, it's not the same thing at all.
Zhao Xian may like Dongxiao a little, but only a little, otherwise he would not have known that Bian Liang was Dongxiao's ex-boyfriend, and Yu Guang had chased Dongxiao without any vinegar.
This is not the reaction that a normal man, boyfriend should have.
And Dongxiao really considered the future with Zhao Xian, she was looking forward to marriage, looking forward to having a beautiful family, and while the two talked about marriage and marriage, she was also very frank.
She frankly told Zhao Xian's parents that she might not be able to be a mother in the future, and she could not let their Zhao family children and grandchildren fill the house.
At the moment, the reaction of the Zhao family left each other with dignity.
Zhao Xian also said that as long as two people love each other, children are not the most important, and you can find the best doctor to treat, and you still have the opportunity to be a mother.
Dongxiao also did it, she really loves Zhao Xian, she longs for two people to be happy together, and another child to form a family of three, so she secretly went to the doctor to do a test to see if she could be cured.
However, with the delivery of a prenuptial agreement, the inheritance of the child is also clearly written on it, and Dongxiao is in a dilemma, she is actually not afraid to sign this agreement.
It is the child, she does not dare to guarantee, she discussed with Zhao Xian, whether this article can be removed, Zhao Xian means to respect his parents and leave them a thought.
At this point, Dongxiaodu was still compromising and backing down, until she found out that Zhao Xian was cheating, and she made a real choice.
This is also what Dongxiao appreciates, she simply, does not drag mud and water, faces different values from Zhao Xian, family views, and does not matter in the face of his betrayal, she resolutely breaks up and does not look back.
This point is very beautiful, which is quite consistent with her aura of two meters eight as soon as she appeared.
But she also has her vulnerability, under her independent and powerful skin, is a sensitive and delicate heart, she also longs for warmth, longs to be loved.
As the plot progresses, she, the "deadly woman", begins to make people feel distressed and want to protect.
03
From the moment the character of Dongxiao appeared, it gave people an independent and powerful, beautiful and sassy feeling, in fact, these are her soft and raw cocoons.
The first love that ended with Bian Liang caused her physical and mental damage to be great, causing her to never let go,
Later, when he talked about marriage with Zhao Xian, who seemed to be right, he was betrayed by him. From her twenties to her forties, she endured and faced alone all these years, so she had to learn to be strong alone.
Dongxiao is the most distressing, in the end, fate was not a little better for her, was found to have cancer, fortunately found in time, the operation was successful.
But even so, Dongxiao was still so strong and optimistic, she ran to Europe alone for surgery, and returned to continue to work hard.
How can such a woman not be distressed, she looks powerful, but she needs protection the most, if she has a choice, why don't she want to be a little woman like Fu Xintong.
But she can't choose, maybe this is fate, but she never gave in, this should be the most appreciated thing about her, along the way we see her beautiful, she is sassy, she is independent, she is sober, she is distressing.
But she never complained, never gave up, always grew positively, took steps forward, and healed herself.
In the finale, Dongxiao said a paragraph that made people very emotional.
She said that at first, when she knew that she was sick, she also had resentment and thought why she was herself, but after the operation, she said that she opened it all at once, and she also wanted to open a lot.
Perhaps it is through death that I know how precious it is to be alive and how fortunate it is to live in the present.
She said that in fact, each of us needs healing, psychologically, physically, "What about me, the problem I have to face in this life is to let go and reconcile with myself." ”
She did, let go of the past, and in the face of the huge amount of hair that was falling out day by day, she simply shaved, like a newborn, from scratch.
For Dongxiao, the moment is the most important, but the moment she took off her hat, it was quite bald.
Admire Dongxiao's courage, and also admire Zhu Zhu.
At the end of the play, he also gave the audience an Easter egg, but Zhu Zhu's appearance is really resistant, and the bald head is not something that anyone can control.
Of course, some people complain that this shape appears to have a thick back neck and deep neck lines on the chin.
For this, actor Zhu Zhu did not shy away.
In fact, this drama is the first drama filmed by Zhu Zhu's comeback after giving birth, when she was just three months after giving birth, all her body functions had not yet recovered, plus she also had breast milk, so her state was not very good.
Therefore, Zhu Zhu was also a little unconfident at first.
But when she finished reading the role of Dongxiao and knew that she wanted to play with Huang Bo, she took the role without hesitation.
Dongxiao in the play is a frank and sincere woman, but she has her own entanglements and heart ties.
Her growth is like a healing process, in which she reconciles with herself, finds the right way for herself to open her life, and is given a new life.
The same is true for actor Zhu Zhu, who learned in Dongxiao that a person must be true to his heart in order to be happy.
Then it is to follow and face her heart truthfully, while maintaining the balance of life, which is exactly what she has to experience and face at the moment.
So she created the role of Dongxiao, and thus found her confidence, not limited to the anxiety of female appearance and figure, and finally boldly showed such a new look to the audience.
04
I have seen such a sentence:
"There is no better state for a person, with stories written in his eyes and no frost on his face."
This sentence is most appropriate for Dongxiao, she has experienced all the "suffering", she has been unable to let go because of a certain obsession, and she has envied the lives of others.
But after experiencing some things and seeing the suffering of others, she understood the tastelessness of obsession, so she let go and chose a new life.
When life threw her another difficult problem, she also resented why it was herself, but when she experienced life and death, she found that nothing is better than being alive, and nothing is more precious than the present.
So she chooses to let go, let go of obsessions, choose beauty, live in the moment, and start again.
Zhu Zhu is also, she was known by the outside world from the beginning of "Global Baimei", but she knows that this is just a business card that the outside world knows her, and this business card is given by her parents, not by her own efforts.
So she doesn't pay attention to it, she dares to break the audience's inherent cognition of her, returns to filming three months after giving birth, challenges the bald head shape so that everyone sees a different Zhuzhu, in the future, she also wants to challenge more different roles that are not beautiful, looking forward to it.
Mr. Feng Zikai said: Do not think about the past, do not fear the future, do not mess with feelings, do not get trapped in the heart, so, very good! ”
I deeply believe that the most rare thing in life is to let go, only by letting go of yourself and treating yourself well, can you truly live yourself.
I hope that on the path of cultivation, you can reconcile with yourself and the world earlier, so that you can have less trouble and attachment, and more relief and joy; Less regret and pain, more open-mindedness and gratitude.
Above, together.