The Spring Festival escaped the urging of the seven aunts and eight aunts, and now it is getting closer and closer to Valentine's Day, and the date of large-scale abuse is coming again, who do you plan to spend with on February 14 this year? I believe that some single friends are starting to worry again.
A woman in Hubei posted on a social platform an experience of psychological changes before and after her blind date caused heated discussions among netizens, you know, for many older leftover women, they long for love, longing for marriage but willing to remain single all the time, either on a blind date, or on the road to blind date, people are puzzled.
In the video footage, the woman first said: "Before the blind date, I thought that the other party would make money, and external conditions such as appearance and height were not important; As a result, after the blind date, I found that I didn't really love money that much."
After that, the woman said: "Before the blind date, he (the man) had a house and a car in a first-tier city, and after the blind date, I can actually be single for a few more years; I won't pick it before the blind date, forget it, let's get married in place, and this marriage does not have to be married after the blind date; I don't care what the man asks before the blind date, but not after the blind date, I don't agree with this..."
The woman seemed to laugh and sigh, so many blind dates finally did not pass the level in her heart, and finally concluded: "In fact, a person can live alone", netizens said after watching this video: "Too real", for which netizens talked a lot.
Netizen opinion:
Some netizens commented that saying these words implies that the initiative is on the woman's side, but in fact, it is not, and the man actually thinks the same way.
Some netizens commented that women can have anything as long as they are young, and men can have anything as long as they have money... Both parties need to figure out their role in the marriage... It's just that time doesn't look back.
Some netizens also commented that blind date is to let a group of boys who are the least able to get girls to get a group of girls who are the most difficult to get.
The author thinks that most young people do not have a social circle to know themselves, blind dates are still a better way, and there are quite a lot of objects; In terms of living, appearance is not the most important, the other party's stable emotions and personality, a sense of responsibility for the family, and willingness to spend money for you are the key.