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Why did the public tolerate Li Xiaolu but not forgive Dong Jie? Because more heinous than lying is bullying

The relationship between Pan Yueming and Dong Jie is a mystery, which has been repeatedly reversed and suspense in recent days——

On February 5, Pan Yueming sent birthday wishes to his son Dingding and gave his ex-wife Dong Jie.

"Sending blessings through the air" is Pan Yueming's regular operation every year, which should not have caused a sensation, but Dong Jie actually forwarded the comment:

"He's definitely getting better and better."

On February 9, it was revealed that "Pan Yueming is married for the second time", this news once became a hot search, but Pan Yueming did not respond for a long time...

If you really marry someone else, why don't you respond? Isn't there a need to consider the feelings of the new wife for the sake of Dong Jie? If he remarried Dong Jie, why didn't he admit it?

Also, when did Pan Dong and the two quietly resume mutual relations? What a love suspense movie!

Let's not talk about marriage, let's guess "reconciliation" -

It is estimated that no one believes that Dong Jie reconciled with Pan Yueming because of love, after all, her ex-husband has stood like a "Wang'er Stone" for so many years, and she has never given hope, to put it bluntly, the "knot" of the relationship between the two has always been stuck in Dong Jie.

So this time "agreed to settle", what medicine did Dong Jie sell in this gourd? Do you want to bring goods to live broadcast, or for ex-husband traffic, or to prepare for the top debut?

Guess 1: Pan Yueming's suggestion to alleviate the traffic crisis?

After netizens dug deeply, they found that the "fit" action of the two had long been -

On the tenth day of the first lunar month, the back of the man in Dong Jie's fireworks photo is not his new boyfriend, but Pan Yueming;

That in November 2022, Pan Yueming's late-night realization "Is there a difference between thinking about you and dying" has nothing to do with Yin Shuyi, but said it to his ex-wife?

From the perspective of "good for the children", the outside world should bless the new state of the two, but what happened to them in the past makes it difficult to believe the reality in front of them.

I still remember that when the two got married, Dong Jie's studio first made a difficulty, using "small compositions", "sword finger" Pan Yueming was addicted to gambling, domestic violence and rudeness, and created for himself the image of a virtuous wife who "paid off debts for her ex-husband".

After this "Miaobi", almost the entire network stood on Dong Jie's side, and only Pan Yueming's agent and Li Xiaoran spoke for him.

Even the "enthusiastic actor" Wang Dazhi also survived Dong Jie on behalf of the people of Shaanxi in the name of a friend.

Until later, the video of Dong Jie and Wang Dazhi's kiss was exposed, and the public began to turn around and eat melons, and public opinion reversed.

At this time, the popular acting students in the entertainment industry in the past have long become uncles that no one cares about.

Fortunately, the crossover singer king in 2016, Pan Yueming sang with the shock of rock, which brought himself a career turnaround.

This image happened to be seen by Wang Wei, the director of "Chasing the Murderer in the White Night", and Wang Wei's eyes lit up - finally someone is suitable for acting in twins with different personalities in the play.

Wang Wei's "appreciation" was replaced by a straightforward expression - Pan Yueming's personality at that time was split like the two. [Cover face]

Why did the public tolerate Li Xiaolu but not forgive Dong Jie? Because more heinous than lying is bullying

The following year, "White Night Chasing" became a phenomenal online drama with a score of 8.9 on Douban, and Pan Yueming also changed from a declining god to a "counterattack god king", ranking among the "top 10 of the new media index ranking" with traffic stars such as Lu Han and Yang Mi.

(At that time, the response of "White Night Chase" was the same as that of "Crazy", which was just recently broadcast, with almost zero bad reviews and unfinished.) )

Pan Yueming's "second spring of career" has been in full swing since then: "Nu Qing Xiangxi" and "Longling Labyrinth", word-of-mouth works one after another.

Pan Yueming, with his strength, crushed the trivial emotional disputes of pickles, so that the public remembered his roles and works.

However, the "second spring" lasted only 5 years, and he once again suffered a severe blow.

On December 25, 2022, the official website of the Shanghai Municipal Administration for Market Regulation released a penalty notice:

Actor Pan Yueming endorsed illegal health product advertisements, and was confiscated about 258,000 yuan of illegal income and fined about 258,000 yuan.

In the rise of the "rising stars" Yu Hewei and Zhang Songwen, the "new top of the uncle circle", the aura belonging to Pan Yueming is getting smaller and smaller, and it is gradually submerged in small transparency.

After 5 years of career troughs, if Pan Yueming does not make some noise, he may have to walk barefoot again.

Therefore, the first conjecture is that the "Great Reconciliation of the Century" is a "hype" suggested by Pan Yueming, and the reason why Dong Jie agrees also has his own careful thinking.

Guess 2: Follow the trend and pave the way for the top debut

Dong Jie and Pan Yueming's son Dingding, now 14 years old.

After 10 years, Pan Yueming's birthday wishes to his son turned out to be just simple eight characters of "my son is so handsome, happy birthday"?

Imagine, a father who has been absent for 10 years at his son's birthday banquet, can he reunite with his son, is it really possible to be so calm?

Why did the public tolerate Li Xiaolu but not forgive Dong Jie? Because more heinous than lying is bullying

Looking at the two of them, they have been divorced for 11 years, and they have not interacted with each other before, and they can be called "the strongest grudge on the surface"... Suddenly it was harmonious.

Only the four words "for the top" can be explained.

However, it is unlikely to be "to have a complete home at the top".

Because the 4-year-old, who needed family care the most at the top, they separated without hesitation.

And Dong Jie has also been immersed in the role of "aggrieved mother": after all, she is the only one in the entertainment industry who can be "mouth-to-mouth to kiss her son" and "want to be more beautiful than her future daughter-in-law". When recording variety shows, she even forcibly said to her son:

"There is no way, we all have to accept the reality that I am like this, and my son must be like this."

In other words, Dong Jie would rather her son have a psychological distortion than resume a normal relationship with the child's biological father... How could she get back together after 11 years in order to "let the child have a complete family" like "control"?

So there is only one answer, let the star couple "combine", may be to let the son with a "star look" debut, after all, it is difficult to do other work to achieve a daily salary of 208w...

Guess three: Dong Jie wants to come back to bring goods, brush the good feeling in advance?

Comeback with goods, almost all stars go downhill choice.

After Dong Jie derailed that year, the pure filter was broken, and within a year, she went from the "big heroine" café position to "no drama".

In other words, a good hand of cards was played by his own hands, not to mention, and he also messed up his own actor's job.

But Dong Jie is not a person who likes to admit defeat, and her connections do not look down on her.

"Leng Qingqiu" did not really snub Qingqiu, it was "Jin Yanxi" who worked hard to find a harmless "scheming mistress" Tang Lin in "Tiger Mother Cat Dad", but unfortunately, the focus of public attention was all on Zhao Wei.

Then Chen Kun helped her connect with Zhou Xun, and Brother Xun personally recommended to the director, and found white moonlight in the early stage and black belly in the later stage for Dong Jie in "The Legend of Ruyi", and her appearance once crushed her good role as Empress Fucha, but she was ruthlessly beaten by her competitor Qin Lan.

In this way, Dong Jie, who missed the golden period of her career, was directly downgraded from the "head of a generation of jade women" to the mother of the head of the jade woman, although the resources have not been broken, but there is no sign of becoming popular, and every time the film and television works face huge controversy.

If the performance is not excellent, it is "comprehensive", but Dong Jie did not make many splashes, and the audience who participated in "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves" still did not like her, and the comment area was always a singing decline:

"When you see her, just skip it."

"Why can artists like Chen He and Dong Jie who have long been derailed by public opinion be able to bounce in the entertainment industry, but Li Xiaolu cannot? Don't be too double-labeled. ”

There are also more fierce words, saying that she will not look at it for a second, and directly let Dong Jie GUN.

Why can't the public forgive Dong Jie?

Why can't the public forgive Dong Jie? For 11 years, the cheating grudges of ordinary divorced star couples, as long as they themselves do not mention it, no one will want to remember it anymore.

But when it comes to Dong Jie and Pan Yueming's remarriage, most people's perception is "impossible"; Even after the two people showed signs of reconciliation, everyone felt that this would not be what Dong Jie really wanted... Why are the public's "stereotypes" so deep?

The answer is not that cheating cannot be forgiven, but that bullying cannot be forgiven.

Some people say that Dong Jie has a pure face, a lying mouth and a femme fatale intestine.

In fact, she still has a bullying heart!

When she and Pan Yueming got married, both the coffee position and the love were strong women and weak men - marriage was not equal.

The terrible thing about an unequal marriage is that it is easy to raise the lusts in the hearts of both parties: one is more humble, the other is more ruthless.

The same is true of Li Xiaolu and Jia Nailiang, Li Xiaolu once said that Jia Nailiang:

"He chased me very hard, and at an informal family dinner, after drinking, he cried aggrieved in front of my parents..."

After Li Xiaolu's cheating was exposed, Jia Nailiang exchanged the so-called "forgiveness" for the maintenance of the relationship, but even if it was "low to the dust", the two could not last.

Dong Jie and Pan Yueming became acquainted because of the filming of "Red Clothes Place", and when they were in love, Dong Jie created the character of "Golden Boy and Jade Girl".

After not in love, he immediately "hit a rake", so that Pan Yueming changed from a flying son in the entertainment industry to a "scumbag" that everyone shouted at.

Even if the truth came out later, Dong Jie did not apologize to Pan Yueming.

What about Pan Yueming? What did he lose more than reputation?

There is no drama to film, the financial resources are cut off, and the child has not been seen for eight or nine consecutive years, only because the ex-wife refused to visit.

Every year on the child's birthday, Pan Yueming can only send blessings from the air, even the child's grandfather is seriously ill and hospitalized, and Dong Jie is sent away with a sentence of "no obligation".

Dong Jie has never "let go" of Pan Yueming over the years, so when the "Great Reconciliation of the Century" arrives, people will wonder, is this the poisoned milk candy she set up to throw to Pan Yueming?

Everything is just for commercial value: to "bind a family" to increase the exposure of the three, by the way "tentatively change Dong Jie's reputation", but also to make the top debut smoothly, why not try the steady profit?

But it is difficult to guarantee, if this trick is not good, Pan Yueming may face "falling into the emotional valley" again. Thinking about it this way, compared with Dong Jie and Li Xiaolu, Li Xiaolu is indeed a little better, lying and cheating are morally flawed, but the latter still has a conscience.

Imagine how the girl who was rewarded with food by God walked and walked, and she felt that she was begging carefully?

The best expectation is that the two "reconcile" rather than "remarry", and there will be no reversal in the follow-up, and there will be no more lying and bullying!

Otherwise, even if Dingding successfully debuts, he will not be able to save Dong Jie.

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