Sure enough, ruthless people are muffled to do big things!
On the afternoon of the tenth day of the Lunar New Year, Hu Ge announced on Weibo without warning that he was married and had a daughter - married, female, double bomb!
Yes, when you watched "The Courtyard of the County Party Committee" a few months ago, you were still fooling him on the screen, people were already famous and mastered, and not only marriage, but also children.
From love to marriage to confinement, there is no leakage of a little wind, this secrecy work is simply too good, Mr. Hu is worthy of being an actor who has played "The Pretender".
Just like that, caught off guard, the luxurious best man group that was talked about by Yuan Hong's wedding lost a fierce general, so he asked Peng Yuyan if he was under pressure?
However, on the whole, although Hu Ge's wave of "official announcement" was like a thunder on the ground, which woke up the fishing workers who had worked for seven or eight or nine days, but in addition to being surprised, everyone still sent blessings to the old Hu, who has always been good on the road.
Even Wuling Automobile, endorsed by Hu Ge, rushed to join in the fun, saying, "In the future, who dares to say that Xiao Wujia's car is a single car."
This hot spot is wonderful, not only cutting its own question, but also revealing the meaning of "hard work and fruit".
You know, Hu Ge's love road is also quite bumpy, this time many old fans saw his happy news, not only did not sour the "sister-in-law", but also automatically gave birth to a kind of in-law family relief - "Ouch, can be regarded as marrying." ”
The predecessors who "saw the light and died"
In the official announcement Weibo this time, Hu Ge especially emphasized that "the wife is not a public figure", which may also be the final choice to learn the lessons of failure.
Because in the twenty years since his debut, he has only publicly admitted two relationships, and the heroines are both female stars who are also active in front of the screen.
One is Xue Jianing, the "sister girlfriend" who never gave up when he was in a car accident, and the other is Jiang Shuying, a "pure girl" who has not yet become a regular guest in major popular dramas.
Among them, the previous paragraph is more deeply rooted and lasts longer. Years later, the woman's unmarried practice and the man's tearful eyes interpreted BE aesthetics to the extreme. Whoever hears it sighs and sighs.
Then curious baby I have to ask: Since it is so good, why has it not been able to achieve positive results? Since the most difficult times were spent together, why did they end up breaking up after Hu Ge's comeback?
Hu Ge's own answer:
First, he is more macho, insisting that "the man should feed and take care of the woman";
The second is that the woman is older, and he can't give people the life they want.
It can be said that it is euphemistic and clear, I try to enrich it:
After the baptism of car accident and the interruption of his career, Hu Ge was not very confident in the first two years of his comeback, although his body was healed, his spirit was weak.
Uncertain about who I am and who I am and who I will become.
The more a person is in this situation, the more he needs to prove himself, specifically at the level of love and marriage - "That can't always let you take care of me, I'm a big man should support you." "He needs to gain a sense of value by being dependent.
The discipline of traditional society coupled with his sensitivity and vulnerability at that time led him to probably regard the woman's efforts as a burden and a weapon to dampen his self-esteem, and could not rely on the other party with peace of mind. So I still hope to wait until one day when my career ushers in a turnaround before considering getting married.
But the woman is four years older than him, and about 30 is the age of being urged to get married, so under various pressures, the two broke up decisively without delay.
It's just that many years after the breakup, the woman's performance is obviously much more indifferent than the man's.
Let's look at the section with Jiang Shuying, which lasted only about a year, it was said that it was because of the drama, and as a result, the two had broken up when the play was broadcast, and they had to be forced to appear at the press conference at the same time, so it was not embarrassing.
Like Xue Jianing's part, they were also underground at the beginning, but they were photographed eating and feeding each other at the airport, and Hu Ge had to admit their relationship 5 days later.
Then there is a similar plot - it's good not to be exposed, not long after it was made public, the love affair between this idol male partner Xiaobaihua ended hastily.
It is worth mentioning that the forced confession of love after being photographed is also a little twist and turn.
After the celebration banquet of the drama "Dream Like a Dream", Hu Ge sent four Weibo posts in a row with drunkenness, with a sentence in it - "Looking at the Jiang Hu sorry to disappoint everyone", which seemed to hint at a breakup. He also said, "I beg you to let the actor go," as if the media and netizens had stirred him up.
Can we add punctuation
After the drinking, he posted a small essay with reasonable logic, taking the initiative to admit his problem "I can't share my real life with her", and begged forgiveness, let go, and begged for blessings.
Is this operation a bit similar to Wang Xiaofei?
It is said that he suspected that the so-called being filmed was the result of the hype of Jiang Shuying and the brokerage team, so he felt betrayed before drunkenly venting his emotions. Then the truth came out, and the article was republished.
At this point, the two relationships have been sorted out here, and for some reason, I have a very tired and unhappy feeling at this moment.
When talking, I was careful and hidden, and after the breakup, I was affectionately nostalgic and regretful in every way, and I couldn't wait to order a song "It's a pity it's not you" on the spot.
Hu Ge, this person, is a little machismo, and a little bit of hypocrisy and fragility of the male protagonist. On the one hand, it is quite painful, on the other hand, people do not want to be taken care of all the time.
From his girlfriend's point of view: that suffocated, screwed, and wanted to roar seems to be particularly ignorant.
Self-imposed view of love
Under the closer taste, you will find that his love story always carries a pathos filter - "I love her very much, we are all good, but it backfires." ”
You know, it's the sad feelings that the whole world is doing with themselves in love.
Only...... Whether it is "not public" or "timely stop loss" after exposure, Hu Ge seems to be very sensitive and jealous of resistance in love, and the handling method is cautious and negative - either hide it, or immediately call a stop, never owe a little "love whom, love first and then say" fearlessness.
"Mother's opinion" is one of the more well-known obstacles to Hu Ge's marriage relationship, so he gave his own set of logic - must pass my mother's pass, otherwise it will be an even greater obstacle to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future.
Also...... It makes sense, but with your attitude, it is difficult not to doubt your position and way of dealing with the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Besides, when does this have to be delayed, where is there so many excellent solutions in life? There are already too many reluctance and accommodation in life, can you have a little determination and courage to go against the current in the face of major events in life! The resistance is washed away, can't it all be bypassed, right?
In addition, star identity is also another back-pot man of Hu Ge. He often casually complains that the media and the public have deprived him of his personal space, but in other cases in your circle, external causes have never been the main cause.
Luhan is such a big top stream, 2017 is the time to rise, didn't he expose his relationship regardless of the wails of fans and the loss of fans?
And guess what? More than five years ago, this little couple in the center of the entertainment industry was stunned, and came out from time to time to show affection.
And Takuya Kimura, who was popular all over Asia at the time, the idol ceiling, fascinated thousands of girls, didn't he also announce his marriage news with Shizuka when he was in the limelight?
What happened next? He Meimei has become a model couple in your circle for more than 20 years!
Love is stronger than Jin, and only then can you withstand the stormy waves.
What's more, the so-called stormy waves are often just out of imagination. I agree with the different opinions Lu Yu gave in the issue of "Lu Yu Has a Covenant" that "shakes the red wine glass", when Hu Ge constantly emphasizes "how much others need him and how great his responsibility is".
Everyone has their own life, and life can be without you.
So instead of saying that others need you and hold you back, you enjoy feeling needed and noticed. (I'll add this sentence.) ）
Hu Ge's "heavy responsibility, can't get out, can't take vacation" sounds like a "sweet burden". He enjoys being "needed", so it is difficult to allow himself to be willful, and he can only constantly coordinate and balance, hoping not to slow down on either side.
But "either side" is ultimately divided into high and low.
Obviously, when career and love conflict, parents' intentions conflict with love, when machismo feelings conflict with love, love and lovers can always become the one to be coordinated, and finally he can only balance this small debt with tears and reluctance.
Because there is only one pair of parents, and there is only this part of the career, girlfriends can be changed, but when they are not needed by their parents, directors, and fans, they can't be chased back.
So, don't look at what he said, how many tears he shed, and how compatible he is with the male protagonist of the idol drama, whether he does something difficult for you is the touchstone of true love.
Sensible Xiao Hu
Many people say that Hu Ge is a mom boy, and I think "a good child who understands things" may be more appropriate.
His behavior patterns in love are, to some extent, a continuation of the original family relationship.
He is the only child in the family, and his parents have placed ardent expectations on him, especially the mother's early health is not good, and she must have invisibly given the realization of the value of her life to her son.
Therefore, Hu Geda is a typical sensible child, who cares about his parents' words and deeds, is afraid of making his parents unhappy because of his own reasons, and at the same time hopes to be recognized, and will not easily challenge authority.
He shared two things in "Lu Yu Has a Covenant":
In fact, that year he was already admitted to the directing department of the Central Academy of Drama, but later he was admitted to the acting department of the Shanghai Theater Academy.
One of the important reasons is that you don't want to be too far away from your parents and you want to reduce the burden on your family.
As early as middle school, he was already famous in the Shanghai advertising circle, so he could basically take care of his living expenses by shooting advertisements in Shanghai, which could make his parents less busy and laborious.
I thought to myself: Fortunately in Shanghai, if it were in a small county, wouldn't such a good seedling be buried?
The second is that earlier, he received an advertisement for 1,000 yuan, which was much higher than the previous payment, he was very excited, as soon as he returned home, he told his parents this exciting good news, but what he waited for was the expressionless and unusually calm faces of the two elders.
Why is that?
On the one hand, the parents are introverted and have a lot of money, and the main reason is that both people subconsciously feel a kind of panic of being left behind by their sons and being thrown farther and farther away - "His wings are hard, he is going to fly away, aren't we going to be abandoned?" ”
An invisible rope has been tied between Hu Ge's feet and his parents, he can't be unsuccessful, then his parents will be disappointed, he can't be too dashing and determined, then his parents will be sad.
Over time, he got used to using himself as a container to carry the emotions of his parents, and he was also accustomed to being a good child who understood things, trying to make his parents happy and happy.
It's just that he has to sacrifice some of his personal will for this, and the real him can only stay silently in a small corner to comfort himself and entertain himself.
Then take out his performance in love, which can be completely matched with these habits cultivated by playing small.
1. I will take care of you, I don't want to trouble you - used to not causing trouble to parents, and used to taking care of others.
2, do not disclose the relationship, I can't bear to let you go through those storms - because parents are too fragile to withstand many things, it is tacitly accepted that other people are also so vulnerable.
3, you have a hard time understanding me, I hide something from you - because I often suppress myself in order to cater to my parents, automatically thicken the barriers between people, and do not feel that anyone can really understand themselves.
Therefore, the essence of Hu Ge is a depressed old good person, pursuing everything properly and perfectly, but he has a similar hobby to Wang Xiaofei - often need to say some commotion and make some small nerves through drunkenness.
Fortunately, the profession of actor gives him the opportunity to vent his true temperament in his works, allowing him to show his multiple charms in front of the public.
Otherwise, a man like Hu Ge is just a good gentleman by our side, invulnerable and occasionally sullen. At first, I felt perfect (also from the evaluation of my ex-girlfriend Xue Jianing), but I only felt bored and not tired enough.
Author: Miss Bovary
Follow me, read people's hearts and understand the customs in the entertainment world.