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"Song Joong Ki officially announced that he would remarry and become a father", which reminded me how quickly this time passed: it turned out that he and Song Huiqiao had been divorced for four years.
My memory is still stuck in the grand wedding of their 17th wedding year, which shocked the entertainment circles in China and South Korea at that time.
"Descendants of the Sun" is so hot, and today I dare not watch it a second time.
Song Joong Ki admitted through his agency in December that he was dating a British woman, and now just after the Spring Festival, he officially announced that he was remarried and became a father.
Men are really easier to come out of a failed marriage and invest in the next relationship, and they quickly flash pregnancies, who calls them to get pregnant at zero cost? If a woman is pregnant, she may tie her whole life and affect her career because of giving birth; But men don't have any effect, saying that being a father is being a father.
Also because Song Zhongji has children so quickly, it has attracted some netizens to comment: This was the divorce of Shuang Song, is it that Qiao Mei does not want to have children, Qiao Mei is four years older than Song Zhongji, and when she got married, she was an advanced mother, which man suffered. If you get married and don't have children, you can only divorce.
Seeing such comments, I can only smile, and I am even more glad that Song Huiqiao does not have children, so she can divorce and divorce so cleanly.
They have been divorced for four years, and the melon-eating masses are still paying attention to the two of them, perhaps because the drama "Descendants of the Sun" has so much stamina, so that many people can't accept it now, why are the two of them so sudden.
This also tells us: Do you think that when the prince and princess are together, they are really happy? It is appropriate to fall in love, marriage may not be appropriate, they will still have frivolous things in marriage, and they can't bear the painful days, so they can only divorce.
Marriage is fair to anyone, and even if you get married because of love, it is still difficult to survive the test of reality.
We can't overestimate love and marriage too much, marriage will not be a lifetime, can deal with the problems in marriage will be a lifetime. Two people who seem to be very well matched, have had vigorous love, but still can't live under the same roof.
Marriage is really difficult, it is even more difficult to meet the wrong person, no one wants to make do with life, does not want to delay their life, and there is a divorce. Marriage is for happiness, why is divorce not for happiness, want to let go of their own way of life?
But I don't understand why they are all divorced, or there are always people who like to compare them to each other. It's like Song Joongji remarried and had children, what does it have to do with Song Huiqiao? It's been divorced for four years, do you want to be pulled out again to say it? Each has its own happiness, and happiness cannot be defined by marriage, nor can unhappiness be defined by singleness.
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In real life, comparisons like this also abound, as if they are all for a breath, and whoever remarries first wins.
What I want to say is that there is no point in you comparing yourself to your ex, is it really good if you show off that you are doing well? Since the two people are separated, they must live their lives in peace, and fortunately they are not happy to know themselves.
Ms. Dong's ex-husband remarried, and her ex-mother-in-law specially came to inform her: My son is married, and you will let Panpan (her daughter) participate in it.
Ms. Dong thought to herself, the knot is knotted, what's the big deal.
But what she didn't expect was that the former mother-in-law was miraculous in front of her, and said strangely: "Let you divorce my son at the beginning, and now I regret it, I tell you that my son is not worried about marrying a wife, and he also found a younger than you and more beautiful than you." ”
The mother-in-law's invincible appearance is nothing more than saying how much of a failure Ms. Dong is.
"I wish your son got married quickly, I bless him, we both started his way from the day of divorce, I went my way, and everything was broken early." As long as he pays his daughter child support on time, I won't go to him. Just live your own life and don't bother me. I love my life now, and finally I don't live in a painful marriage like I did before. Living with your son is hell and a nightmare. ”
Ms. Dong's life after the divorce was quite dashing, and in her words, she was finally out of the sea of suffering.
When she was not divorced, her ex-husband did not care about the children, and she still fooled around with fox and dog friends outside all day, and once it was Christmas Eve, she still went to the police station to pick people up. Endure and endure, no matter what mistake her ex-husband makes, she is tolerant, but patience has not been exchanged for people's gratitude, but has become more intense.
The reason why they divorced was because the ex-husband had an improper relationship with a female employee in the office, which happened to be filmed by the company's surveillance, and the surveillance video was also transmitted to the company group. Ms. Dong has friends in her ex-husband's company, and she will naturally know what happened.
After Ms. Dong knew the truth of the matter, she no longer wanted to endure it.
What is the point of such a marriage? There is no way for you not to care, he doesn't care if the child doesn't care about you and doesn't care about this family, is it useful for you to argue with him? Unlike continuing to live under the roof of quarrels all day, Ms. Dong resolutely chose to divorce.
When she divorced, her husband said to her: Don't regret it, I can find a younger and more beautiful.
Ms. Dong didn't care: you go find it, I won't accompany you.
After the divorce, Ms. Dong did not compare with her ex-husband, does her ex-husband have money and has anything to do with her? She just needs to live her immediate life. What is a real win after a divorce? Ms. Dong feels that life after divorce is better than in marriage.
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Of course, why Shuangsong divorced, we don't know, and there is no need to know. There is no one who loses and who wins in this file of marriage, if you live happily, you will continue to live, and if you can't go on, you will be separated in twos, there is no need to be unhappy, and you have to grievance yourself in order to maintain a vain marriage.
Adults, live authentically.
I don't like people who delay letting go of their ex after divorce, which is why I hate Zhang Wanting in "Goodbye Lover 2". People Qi Xi and Song Ningfeng divorced early and lived their own lives, Zhang Wanting mentioned Qi Xi eight hundred times in the program, and my ears heard the cocoon coming. I don't understand Zhang Wanting, why you always can't get by with Song Ningfeng's ex-wife, you are so inferior, you always want to compare with other people's ex.
Here I also remind the current of the second married man: since you know that he has an ex-wife when you are with him, and you accept the established facts, then you have to bear the consequences for the choices you make, don't look for trouble, and mention people's ex-wives at every turn.
Song Huiqiao is not too enviable in life now, her appearance is so high, she has money and status in the entertainment industry, she is still in her forties, and her charm is still undiminished, and the new drama is still very popular. We don't know whether other black materials are true or not, and that's not something we should care about. But Song Huiqiao's life will not be bad, rich and beautiful women, life after divorce should not be too dashing.
Song Joong Ki remarried, has his own children, is also very good, he has developed well in his career, last year's "The Little Son of the Chaebol Family" is very popular and very popular.
There is no one between the two of them who loses or wins, it can only be said: from the beginning, I was fascinated by the hormones of love, entered the marriage at the climax of love, thought that I could be happy, but finally had a big dream, woke up, and the marriage should be dissolved.
There is nothing to be sorry for, there is no need for two people who are not suitable to be tied together.
Divorce is a blessing for them.
It's been four years since they were divorced, and the parties have completely let go, so don't mention it again.
Two clear and two separated, each well, they are: one is different and two wide, each is happy.
Today's topic: Who remarries first after divorce wins? Welcome to leave a message.
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★ Author: YIBAO; The original creator of emotions, writing about the warm emotional things of this world.