For a long time, love has been a test of suitability between men and women, some people have known each other for a few days and choose to get married, and some people have been together for more than ten years, and still cannot enter the palace of marriage.
At this time, the question arises, men and women fall in love, consume the same time with each other, and whether the final loss is equivalent, this question has different answers on both the male and female sides.
The man said: absolutely not equivalent, the boy in love not only pays time, but also pays money, energy, dignity, and even career, much more than the woman's effort.
The woman said: the equivalent is absolutely impossible, the girl's time is worth more than the boy's, the girl's eighteen to thirty years old is the most precious years, after the past there will be no more, it is difficult to change, and the boy is the same at any age.
As for who is more valuable in the years of boys and girls, it can be reflected in Yang Di's love story.
Yang Di began to fall in love with a girl in the same class in 2006, and the two have been talking for sixteen years, it stands to reason that such a long time of love must have been together for marriage, but unexpectedly, Yang Di said that he had returned to singleness.
Many netizens heard that Yang Di broke up with his girlfriend of sixteen years, indiscriminately, and directly called Yang Di a "scumbag", but judging from the reaction of netizens, a girl's time is precious, because a woman should have a good sixteen years in her life.
Yang Di should have thought that his honesty would be understood by everyone, but he did not expect that Yang Di's image in the hearts of the majority of netizens plummeted, and in desperation, he had to respond to this matter, and from Yang Di's response, there are three things worth paying attention to.
The first point: I broke up with my girlfriend for a while, because everyone didn't ask before, but now that I asked, Yang Di said it frankly.
The second point: Yang Di said in 2019 that he would marry his girlfriend and have children, but now Yang Di said that the world is impermanent, and it is a pity that he did not enter the palace of marriage.
The third point: even if they break up, Yang Di said that he and his girlfriend are still good friends, so they can get together and scatter.
From Yang Di's explanation, I realized for the first time that falling in love can have another relationship in addition to getting married and having children, that is, friends who talk about everything, if you want to be friends, why did you want to fall in love in the first place, now I wasted a girl's sixteen years of youth, but in the end I got a friend, I feel that only Yang Di said so reasonable.
But since a girl can be with a boy for sixteen years, it shows that the girl definitely wants to enter the palace of marriage with a boy, and Yang Di's girlfriend must also want to become the most beautiful bride, Yang Di also promised her, but helplessly she met a "negative man".
Since Yang Di announced that he was single, it can be said that he is in the process of being scolded, the point is that Yang Di has also read many comments from netizens, perhaps because he thinks he is wronged, or he does not want to bear the black pot, so he said in detail the beginning and end of the relationship between the two.
From Yang Di's a lot of explanations, there are only 5 points of useful information.
1, the reason why I didn't have children in the sixteen years with my ex was because we reached a consensus with each other, so I didn't want it, so I got a pet and had no regrets about each other.
2, sixteen years with the ex, mutual feelings have long prevailed over partners, like relatives.
3, Yang Di said that he has never owed his predecessor, and praised himself as a grateful person.
4, sixteen years with his girlfriend, although not officially married, but this time the separation is like divorce, but each other has no willingness, enjoy such a life.
5. Clarify that his gossip girlfriend is his own sister.
Although I don't know if Yang Di is a "scumbag", his defense is an out-and-out "scumbag" behavior, first of all, he said that he did not owe his ex, in order to clarify that he also published the chat with his ex, in order to make himself go out early to scold, Yang Di was indeed a little too anxious.
Sometimes too much explanation is a cover-up.
And Yang Di said himself too clearly, and also said that his predecessor was too great.
Now Yang Di can be said to be a little famous in the entertainment industry, with continuous resources and a lot of money, even if he breaks up with his ex, Yang Di can still find young and beautiful girls to marry and have children, you know, although Yang Di is 37 years old, he is a little famous in the entertainment industry, and it is not a problem to find a little girl in her twenties.
But Yang Di's ex can't do whatever he wants, before Yang Di said that his girlfriend is an outsider, an ordinary girl, and Yang Di is almost forty years old, and now after breaking up with Yang Di, she is not qualified to find a young man, let alone have a happy relationship, because she was hurt so thoroughly.
When Yang Di and his girlfriend were together, they definitely had nothing, it can be said that without his girlfriend's silent support, without his girlfriend's inseparability, Yang Di would definitely not have today's achievements.
Now it's hot, turn around and say that you haven't owed people, it's really not ashamed to say this, you have both fame and fortune, and you will find a young and beautiful life in the future, and a girl in the family directly becomes a woman, and there are several young girls in sixteen years.
It is no exaggeration to say that Yang Di's ex may lose the opportunity to be a mother, and even die alone.
Now no matter how Yang Di explains, even if his predecessor comes forward to clarify for him, netizens no longer believe Yang Di's words, and in just one sixteen years, countless netizens have seen the true face of a man again.
I feel that a netizen said very truthfully, this netizen said: from ugly and poor companionship, when they survived to achieve fame, sure enough, the first thing that blind people threw away after restoring light was crutches.
What is love and what is marriage?
I personally feel that only lovers who have experienced storms together have true feelings, and those who can come together will definitely grow old together.
I don't envy those who live a life full of pearls, mountains and seafood, and those who go through the storm hand in hand are the most enviable.
Love is passion, marriage is faith, and only by living a mediocre life is you worthy of a happy life.