"To the Windy Place": With the most gentle blow, it reminds me of the warmth of this world again

Watching the first two episodes of "To the Windy Place", I was shocked: How can there be such a slow-paced drama this year!

In addition to the female beauty and handsome man - the female protagonist is as beautiful as a painting, and the male protagonist is really like "village grass", this rhythm can simply be used as background music.

(The cat's name is Jiahui)

But the further back you look, the more you feel "material".

The show shows a world where "we once had, but forgot":

There is the pure friendship between Nanxing and Hongdou: Hongdou quit her job and went to Yunnan only to fulfill her promise to her deceased girlfriend, and her girlfriend also protected her in the underworld and found true love and future in the "windy courtyard".

The "slow" love of Xu Hongdou and Xie Zhiyao is not the cheap love of adults who are "fascinated by color and calculating for things", but the "revolutionary love" of cherishing each other and working together.

There is the sisterhood of red rice and red beans that "quarrel for a lifetime"; There are "stupid dreamers" such as Barley, Lao Hu, and Ma Ye; There are also "ideal grandmothers" like Grandma Xie, who use her life experience to bring wisdom to bless her juniors, and can be childlike, kind and cute;

"To the Windy Place" may be the mainstream drama of the moment, but it is really successful and emotional enough - it uses the most gentle blow after blow to remind me of the warmth of this world again and again.

Red Bean's love for Chen Nanxing and Xie Zhiyao: gentle and powerful

Xu Hongdou is so lucky that in just 30 years of life, he met two loves: Chen Nanxing and Xie Zhiyao.

Of course, red beans are also worth it. After 30 years, she still has a good preservation of the "purity and truth" of feelings.

On the day that Ah Yao confessed to Red Bean on the shore of the Erhai Sea, what struck me was Red Bean's attitude.

Xie Zhiyao is a man with a very positive outlook, and his hair little persuades him to leave red beans in the village, and he retorts:

"Why do you envision me leaving her behind instead of me going with her?" Since I can't go with her, why should I ask people to stay for me? ”

Therefore, Xie Zhiyao had already thought of his position when he confessed: I like you, but it has nothing to do with you. You can continue to choose the life you want, and I wish you happiness.

He said: "Finally, I want to send you a memory, in the place where the wind blows by the sea, under the witness of the sunset and the setting sun, there is a person who seriously liked you. Go live the life you want to live! I wish you happiness. ”

Yes, although they had a similar starting point (he also worked in Beijing and had the glamour of an investment banking elite), but now he is just a "village grass" who returned to his hometown to start a business, and for a young woman who yearns for a big city and strives for an RV, Xie Zhiyao is too "poor" now.

After listening to the confession, Red Bean burst into tears.

Perhaps, in some sweet dramas, we will soon see the bridge of kissing and even starting to live together. But Hongdou didn't, after she was deeply moved, she only hugged Xie Zhiyao, and then retreated "an arm's length away" before her heart moved.

This distance is Hongdou's sense of responsibility - if he has not decided well, he will never touch Xie Zhiyao's fiery and sensitive heart.

She understands the importance of career to each other and the weight of love in her heart. You must have enough patience and seriousness to restrain your "love brain" at that moment and meet the long-term happiness in the future.

Red beans are the same for Chen Nanxing.

At the beginning of watching the play, I simply and rudely thought that Hongdou went to Yunnan to forget Nanxing, and then return to the city to make money.

But I guessed the original intention and purpose wrong. Hongdou went to Yunnan to fulfill Nanxing's wishes, not only to heal injuries, but also to understand the meaning of living, and to figure out the meaning of "living in the judgment of others" for Nanxing.

She and no one mentioned Nanxing, but only said to Xie Zhiyao on a fragile night:

“...... My uneasiness and fear, and my doubts about life are hard to talk about... What am I? I, not even qualified to grieve for so long. ”

The pain of red beans is the contradiction and struggle between inner truth and worldly judgment.

Or Xie Zhiyao saw through him at a glance:

"The moral standards you set for yourself are so harsh that you need to qualify even for pain and how long it takes."

The "heart pimples" were solved by Xie Zhiyao, and the red beans were finally relieved.

When she returned to Shanghai, the first time she went not to go home but to see Nanxing's parents first. Shopping, cooking, dyeing their hair... She made Nanxing's parents feel "the joy of heaven that Nanxing should enjoy if Nanxing is still there".

When Nanxing's mother, crying in pain while holding Nanxing's portrait in the dead of night, Hongdou stood by her side:

"Auntie, let's sleep together tonight, talk to me about Nanxing... A friend of mine told me that when we talk about a person, she exists, and when we don't talk about her, she doesn't exist... Let's talk more about her! ”

She has been trying to turn the pain left by Nanxing into good memories, whether it is for Nanxing's parents or herself.

The charm of red beans is that her love is always so true, so pure, so gentle and powerful.

Grandma Xie and Aunt Gui: Optimistic and affectionate, facing the sea and blossoming in spring

Watching this drama, it was Grandma Xie who gave me the second gentle blow.

Wu Yanshu presented the audience with a cute, beautiful and storytelling "grandma".

When she was young, she snatched a young man with the best singing "Xie Aye", and seriously treasured her all her life.

She firmly believes that Grandpa Xie has not left her, and although she is gone, she must be running and protecting her descendants.

Therefore, when she brought her children and grandchildren to visit the grave, she always patted the tombstone carefully and told her wife "don't be lazy".

She will also separate her children and grandchildren, stay alone with her wife for a while, shed tears for a while, and then converge in time to bring her children and grandchildren home with a smile.

The eldest grandson Xie Zhiyao has no mother, Grandma Xie usually looks at the petted little grandson, but quietly calls her son to cry poor and ask for money, quietly saves up for the eldest grandson, supports this child who has no mother pain and is sensible, so that he can do what he likes in the future...

Xie Zhiyao liked a girl from Beijing, and Grandma Xie neither gossiped nor poured cold water, but silently treated the girl well.

From time to time, I use my experience in chasing "Grandpa Xie" to support my grandson:

"What about gone? Keep chasing. "Don't be in a hurry, cold is not a bad thing."

This last trick is the most philosophical:

"What you want, don't wait for others to give, fight for yourself." Cheer up! ”

Grandma Xie is really too cute, an optimistic old lady all her life!

As optimistic as Grandma Xie, there is Aunt Gui.

Many netizens recognized that Aunt Gui was "Lady Li" in "The Legend of Sword and Fairy".

Aunt Gui is the "stick drinker" of "Ma Ye", and she once woke up Ma Ye's passive escape with a "stick".

In Aunt Gui's opinion, since you are doing something, why are you still struggling to do it? Ma Ye was ordered by her and returned to entrepreneurship.

And "Aunt Feng", whose daughter died in infancy and her son was imprisoned, quarreled with her because she was jealous of Aunt Gui.

When Aunt Feng's husband fell ill, it was Aunt Agui who drove her to the hospital, and asked the old sister to pay attention to her body, stewed a pot of beef for her to eat all, and ate Aunt Feng's vegetable dumplings herself.

"When Xie Qiang comes out and sees you two old skins and bones, what will he think? Would he like to see that? ”

Aunt Agui means: look ahead, look on the good side.

Everyone has bad things, she herself is always let go of pigeons by her son, but is it not a day to earn the fifty yuan? Life is to live the present well, as long as you face the sea, you will be able to blossom in spring.

Tears of barley and red rice: In addition to being busy surviving, life has ...

The little writer Barley gave me a gentle blow twice: once when she was drunk on her birthday, and once when she "confessed" to Nana.

In the past, barley always avoided the bohemian old Hu, and it can be said that Barley and Lao Hu in the small courtyard were "the farthest away".

Until his birthday, under Nana's planning, hearing Lao Hu's song for himself, Barley suddenly found that he judged a person with prejudice.

So, she drank the wine in the cup again and again, respecting Teacher Hu... Only for her to ignore the sincerity, enthusiasm and talent of a friend, what a "real" girl!

From that day on, Barley walked out of the siege of relationships that were "wrapped in negative reviews". Later, Barley actually "confessed" to Nana:

"Do you know how the wind is formed? It flows from a warm place to a cold place ... Your air is flowing to me, so my air is ready to flow to you. ”

This paragraph is really touching! The breaking of the ice of human relations is like flowers blooming, soil exubering fragrance, and all things growing freely...

In addition to the tears of barley, the tears of Xu Hongmi, who was "born with a blade", also made me feel cute.

She came to Yunmiao Village to see her sister and asked her sister to go to Shanghai to join her, but Hongdou refused: "It's because you're there that I don't go." ”

A person as strong as Red Rice, but he was drunk and cried because of this sentence.

"You don't tell me anything now, how I miss you when you were little, running behind my ass... You just hate me. ”

In fact, for Xu Hongmi, the vast mansion outside can not resist his sister's smile.

She described her life as "going with the flow, always on the side of the majority, with a safety card in hand." She looked strong and tired.

She slowly became numb to everything, but she could remember every word of her sister's argument. She has seen everything in the world, but she rarely makes flower cakes made by her sister.

Perhaps, that "indisputable sister" is also the most childlike sustenance in her heart!

If I had to give the ultimate review of "To the Windy Place", I would say that it is a bit like the modern version of "Please Answer 1988", which captures subtle family affection, love, and friendship.

If I had to rename the show, I'd call it "Finding Where the Heart Is Still There."

Because of each of the characters in it, Xie Auntie, Xie Zhiyao, Xu Hongdou, Xu Hongmi, Chen Nanxing... They are all replacing us, looking at the scenery we have not yet seen, and feeling the world that "has not been lost".

There, we are young, not arrogant or impetuous. Girlfriends are beautiful, lovers are handsome, relatives are warm, and the sun is just right.