In the cultural tradition of the Chinese nation, persuasion is to persuade people by watching plays and listening to books, and now movies, TV series, legal columns, etc. educate students or anyone. People read a lot of books in their lives, and their ability to persuade people is not strong, but in reality, if they serve as cadres in the village or earn more money in business, it shows that this person has the ability to do things, can persuade others to have weight, and persuasion can solve other people's problems.
Now I have encountered a problem, the life of white-haired people sending black hair is a big problem. A friend is sixty years old this year, his son is about forty years old this year, and he has a son and a daughter with his daughter-in-law, the son is now eighteen years old and working, and his daughter is in junior high school, and his son died of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage a few days ago. Let the sixty-year-old couple cry bitterly and helplessly. The saddest thing in a person's life is that the son does not send the end to his parents, but the parents give the son the end. How to give friends two to slowly free themselves from the pain of losing their son, the main thing is that they must be strong, people cannot be resurrected after death, and it is their turn to say that others are good, and the vicissitudes of life and pain are helpless.
In a person's life, pain is like a wound, and as the years pass, the pain and wound will slowly fade and be suppressed. In the years and life, who does not have the ancient experience of pain and sadness, only to come out in pain, life can not be resurrected, the pain and sadness of losing loved ones can not be experienced by others, the person who walked is gone, life has to go on, and everyone has to go forward. The friend's son is gone, but the friend's daughter-in-law, the eighteen-year-old grandson and the fifteen-year-old daughter all have to live and study. For the pain and grief of friends and lovers about the loss of their forty-year-old son, it is self-evident that how to get out of the pain, or the pain of a daughter-in-law losing her husband, is the biggest problem to be solved at present, and it is a matter of time.
Persuading people is only one aspect, really coming out of pain and sadness, can only say that losing their son as a parent cannot erase the pain and helpless sadness of a lifetime in the hearts of parents. In the daughter-in-law lost her husband, son and daughter lost their father kind of sad crying others will not know, the most painful thing in the world is the loss of loved ones life and death parting, there are too many misfortunes and regrets in life, some things can not be done, can not change life but have to continue, lost rest, and the living people face the next life, this is life This is the years.
Who does not love life, who is unwilling to appreciate the natural beauty of nature and the natural scenery of nature, who is unwilling to enjoy the joy of the years, life has the pain and misfortune of life, birth, old age and illness This is the law of nature, and the loss of children in old age is the greatest misfortune in life, this is what no one wants to see, no matter who you can only learn to be strong from pain, grandchildren need wedding bride price car hugging room, granddaughter needs tuition, in the face of high-speed social development today, no matter who has to continue to earn money to live, there is no choice, It is useless for others to persuade, only the painful family members become strong, let the pain of life misfortune turn into motivation, let the strong motivation to fight hard help you thrive and work hard with the whole family! There is no way to persuade people, only rely on your own efforts to make tomorrow better! Only by coming out of helpless pain and regaining confidence that life will slowly get better and life will be full of sunshine!