Fortune is miserable, and poor couples become rich
Wang Li, 47, was born in rural Bazhong, Sichuan, and came to Shunde, Guangdong province in 1988 to work. Soon she fell in love at first sight with Yang Sufen, a local female worker in the same factory.
But soon after falling in love, they were opposed by the Yang family. One day, Yang Sufen's parents and brother ran to the factory gate to stop them, and Wang Lijie said: "Your family is not so poor that it jingles!" Yang Sufen's family is indeed very poor, she has two older brothers, in order to help the family build a house, she went to work in the factory after graduating from junior high school, and her monthly salary was handed over to her parents.
When she met Wang Liyi, Yang Sufen was 22 years old, but she had "dedicated" to her family for 6 years, and she did not have any savings. She loves Wang Liyi's handsomeness and self-motivation. But her parents thought that Wang Liyi was a migrant worker with no money and no house, and resolutely disagreed with the two dating.
The power of love is enormous. In 1990, Yang Sufen and Wang Liyi eloped to Shenzhen to rent a house and live together. In 1993, Yang Sufen became pregnant, and seeing that raw rice was cooked into cooked rice, the Yang family had to agree to this
Door-to-door. The relationship between Wang Liyi and the Yang family was completely improved in 1994. In this year, not long after Yang Sufen gave birth to his son Wang Jin, Yang's father and mother immediately came to ask before and after. Originally. Yang Sufen's two brothers gave birth to daughters, and the Yang family valued this "family heirloom" very much, hoping that the two could return to Shunde with their children. Wang Liyi refused without saying a word, refused to be a son-in-law who "inverted door", and took his parents from Sichuan to Shenzhen to bring their children.
Yang Sufen is also very satisfied with this kind of life in her heart. But her parents were "worried", because of the rapid economic development of Shunde in those years, many peasants' land was expropriated to open factories and build buildings, and the Yang family, who washed their feet and went to the fields, became rich. One day in 1997, Yang Sufen's parents went to Shenzhen to visit their grandson, and they saw Wang Jin and a few migrant children rushing to rummage through the garbage cans together, so angry that Yang's mother unceremoniously reproached Wang Liyi's parents: "In-laws, how can you take children like this!"
It turned out that Wang Lijie's parents often picked up some waste products to sell after coming to Shenzhen, and Wang Jin gradually developed a habit. Seeing that his parents were so angry, for the sake of his son's future, Yang Sufen decided to listen to his parents this time - let Wang Jin follow his grandparents to live in Shunde. Wang Lijie considered his son, and had to reluctantly agree.
After Wang Lijie sent his parents back to Sichuan, he and his wife continued to struggle in Shenzhen. He vowed to make a good appearance, buy a big house in Shenzhen, and then bring his son and parents to live together.1 This psychology filled him with a competitive fighting spirit, and also made his relationship with the Yang family go farther and farther.
At the beginning of 1999, Wang Liyi and his wife already had 400,000 yuan in savings, which could provide a large house in Shenzhen, but he suddenly decided to start a business first, and despite Yang Sufen's obstruction, he set up an electronics factory in Bao'an District in April of that year. In the early days of entrepreneurship, he was running a business, Yang Sufen engaged in workshop management, in order to save expenses, the couple did not even rent a house, every day after the end of work lived in the factory, and like the workers, each meal was a few yuan fast food on the street...
See the light at the end of the tunnel. Two years later, Wang Lijie's factory assets reached more than 1 million yuan. He invests in property while doing business. Since 2002, he has offered two houses in Shenzhen every year, sold them when they went up, and so on. By the end of 2004, he and his wife had assets of five to six million yuan and lived in a large house of more than 100 square meters in Shenzhen. He wanted to bring his parents to Shenzhen Changjia, but after his parents came, it was very farming, and it was inevitable that some mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law would regret that he wanted to take his son to live with him, but Zhengjin, who was studying at a private aristocratic school in Shunde at the age of 1, was unwilling to leave his grandfather.
His parents eventually returned to the countryside of Sichuan, and his sons became more and more strange, and Wang Liyi suddenly realized that there was a felling, but why couldn't he feel happiness? What caused him more headaches was that at this time, due to the growing scale of the factory, the "husband and wife" business model was no longer suitable for modern enterprises, and he had to force his wife to resign as general manager in 2005. Yang Sufen is not dead hearted, and she makes trouble with him at home all day. On the other hand, due to his son's lack of parental care since he was a child, his grades and behavior in school were very bad, and Wang Jin was very resistant to transferring to Shenzhen to study, and in 2006 he had to force his wife to return to Shunde to change his heart to cultivate his son, and the relationship between the husband and wife began to change suddenly.
Although Wang Lijie drives to Shunde every weekend to reunite with his wife and children, how can Yang Sufen rest assured that her husband is alone in Shenzhen? As soon as there is a wind, she believes it. One day in the spring of 2007, she called Wang Lijie's mobile phone, heard the voice of women and love songs on the phone, Wang Lijie said that he was on the Humen Expressway, it was not convenient to answer the phone for a long time, and hung up without saying a word, but she didn't believe it, she drove all the way to Shenzhen, and found that her husband was indeed returning from a business trip with the female business manager of the factory, but she was still not at ease, and carefully interrogated the female manager in the tone of the boss lady...
At that time, the female manager was angry and crying. Yang Sufen's distrust also made Wang Lijie very angry: "This is not the first time, you are like this again, let's separate the calculation!" Yang Sufen did not show weakness: "Leave, leave!"
Bargaining and marriage being desecrated by family property
But the word "divorce" is easier said than done. Wang Lijie and Yang Sufen are both old and young, especially a family like them, which has built nearly 10 million assets, and it cannot be easily separated. In June 2007, when Wang Lijie formally filed for divorce for the first time, Yang Sufen said domineeringly: "My son wants it, four properties belong to me, and the factory is one and a half!" Wang Lijie calculated carefully, his wife actually wanted to divide 70% of the property! He couldn't help but feel cold in his heart: "You are too much, most of these properties are my hard-earned shares!" Yang Sufen said, "Who told you to cheat?" I married you desperately, and my parents didn't dislike you in the end, you even betrayed our Yang family1" Wang Lijie argued with a hundred mouths, and roared in anger: "I didn't do anything to be sorry for you, it's all your own crankiness!" After some arguments to no avail, Yang Sufen asked him: "Well, in order to prove that you are sincere, move the factory to Shunde!" He thought that his wife was unreasonable and actually linked marriage and business together, so he didn't wait for Ying, Yang Fenfen felt that he had "a ghost" in his heart.
At the end of 2007, due to the expiration of the factory lease period, Shenzhen's operating costs were much higher than in previous years, Yang Sufen insisted on micro-bringing the factory to Shunde, and said in a cheerful way; "It's not just you, I'm also talking! You're still there, I see you just miss having a home away from home!" He wanted to cry without tears and had to compromise. Even simply let Yang Sufen go to the factory moving business.
One day, Yang Mifen was moving his head to sweat Wang Lijie, but he was sitting there drinking tea, and the two quarreled a few words and actually started fighting. Afterwards, Wang Lijie ran to the villa of his business partner Liu Jun to "recuperate" and did not appear for a week. Unexpectedly, as soon as he returned home, Yang Sufen scolded him with a split face: "Which fox spirit have you fooled around with these days?" Moving factory is so busy. You actually took care of yourself, turned off the phone, and you have the ability to leave the house!" Wang Liyi was originally extremely disappointed, and when his wife said this, he immediately slapped her angrily." Don't be too intrusive and deceive!" This dozen further aggravated the contradiction between him and the Yang family. Yang's mother accused him: "You claim that you earned all these family properties yourself, but for so many years, we have not helped you raise your children, can you do business with peace of mind?" If it weren't for my daughter, I'm afraid you would still be a poor bastard!" If you want a divorce, you can also take 3 million liquid eggs!"
On the eve of the Spring Festival in 2008, Wang Lijie's parents also came to Guangdong, and the two sides discussed divorce for the second time. The two families fought back and forth, and finally focused on Wang Lijie's derailment.
But Wang Lijie did not admit it, Yang Sufen insisted on it, but there was no conclusive evidence. One day, the king father, who was in his seventies, was so angry that in front of the Jing family, he raised his crutches and hit his son, and asked with a bow, "Have you ever done that kind of thing?" Faced with the tears of his biological parents, Wang Lijie couldn't help but kneel in front of his father with moist eyes and confessed: "Dad I really don't, but I'm a boss, in order to socialize, it's normal to go to entertainment places..." Wang Father and Wang Mother are traditional and simple old people, although their son feels "very normal". Wang Lijie was unwilling, so Wang Father and Mother personally compensated their sons to their in-laws, and then returned to Sichuan. Seeing that Wang Father and Mother were so kind, the Yang family also said that as long as Wang Lijie lived a good life with Yang Sufen in the future, the past things would be "not to blame in the past". After thinking about it, Wang Liyi felt that divorce was not good for him and his parents, so he tried to maintain the marriage again.
It backfired. After the factory moved to Shunde, due to the loss of many old customers, Wang Lijie was slow to start the business, he blamed his wife for making the wrong choice, but Yang Sufen said that the matter was man-made, complaining that he was not as desperate as when he was young. The couple began to quarrel again, and in September 2008, when the financial turmoil occurred, Yang Sufen had to pull his two brothers in, and although he eventually kept the factory, it became a family business, and Wang Liyi often had disagreements with them in terms of operation and management.
In November 2008, when Wang Lijie took on a certain project, Wang Lijie did not agree, but Yang Sufen and his brother both agreed, and during the dispute, he suddenly found that he seemed to be "empty", and he was no longer the chairman who was in the limelight when he started his business in Shenzhen, and he even wondered if his wife insisted on moving the factory to Shunde, did he intend to turn the industry he painstakingly built into the Yang family from the beginning. The more he thought about it, the more angry he became, and he couldn't help but question his wife.
Yang Sufen said: "What is the Wang family Yang family at this time? If it weren't for my two brothers' money, the factory would only have a dead end, so don't worry about it here!" What men value most is power, career and family alike. Since Yang Sufen's two brothers joined, Wang Liyi has lost interest in the factory, and the more indifferent he is, the more "useless" he naturally appears. In December 2008, he simply resigned from his position in the factory and went home to be idle. But suddenly there was nothing to do, and he was panicked in his heart. He wants to be a good father, but his son, who is already in the third year of junior high school, is different and rebellious, and often looks at him with disdain. The rustiness of his son, the coldness of his wife, and the entanglement of the Yang family made him feel more and more that he was a "superfluous" person in the Yang family, and Wang Lijie had the idea of breaking out of the siege for the third time! Because Yang Sufen's conditions were too harsh and the two sides could not negotiate after repeated "bargaining", he had to resort to the law in March 2009, but the Shunde court held that the relationship between the husband and wife had not reached the point of complete breakdown, and the husband and wife agreement could not be reached and did not grant a divorce. At that moment, he was particularly disappointed and thought helplessly: Let's retire with peace of mind! He drives around every day...
Divorce is too hard, and husbands murder wretched wives
However, after the loss of factory power, Wang Lijie's economic power was soon controlled by his wife. On the other hand, he went to Shenzhen to find his old friend Liu Jun to reminisce, and wanted to go to a house in Shenzhen by the way, and when he looked for the keys at home, he found that Yang Xianfen did not know where to hide the keys and real estate certificates of all the real estate. As soon as he became angry, Yang Sufen said: "I don't accept it, one day you take a fox spirit to fool around in those houses, and I will be kept in the dark!"
Not only that, after Wang Lijie's private house money was spent, it was as difficult as begging to get money from his wife. Once, when his car ran out of gas and asked his wife to add it, Yang Sufen muttered: "You don't have all day, what are you doing around blindly!" I don't know if I stay at home....."Another time, he wanted to sell a house and do some other business alone, but Yang Sufen said: "What are you tossing at this age?" There's enough for you to eat at home! He knew that Yang Sufen was still not at ease with him, and he immediately became angry: "You are like this, it is better to let me die!" A successful man who used to be proud in the mall suddenly fell to this point, and the pain can be imagined.
Yang Sufen ostensibly gave Wang Lijie freedom and often told him: "You can do whatever you want, and you can go wherever you want." But Wang Liyi is increasingly aware that she essentially wants to control herself through money. In August 2009, he simply went to Shenzhen to work as a vice president in Liu Jun's factory. After the separation of the two places, Yang Sufen was even more "uneasy" with him. Once, he was having dinner at a hotel with a female client, and Yang Sufen suddenly fell from the sky and took a camera to take pictures as "evidence of infidelity".
After being wronged by Yang Sufen several times, Wang Liyi simply raised a lover at the end of 2009, and said angrily to Yang Sufen, "Don't you just want me to cheat and share more property?" Anyway, I jumped into the Yellow River and couldn't wash it, and I didn't raise white and didn't raise it! But I tell you, I also learn from you now, and I don't want to divorce!" When the couple made such a fuss, Liu Jun had to let Wang Lijie resign, and then persuaded him to return to Shunde: "Brother Wang, no matter what, the more this time, the more you can't fall first..." The drunken Wang Lijie said irritably: "If she dares to make me penniless, I want her to die well!"
In April 2010, Wang Lijie, who was unemployed, could no longer support his lover and returned to Shunde. At this time, Yang Sufen was also exhausted and did not have time to mess with him, because her father was seriously ill and the factory was not operating smoothly, so she did not dare to agree to divorce. But Wang Lijie lost confidence in marriage and even his entire life, and he began to indulge in gambling, first in the area of Shenzhen and Foshan, and then in Macau. Without money, he sold his BMW, and after losing it, he borrowed usury ...
In just 3 months, Wang Lijie actually lost nearly one million yuan, and the creditor came to the door every day to ask for money. In August 2010, Yang Sufen took Wang Lijie to court for divorce, but he did not return home all day and no one could find him. On September 23, Wang Lijie suddenly called Yang Sufen from Macau, asked her to call him 1 million yuan, and threatened not to return for divorce if she did not give it to him. Yang Sufen rushed to Macau that afternoon, she wanted to persuade Wang Liyi to return to Shunde, because after all, he was not divorced, he gambled on the joint property of husband and wife, but after arriving in Macau, Yang Sufen found that he still had money and was gambling happily at the card table. She was anxious, but could not be convinced. In the evening, Wang Liyi boarded a "Macau Shide Cruise" and continued to gamble, she had to follow her, wanting to make a final effort.
At about 4 o'clock in the morning of the 24th, when Wang Lijie returned to his room to rest, Yang Sufen learned that he had borrowed another usury, and he was immediately furious, and the two had a fierce quarrel. At about 7 a.m., Wang Liyi took advantage of Yang Sufen's sleepiness to take the bank card in her bag and went to the edge of the boat to smoke. Yang Sufen found out and chased the edge of the ship to argue with him, at this time the cruise ship had sailed to the vicinity of the boundary of Hong Kong's Water City east of Henglan Island, and Wang Liyi ruthlessly pushed his wife into the sea in the push... At that time, some tourists saw this scene, and the cruise staff immediately reported the case to the Hong Kong Maritime Rescue Center and anchored the cruise ship to the Hongyu Sea. The Hong Kong Marine Police and fire boats then searched the scene, and Yang So-fen was salvaged ashore about one hour later, but was seven dead
The Hong Kong Marine Police arrested Wang Liyi on the spot, and he confessed to the murder of his wife. Since the cruise ship was in the "high seas" between Macau and Hong Kong at the time of the incident, the case is still under further investigation, and it will take time to execute the suspect. However, what is shocking is that according to the lawyer sent by Wang Yi's family to Hong Kong to negotiate, Wang Lijie said during the interrogation that he deliberately tricked Yang Sufen into the high seas this time, firstly, he wanted her to die a bad death, and secondly, he wanted to reduce his punishment!
"It turned out that two months ago, he heard from gamblers that most of the tourists who boarded the Macau Shide cruise were for gambling money, and the cruise would stay on the high seas for hours. He also heard that borrowing usury, fighting and even killing on the high seas can be "written off", no one can control it, at first he didn't believe it, then he thought that it seemed to be true in the movie, plus during that time he gambled red-eyed, too many grievances and distress made him finally have the idea of tricking Yang Sufen to the high seas and then murdering her...
But being clever is being clever and mistaken, and Wang Liyi did this completely because of his foolish idea after being carried away by gambling. Although the "high seas" is a sea area that does not belong to any country and is not under the sovereignty of any country, it does not mean that any person or organization can act on it, according to international law, all ships sailing on the high seas must comply with international law and the laws of the nationality of the ship, and the people on board should also abide by the laws of that country. Other words. Wang Lijie's murder of his wife on the high seas will also be severely punished by the mainland criminal law!
What is the root cause of a working couple who originally loved each other, but in this way they became enemies? After the tragedy, Wang Liyi and Yang Sufen's families were extremely hurt, and they regretted that they could not let the couple divorce earlier. But in October 2010, the reporter learned in an interview that the reason why Wang Lijie and Yang Sufen have not been able to divorce for so many years is mainly because the husband and wife or the two families cannot be unified in the division of property, and no one will let anyone. This is actually a Chinese tragedy, in life, many couples in the mainland will encounter a similar "property tug-of-war" when they divorce, for money, no matter how loving they were in the past, they may turn against each other. But in the end, we will all find that money is something outside the body, whether rich or poor, if love is gone, marriage is destined to split! Hopefully, people will be warned.