The protagonist "Li Yunlong" in the TV series "Bright Sword" has a very straightforward personality, dares to love and hate, and is deeply liked by the audience.
After the broadcast of this drama, Li Youbin, played by "Li Yunlong", became popular overnight.
The career is finally on the right track, but the married life has ushered in a change.
After divorcing his ex-wife, he left the house and turned around to marry Shi Langya, who was 13 years younger.
Slanya, on the other hand, was divorced twice and brought a son.
After getting married, how did Li Youbin and Shi Langya live? Are you happy married today?
1.
Li Youbin, born in 1958, is a native of Changchun, Jilin.
His parents were both workers and lived in good conditions.
My sister is a drama actress and often takes Li Youbin to the theater to watch performances, Li Youbin thinks it is very interesting, and the idea of acting comes up in her heart.
When he was in elementary school, the school set up a drama club, and Li Youbin was very happy when he heard about it and actively joined the drama club.
His performance in the drama club was very good, and he was noticed by the crew director and starred in "The General's Son".
When filming, Li Youbin performed particularly well, and the director liked him very much.
Unfortunately, this film was not broadcast, but this filming experience made him know more about acting, and secretly vowed to become an actor in his heart.
At the age of 16, Li Youbin was selected by the director of Changchun Repertory Theater for his role in the drama "Fenghuazhengmao", and then joined Changchun Repertory Theater and became an actor.
Entering the troupe, Li Youbin's acting skills are still relatively immature, and he can only play some supporting roles.
In order to get more opportunities, he practiced his acting skills day and night, humbly asking other seniors in the group.
Seeing him working so hard, the seniors were also very willing to guide him.
During this period, no matter what kind of role invited him, he would go, and after accumulating several years of experience, he finally had the opportunity to join the starring cast.
His career is getting better and better, and he also ushered in his first love in his life.
One day, Li Youbin was about to go home after rehearsing the program, and suddenly heard a pleasant singing voice, and he was a little curious about who was singing, so he followed the direction where the voice came from.
When he saw the girl's face, he was amazed again.
Li Youbin fell in love with her at first sight, and the next day asked the people in the group if they knew her.
It turned out that this beautiful girl was called Zhang Ruiqi, and she was the pillar in the group.
She has been performing in the troupe since she was a child, and her acting skills are very solid.
Later, Li Youbin saw Zhang Ruiqi in the group and took the initiative to come forward to talk, and the two got to know each other.
After that, the two often discussed acting issues. Slowly, the two developed a good feeling for each other and got together.
When the friends around them knew that the two were in love, they all felt sorry for Zhang Ruiqi and thought that she could find a better one with her ability, but Zhang Ruiqi firmly thought that Li Youbin might succeed one day.
The two were very sweet together.
Li Youbin would bring breakfast to Zhang Ruiqi on time every morning and send her home after work.
When they were resting, the two went out to eat food and watch movies together, and their relationship became better and better.
Unconsciously, the two reached the age to talk about marriage.
After meeting his parents, Zhang Ruiqi's parents objected, because Li Youbin was just a small actor at this time.
Her parents hope that she can find someone better than her, but Zhang Ruiqi thinks that Li Youbin is very self-motivated and will one day be able to get ahead.
She insisted on marrying Li Youbin, but her parents had no choice but to agree, so the two went to get a marriage certificate.
2.
After marriage, Zhang Ruiqi quit her job to focus on taking care of her family.
Soon after, Zhang Ruiqi gave birth to her son Li Xiaoke.
Li Youbin likes this son very much, in order to make his wife and son live a better life, Li Youbin works harder than ever, starring in several film and television dramas, but the response is mediocre.
Later, Taili transferred him to work in a film studio, but his income was not much higher than before.
Here he starred in several movies, and everyone has a good evaluation of the movie.
Although the film received positive reviews after it was broadcast, the income was not significant.
He used to be able to talk to his wife and take care of his children when he came home from work, but now he can only go home once in several days.
Li Youbin was under pressure, and he wondered whether to go to Beijing to give it a try.
So he discussed with his wife: "I want to go to Beijing to develop, are you willing to go with me?" ”
His wife expressed support for his decision.
And the north drift is not so easy, in the years to Beijing, Li Youbin rode his bicycle to the crew every day to interview, but they were rejected.
During this time, if the director wants him, no matter what kind of role and what kind of weather, Li Youbin will run to the crew and go out to film.
Although it is very tiring, the family of three is very happy together, and after work, Li Youbin will bring his wife and son home with their favorite food, and will also accompany his son to play chess and tell him bedtime stories.
But then all this changed, Li Youbin's time at home became shorter and shorter, basically spending all his time in the crew.
Once during filming, the director felt that Li Youbin could eat and his acting skills were also very good, so he recommended it to the crew of "Shocking Waves" and asked him to audition.
He performed very well and successfully passed the audition.
In the play, Li Yunlong played Zhang Ziming, which received a lot of praise after the broadcast, and also won the Best Actor Award.
Later, the director of "Bright Sword" invited Li Youbin to play the male protagonist "Li Yunlong".
Originally, he didn't want to act after reading the script, he thought that Li Yunlong loved to swear and drink, and his personality was also very straight, and his personality was too much worse than his own personality.
But after repeated persuasion from the director, he decided to give it a try.
The filming process was very hard, first of all, because there were too many lines, and he often memorized it late at night. The second is that the character of this character is too difficult to grasp, and he is even pondering the character when eating or bathing.
The kung fu paid off, and Li Youbin interpreted this role vividly, and it became popular after it was broadcast.
More and more people hear the name Li Youbin, and his work is getting busier and busier.
One night in the middle of the night, Li Xiaoke had a fever, he was lying on the bed and calling his father, Zhang Ruiqi didn't know how to be good, so he called Li Youbin, but he never dialed.
She had to carry her son to the hospital on her back, and just arrived at the hospital, Li Youbin called back and asked what happened and why she called in the middle of the night.
Zhang Ruiqi said aggrievedly that his son had a fever and had just arrived at the hospital, and now he was worried about his son and wanted Li Youbin to come over.
However, Li Youbin can't get away from filming in the crew, and if the shooting is postponed, it will delay the time of the entire crew and cause economic losses.
Zhang Ruiqi was very sad and helpless.
When Li Youbin finally took the time, it was already the second night.
He hurried home, saw his wife cleaning up the room, and asked his wife: "How is the son?" ”
Zhang Ruiqi replied with a tired look: "It's not a big deal, I'm sleeping now." ”
Only then did Li Youbin put down his heart, hand over his son's favorite food he bought when he came back to his wife, and hurriedly ran back to the crew.
The wife is a little lost, and this is not the first time such a thing has happened.
Once Li Youbin suddenly felt unwell during filming, but in order not to delay the shooting, he kept holding on.
After filming, he suddenly fainted, only then did he know that he had a high fever, and the director respected his professionalism very much.
When Zhang Ruiqi rushed to the hospital, Li Youbin was already awake and was taking drips, and she cried very sadly: "Filming is very important, but also pay attention to the body, you are going to fall, what should I do with my son?" ”
Seeing his wife so worried, Li Youbin was very self-conscious and promised to take care of himself in the future.
That being said, he was still busy with the crew after being discharged from the hospital.
Finally returned home, Li Youbin wanted to talk to his wife more, so he shared interesting things he encountered during filming.
But helplessly, his wife has long stopped acting, and she is already a little strange to these things, and the common language with Li Youbin is getting less and less.
Later, Li Xiaoke said in the program that at that time, his father rarely came home, and everything in the family was handled by his mother, and his mother always participated in parent-teacher meetings.
Li Xiaoke gradually grew up and was about to take the college entrance examination, but he rarely felt his father's concern.
Finally, the marriage between the two could not be maintained.
After filming and returning home, the two sat down and talked for a long time, and finally decided to divorce.
Li Xiaoke, who learned that his parents were going to divorce, couldn't believe that he wanted to save the marriage.
"Mom and Dad, why do you want to divorce, isn't there another way to solve it?"
But the two have already made a decision, and it is impossible to go back to the past.
After the divorce, Li Youbin moved out of the house and left all his savings to Zhang Ruiqi.
When leaving home, Zhang Ruiqi packed his luggage and said to him: "You are not well, pay attention to rest." ”
After speaking, he went back to the bedroom and cried tearfully, it was Li Xiaoke who sent him away.
After sending him away, Li Xiaoke also began to cry, why did he survive such a hard day, but now he dispersed?
Li Youbin was also reluctant in his heart, but he did not show it.
Although he left, he often came to visit the mother and son, knowing that Zhang Ruiqi was not in good health and would come with medicine.
But Li Xiaoke never let go, he was depressed all day.
In order to make his son happy, Li Youbin took him out to relax whenever he was free, which made him a little more cheerful.
After the college entrance examination, Li Xiaoke successfully entered the Beijing Film Academy, and Li Youbin and Zhang Ruiqi were proud of him.
3.
During a shooting, Li Youbin and Shi Langya met.
Shi Langya's parents are both cultural people, so they received a good education from an early age, they were very good, and their careers were smooth after graduation.
But her emotional road was not smooth, and she had two marriages before meeting Li Youbin.
In the first marriage, Shi Langya and her husband had a good relationship, but the husband was seriously ill and could not take care of their mother and son and filed for divorce.
They had a son named Hanhan.
After the divorce, Shi Langya filmed while raising his children, and met Li Youbin while filming.
Li Youbin and Shi Langya have many scenes in the play, and the two are naturally familiar with each other and have a good impression of each other.
Li Youbin worked a lot of work every day, and his body was a little overwhelmed, so Shi Langya found an excuse to stay by his side and take care of him.
Li Youbin is a Northeasterner, for this reason, Shi Lanya also went to study Northeast cuisine, and after learning it, he made it for Li Youbin to eat, Li Youbin was surprised: "How can you make Northeast cuisine?" ”
Shi Langya said that this was specially learned for him, and Li Youbin was very moved.
In addition to filming, the two will discuss the plot together and express some of their own views.
The two met late, and Li Youbin felt that he had found a soul mate, so he decided to confess to Shi Langya.
One morning, Li Youbin suddenly called Shi Lanya and asked her to go to the mountain to see the maple leaves.
Shi Langya was puzzled, it was December, how could there be maple leaves?
I came to the mountain with doubts in my heart, and I didn't see the maple leaf, but I only saw Li Youbin standing alone under the tree.
He took out a maple leaf from his pocket and gave it to Shi Langya: "This is what I secretly treasured, and I never had the opportunity to give it to you." ”
Shi Langya was very moved, and Li Youbin immediately confessed: "Are you willing to stay with me?" ”
Although Shi Langya is very happy, she is still a little hesitant, she is afraid that if she remarries, her son will not accept it.
Li Youbin said: "I will love your son as much as I love you. ”
Looking at this gentle man in front of her, she wanted to entrust her life to him.
So the two got married not long after they were together.
Li Youbin told Li Xiaoke the news of his remarriage, and Li Xiaoke was particularly sad, and even ignored Li Youbin for a while.
In order to comfort Li Xiaoke, Li Youbin ran to Li Xiaoke's house to persuade him with Zhang Ruiqi, so that he could open his heart knot.
And Shi Langya's son could not accept Li Youbin and often teased him.
Once Li Youbin was reading the script, and Han Han wanted to tease him again.
So he snatched his glasses and ran, and Li Youbin couldn't catch up with him.
Without waiting for Li Youbin to get angry, Mr. Shi Langya was angry: "Quickly return the glasses to Uncle Li!" ”
Li Youbin said to Shi Langya: "You dissipate your qi and let me solve it myself." ”
Li Youbin knows that children can't be forced, and they must do what they like.
As long as he has time, he will send Hanhan to school, tutor him to do his homework after school, and play with him when he is tired of studying.
And Shi Langya and Han Han have a conflict, and Li Youbin will also speak for Han Han.
Slowly, Han Han gradually opened his heart and accepted Li Youbin.
That day, Li Youbin brought Han Han's favorite food home, and Han Han said happily: "Thank you dad." ”
Hearing Han Han call his father, Li Youbin's eyes turned red.
After that, Han Han often followed behind Li Youbin, very sticky, like a father and son.
He was so spoiled that even Shi Langya couldn't stand it.
"Pampering him too much will teach him badly." Shi Langya said to Li Youbin.
Li Youbin felt that it was particularly reasonable, and after that, he would no longer indulge Hanhan so much, and he should be strict.
Soon after, under the education of Li Youbin and Shi Langya, Hanhan was not as naughty as before, became obedient and sensible, and his academic performance became better and better day by day, and Li Youbin was very pleased.
Li Youbin often mentions Hanhan in front of friends and is proud of him.
And his biological son Li Xiaoke did not disappoint him.
After graduating from university, Li Xiaoke engaged in Internet work and had a successful career.
Li Youbin often came to see him and sometimes invited him to play at home.
For Li Xiaoke, Shi Langya will also treat him like his own son.
Every time he came to the house, Slangya would cook a table of dishes to entertain him.
Li Youbin often asked him, is your mother doing well?
Before leaving, he will also give Li Xiaoke a sum of money to let him be filial to Zhang Ruiqi.
Although Li Xiaoke's career is smooth sailing and Li Youbin is very happy, he is now in his 30s and has no girlfriend, which makes Li Youbin very troubled.
So he began to knock on the side: "Do you have a girlfriend?" ”
"No, I don't want to talk about it for the time being," Li Xiaoke said flatly.
Hearing this, Li Youbin didn't understand and asked him why he didn't want to talk, but Li Xiaoke didn't speak.
After that, Li Youbin introduced several blind dates to Li Xiaoke, Li Xiaoke did not want to go, and finally he was forced to go.
After he came back, he didn't see any of them, and Li Youbin was very angry: "Those girls are very good, why can't you look at them, what do you want?" ”
Li Xiaoke is also angry about this: "I don't believe in love, and I don't expect marriage."
Li Youbin was very unhappy in his heart, he didn't expect that his failed marriage with his ex-wife would have such a big impact on his children.
He decided to have a good chat with Li Xiaoke.
"Mom and Dad don't divorce because of a broken relationship, but because they're unhappy together."
Li Xiaoke thought carefully about this sentence and gradually looked away from his parents' divorce.
Li Youbin is slowly entering old age, and he really wants to see his son get married and have children, only in this way can he feel at ease.
However, now Li Xiaoke is almost 40 years old and is still single.
Shi Langya saw that Li Youbin was so anxious about his son's marriage, and persuaded him to give his son more care, so that he could feel the warmth of the family so that he could have the opportunity to accept marriage.
In 2018, Li Xiaoke finally fell in love, the girl was very cheerful, and it was she who took the initiative to pursue Li Xiaoke.
Hearing this news, Li Youbin was so happy that his mouth couldn't close, and he always urged Li Xiaoke to take the girl home.
But before Li Xiaoke could bring someone home, the two broke up.
Li Youbin asked him why he broke up, Li Xiaoke said that people want to get married, but he currently has no idea of getting married and does not want to delay people, so he broke up.
Li Youbin knew that it was useless to say anything, so he went.
Now Li Youbin is 65 years old, has a successful career, husband and wife, two filial sons, a virtuous wife, and a double harvest of career and love.
Epilogue:
Looking back at Li Youbin's life, he is a good actor.
In acting, he can give everything.
As Shi Langya's husband and Hanhan's stepfather, he is qualified.
But as Zhang Ruiqi's husband, Li Xiaoke's father, he is not competent enough.
One cannot be perfect, and unfortunately, they meet at the wrong time, so hurting others and hurting themselves.
Divorce hurts children, but not divorce for the sake of children, hurts each other.
Today, Li Youbin has met the right person, lives a happy life, and is still in love after more than ten years of marriage.