In 1990, Jin Ming was 8 years old and became popular overnight.
This year, she starred in Xiao Wanjun in Qiong Yao's drama "Wanjun".
The round face, big eyes dripping and turning, and two long braids have been loved by countless people.
Sabine, who lived in Wuhan at the time, was shocked to see Jin Ming in the TV series and thought that this was the most beautiful little girl he had ever seen.
Pointing to the TV and telling his parents that he would marry her as a wife in the future.
Whenever he was naughty, his parents would tease him with this, and from time to time they would ask him when he would marry Xiao Wanjun home.
Sabine was thick-skinned and did not feel embarrassed, and remembered Jin Ming in his heart for 20 years.
Later, Jin Ming, who also graduated from Peking University and has become a host, was a guest on CCTV, and Sabine brought this matter up again.
"Jin Ming, you know what, I have a crush on you for 20 years."
However, this woman, who has been secretly in love with Sabine for 20 years, has never been married or had children at the age of 43.
What happened to her?
01
Jin Ming, born in 1980, has been a beautiful embryo since she was a child, plus she was born prematurely, and her family pampered her very much.
In 1988, Jin Ming was 8 years old, and Qiong Yao wanted to find a small actor to play Xiao Wanjun in the TV series for her TV series "Wanjun".
Qiong Yao's requirements are very high, requiring this actor to not only be beautiful, but also have eyes that can speak and have spirituality.
At that time, many parents took their children to audition, and Jin Ming's mother felt that the opportunity was rare and also took Jin Ming with her.
When she arrived at the audition site, Jin Ming's mother looked at the pressure of a room of people, and her heart was a little apprehensive.
Especially seeing that many children are not only beautiful, but also versatile, can sing and dance, and feel that their daughters are out of drama.
On the contrary, Jin Ming behaved very calmly, and Jin Ming's mother was very strange and asked her: "Aren't you nervous?" ”
"I'm not nervous, they let me do what I do, it's so fun, I'm nervous about anything."
When Jin Ming's mother heard this, she was not nervous.
When it was Jin Ming's turn to take the stage, she was really not nervous, behaved generously, and was very confident.
Qiong Yao liked it very much, and felt that this was the Xiao Wanjun she wanted to find in her heart, and she decided on the spot.
In this way, 8-year-old Jin Ming became the Joan girl.
After the broadcast of "Wanjun", Jin Ming became a hit.
Subsequently, she filmed Qiong Yao's "Qingqing Riverside Grass" and "Plum Blossom Brand", becoming the most famous child star in the two sides of the strait.
In 1999, in order to prepare for the college entrance examination, Jin Ming stopped acting.
Later, Qiong Yao planned to film "Huan Zhu Gege" and invited Jin Ming to pick roles at will, but she refused.
02
Jin Ming has been a very assertive child since he was a child.
Although she was born as a child star and became a household name, she did not want to be an actress, but hoped to go to college to prove herself.
Her ideal target school is Peking University, so no matter how busy and tired she is from filming, she never gives up her studies.
Her mother is also a very far-sighted person, when filming "Wanjun", she found Qiong Yao and said that it doesn't matter if the salary is more or less, but she must find a teacher to make up lessons for Jin Ming.
Qiong Yao agreed.
Since then, no matter what scene Jin Ming filmed, she followed the make-up teacher with her, which made her homework not only not fall, but also always ranked at the top.
In 1999, Jin Ming was admitted to Peking University with her own results, and her chosen major was finance and international relations.
After entering the university, she never filmed again, whether it was Qiong Yao or the invitation of other directors in the entertainment industry, she refused all of them and concentrated on studying.
In Peking University, a school full of top students, Jin Ming's academic performance has not fallen, but his love life has not been smooth since then.
Probably because she was filming in the crew since she was a child, Jin Ming had very few opportunities to deal with her peers, and she couldn't handle emotional relationships.
When I first arrived at Peking University, I learned that she was child star Jin Ming, and many students were very excited and took the initiative to come forward to say hello, sit and chat with her, or ask for contact information.
She was overwhelmed every time and didn't know how to respond.
Later, they either refused outright or hid away, giving the impression of being cold.
Especially some male students, like Sabine, have watched her plays since childhood, have a good impression of her, and think she is beautiful, so they take the initiative to offer their courtesy and deliberately ask her some study topics.
Nominally asking for advice, in fact, I want to use this to get closer to her.
Jin Ming's reaction was very straight: "There is a problem, you find a professor, my time is precious." ”
The boy ran into a wall with her a lot, and he knew in his heart that Jin Ming was not easy to contact and chase, so he stayed away from her.
So much so that during college, the beautiful Jin Ming was untraceable.
03
After graduating from university, Jin Ming did not work as a diplomat or go into business, but became a host.
The first love of her life also came at this time.
This boy is very gentle and considerate, and also knows how to take care of Jin Ming's emotions, and usually thinks of Jin Ming no matter what.
The two went shopping together, and he saw a beautiful coat and bought it for her.
Jin Ming saw that she gave the clothes to herself, and she asked, "Is this bought for me?" ”
He said, "I saw that you didn't have a thick coat, so I bought it for you." ”
Jin Ming was a little moved.
Coupled with his good looks and talent, Jin Ming was moved, and even made plans to get married for a while and took him home to meet his parents.
As a result, because on the day he was brought home, it was a temporary idea, and as soon as he told his parents, his parents said casually, you let him come to the house for a meal.
Jin Ming took people home.
It's good not to bring it home, as soon as you bring it home, problems arise for two people.
Because it was a temporary intention, Jin Ming's family did not have slippers towels and other daily necessities for boys, as soon as the boys entered the door, they did not see their slippers, went to the bathroom, and did not have towels to wipe their hands, they were not happy.
Because in his opinion, this is what Jin Ming and her parents should do for themselves, they are at home, and their mother will prepare them for themselves in advance.
After this time, Jin Ming found that his boyfriend looked gentle and elegant, but was actually very self-conscious.
No matter what, I will mention my mother, and of course.
Once, when two people were passing by a flower shop on a date, her boyfriend said to her, "I want flowers." ”
Jin Ming said: "Why don't you buy it yourself." ”
He said: "Anything I wanted, my mother would buy it for me. ”
Jin Ming looked helpless, so he had to buy him a bouquet of flowers.
Another time, when Jin Ming went on a business trip abroad and was about to return, he called his boyfriend in advance, told him about his flight, and asked him to pick him up.
The boyfriend agreed and was ready to pick her up at the airport.
However, the first thing I said when I saw her was: "Let's go play billiards together, I made an appointment with a friend." ”
Jin Ming's whole person was stunned.
After many days of business trips and more than ten hours by plane, she was exhausted, and he didn't care if he was tired, but the first thing he said was to play billiards.
Jin Ming told him that he was a little tired and wanted to go home and rest.
The boyfriend was very upset: "You can also rest at night, I have made an appointment." ”
Jin Ming felt that this person was too egoistic, did not consider the feelings of others at all, and directly refused, and subsequently, the two broke up.
After breaking up with his first love, Jin Ming talked about a boyfriend, which is even more bizarre.
It is a very typical performative personality.
I especially like to show how much I love Jin Ming in front of the outside, and I am a vegetable picker, and I am feeding food, and I am full of gentlemanly demeanor.
Once no outsiders were present, he completely changed his face and was very controlling.
He looked at Jin Ming's mobile phone at every turn, but whenever he found anyone who was closer to Jin Ming, he sent a message to someone in private to warn the other party to stay away from his girlfriend.
Even, a Jin Ming who played from childhood to big hair received his warning.
This kind of person is typical of unconfident, controlling, Jin Ming couldn't bear it, and finally broke up decisively.
04
After two unreliable relationships, Jin Ming is in his thirties.
She went around in circles and couldn't find the right person.
In 2013, 33-year-old Jin Ming went on a blind date show.
During the show, although some boys expressed their love for her, the two never held hands.
Jin Ming also became the only female guest who did not hold hands.
Now, 10 years later, she is still unmarried.
Many people ask her, you are so beautiful, decent work, and highly educated, how can you not find a partner?
Jin Ming once answered this question, she said, love is never equal.
The underlying meaning is: if you are not beautiful, you will definitely have perfect love.
Jin Ming, 43, has been waiting.
Waiting for your love to come.