Hello everyone, I'm Jian Yanshi, I want to tell the story of me and the Colombian boy here, like other peers, at a certain age, I am facing the dilemma of being urged to marry by my family, and there is a lot of pressure invisibly, at the marriageable age, when I see my peers getting married one by one, when the children are several times, and I was still feeling sad and lost for my feelings.
Once a not very pleasant relationship, divided and combined for 10 years, brought some bad effects to my work and life, there were doubts and confusion, and finally found that they were all lies, only to wake up from it, and then decisively came out of this relationship, maybe these 10 years are very long, it is not easy to get out.
Later, I followed my current boyfriend, he is from Colombia, I never thought that I was looking for a foreigner, and I was not very attracted to this slightly fat foreigner, but I didn't find a better person, so I had the mentality of trying, but the other party liked my dark complexion, liked the spots on my face, I even saw that he didn't need any makeup and dress-up, which made me feel very relaxed, and the other party was more sincere, more adaptable, treated people well, and the character was more OK.
Colombia Botian in China
Although he is not a handsome guy, he is very studious, he came to China to study Chinese himself, he knows Spanish, Portuguese, English, master's degree, and at the same time he has also worked in many countries, and finally came to China, and is currently teaching in a university and high school, at that time he met me through the Chinese he wanted to study.
At the same time, his father is currently a teacher and lawyer at Columbia University, and his grandfather is a famous Colombian politician and world figure, Alfonso Gomez Gomez, Chinese: Gomez. Gomez. Former Minister of the Interior of Colombia, he promoted the establishment of diplomatic relations between Colombia and China, in addition to serving as Minister of State, Colombian Ambassador to the former Soviet Union, China and Ula, he also served as a parliamentarian, he was mayor of Bucaramanga twice and re-elected when he was governor of Santander.
Gomez. Gomez World Character Profile
He was also born into a family of politicians, and I think such a family should have the same character and world view
Botian and Gomez. Gomez's family
Gomez. Gomez
Gomez. Gomez and Bush Sr
Above, Colombian Foreign Minister Alfonso Gomez Gomez, former ambassador to China for one year (March 18, 1983 – January 11, 1984)
Seb we knew each other for 5 years, and when I was 31 and he was 39, we started deciding to be together.
I was thinking that if I had been together when I first met, I should have been 27 years old and he should have been 35 years old, and then I knew that he fell in love with me at first sight, but I was not cold to this slightly chubby man, so I have never been together, if I was together at that time and did not entangle that unpleasant relationship, then maybe I would have become a family earlier!
I don't know why this foreigner feels particularly safe and caring to me, not a foreigner who cares, but I trust him very much, although we have many cultural differences and different things we like, but we all tolerate and understand each other.
When I told my family about my dealings with a foreigner, they were very opposed, they felt that the foreigner was not good, they would go back to his country, they would deceive people, but I felt very at ease with him, although he was not rich, but very down-to-earth, very sincere, and more importantly, he was willing to stay in China and liked to be in China.
I think everyone sees things differently, so the choice is different, and finding a down-to-earth person to live a simple life is also a pursuit.