What should the best marriage look like?
Munir said: The most precious thing in a couple's life is sincerity, trust and thoughtfulness.
Married for 16 years, Lu Yi said: Bao Lei is the most perfect woman in my mind, the woman I want to love in my life.
Bao Lei said: Lu Yi, is the man I will still love in my next life. I wouldn't be able to live without you.
Married for 2 years, Zheng Kai said: We all blame us for seeing each other late.
Miao Miao: Marriage is about mutual tolerance and understanding.
Bao Lei and Miao Miao have a lot in common, they are both married to actors, both live in villas in Shanghai, and both have given birth to two children.
They are also full-time at home with two children, let's see the gap between them.
Grow old with you
At the peak of his career that year, Lu Yi decisively disclosed that he had a girlfriend. This point is very similar to Luhan, and this responsibility is even more admirable.
Why disclose the identity of your girlfriend? Lu Yi gave a reason: I originally wanted to marry Bao Lei, why couldn't it be made public?
I don't know if Luhan is also such a mentality?
In short, such a man is too attractive. Huang Zitao should learn more from Lu Han and Lu Yi.
Man Shuai Duojin also takes care of family traditions, did Bao Lei save the moon in his last life?
The best love is to give to each other and raise eyebrows together. Lu Yi and Bao Lei made people believe in love again.
Married for 16 years, Lu Yi still calls Bao Lei "baby", he still has light in his eyes when he looks at Bao Lei, the two wear couple sneakers, and even drive hand in hand. After getting married, Bao Lei faded out of the screen for Lu Yi.
In Bao Lei's opinion, she did not give up anything, but gave willingly. In Lu Yi's view, his wife Bao Lei has paid a lot for him and this family.
Therefore, every time as long as Bao Lei does a little thing, Lu Yi will give the best praise. He understood that his wife was not easy.
The 46-year-old Bao Lei appeared on reality TV again, and we saw the difference between her and female artists. The 46-year-old Bao Lei has wrinkles and nasolabial folds on her face, which is the most authentic and natural face that has undergone the carving of time.
Over the years, Bao Lei has been at home alone with her two daughters, and in her words, her youth has been spent accompanying her daughter in homework.
The two daughters have basically never left their mother, and since the birth of her daughter, Bao Lei has been hands-on, does not like to trouble others, and everything is done by herself and Lu Yi.
So, it also seems like a very real face of a stay-at-home mom. Her face is not overworked, but it reveals a full of happiness.
Bao Lei's tone was very elegant and gentle, even with some snort. This is the mark of a happy marriage.
The best romance is to witness your demeanor and accompany you to grow wrinkles. 20 years ago, Lu Yi chose to cooperate with his girlfriend Bao Lei to shoot a drama, and when the 46-year-old looked back at what they looked like 20 years ago, Bao Lei actually cried.
Things are people who do not stop everything, and tears flow first when they want to speak. Bao Lei cried happily: everything around them is changing, only their love has not changed.
From ignorant youth, to wrinkles. You are still the person I will love for the rest of my life.
Grow with you
Compared with the sweet nature of Bao Lei and Lu Yi's 16-year marriage, Miao Miao and Zheng Kai seem to have a trace of unnaturalness in front of the camera.
Especially Zheng Kai, as an old man of variety shows, his ears are actually red, and he is a little uncomfortable. There are only two reasons behind it, one is that he doesn't want to show his affection too high-profile, and second, his pressure is very high and there is some nervousness, after all, this is his variety show debut with his wife Miao Miao after marriage.
Compared with Zheng Kai's nervousness, Miao Miao looked calm, she seemed to love Zheng Kai more, and her face was light when she looked at Zheng Kai. The belly of the seedlings just 3 months after giving birth has not fully recovered, and there are still some convexities.
Many people think that Zheng Kai is a little perfunctory, in fact, comparing the variety shows recorded by Zheng Kai and Cheng Xiaoyue together, it can be seen that he really loves Miao Miao.
We all blame each other for seeing each other late. This is the original words of Zheng Kai's confession.
Zheng Kai used respect to describe the marriage of the two.
After marriage, Zheng Kai's status in the family was also much lower than Miao Miao. As long as Miao Miao asks, Zheng Kai will take the initiative to complete it.
Miao Miao is a whimsical girl, she does not like material things, including designer clothes and jewelry, she prefers nature and likes to grow her own vegetables.
When she arrived at the farm, Miao Miao tried to get more vegetables and fruits to go home. Isn't this a good way to live at home?
In contrast, Miao Miao is indeed more suitable for Zheng Kai than Cheng Xiaoyue. In this marriage, Miao Miao gave up her job and gave birth to a daughter and a son at home, and now she still has no plans to return to filming.
Miao Miao believes that in a marriage, there is no need to deliberately ask and give, as long as the other party understands.
Less passionate love can last long
Shakespeare said: Less passionate love lasts.
Lu Yi and Bao Lei, Zheng Kai and Miao Miao are the same, their love is very low-key but very real, and it is implemented in life.
After marriage, in order to fully support Lu Yi's career, Bao Lei gave up her job as an actor, concentrated on bringing her two daughters at home, and also walked out of a successful side business, that is, investment.
Over the years, Bao Lei's investment vision has been accurate, and even the money of her sister Bao Li and brother-in-law Guo Jingfei has been handed over to her sister to manage.
She let Lu Yi have no worries. Lu Yi also tried to spend time with his wife and daughter.
Married for 16 years, Bao Lei is still gentle and pampered by Lu Yi. She is indeed happier than Miao Miao. The difference behind it is naturally the husband.
Married for 16 years, Lu Yi still looks at Bao Lei with light in his eyes.
Zheng Kai did not dare to look directly at his wife Miao Miao in front of the camera.
Of course, this is not to say that Miao Miao is unhappy. After all, it has only been married for 2 years, and the road ahead is still very long. Miao Miao and Zheng Kai will experience other ups and downs and happiness in their marriage in the future.
Every couple has their own pattern of getting along.
As Zheng Kai said: A good marriage is to grow up with each other, from a boy to a man, from a girl to a woman.
Given time, both of them will definitely be particularly happy.
A good marriage is about tolerance and understanding of each other. You understand my difficulty, I understand your efforts.