Love at first sight is a combination of reason and perceptual cognition
In the variety show "Mamma Mia", I once saw a 28-year-old female nurse, telling the sweet story of her falling in love at first sight with her lover and getting married in 7 days.
She met her lover in the emergency room. That day, the female nurse gave the child an injection while singing, and the lover next to her who was dripping felt that she was very kind, so she took the initiative to talk to her, and when the female nurse looked back at him, he fell in love at first sight.
After the two met for 7 days, the female nurse was taken home by her lover to meet her parents and elders, and a beautiful marriage began.
Some people say that love at first sight is: the first day I met you, I was conquered by your eyes, and I knew that I was already your captive for life.
The love of a female nurse is such a true portrayal, and it is also a combination of reason and emotional cognition.
But nothing in the world is absolute, not all love at first sight, it has a good result, there is always an example of everything.
In Jane Austen's "Sense and Sensibility", Marianne and Willoughby's love at first sight is a harrowing ending.
Marianne is a perfectionist who is emotional, can play the piano, can sing, loves to read, and pursues ideal love, and it is difficult for ordinary people to enter her legal eyes.
During a climbing trip, she was suddenly hit by a torrential rain, and on the way down the mountain, she fell and met Willoughby, a sharpshooter who was hunting.
The moment Willoughby picked up Marianne, the two attracted each other.
Willoughby is handsome and personable, and he has a similar personality to Marianne, full of emotions, and has the same interests.
After a few days of getting along, they were like glue. Marianne is more emotional than rational, and in her heart and eyes, there is only Willoughby, who thinks that he is her ideal partner.
However, the words "scumbag" will never be written on the face.
Willoughby's idle, bohemian, emotionally false nature was soon exposed.
He is an abusive person, and the girl he pursues must be rich. After discovering that Marianne is a girl from a declining family, he knows that she is not his ultimate goal. Therefore, he chose to leave quietly and marry a rich girl.
Although he confessed that he was sincere to Marianne, he could not accept the days without money, so he had to find someone else.
His shameless words reveal his inner indifference and selfishness, which looks affectionate, but is actually a villain's scumbag behavior.
Mr. Yang Di said: "In love, there is always a reason for the encounter between the two, either a gift or a lesson, what is left is the scenery, and what is left is life. ”
Obviously, love at first sight of a female nurse at the beginning is a good life, and Marianne's love at first sight brings her a lesson and growth.
Two pairs of lovers fully show that love at first sight is inseparable from emotional contribution, but it requires the correct restraint of reason.
True love is a combination of reason and sensual cognition, and must not be done hastily.
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