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"Breaking into the Guandong": Xian'er harmed Xiu'er for 18 years and was widowed, why can the two still become best friends

author:Vanssiling

Xian'er and Chuanwu were separated, and when they saw the Zhu family again many years later, Xiu'er stood at the door, staring at Xian'er without saying a word.

The rival's eyes were red when they met, and in Xiu'er's eyes at that time, there was resentment and hatred for Xian'er.

Xian'er knew this, when she got up and was about to leave, she walked to the door and passed by Xiu'er, Xian'er stopped and said solemnly: "Xiu'er, it's sister who is sorry for you." ”

Indeed, without Xian'er, Xiu'er would not have been a widow from the second day of her wedding, and this guard was 18 years.

Hearing Xian'er's apology, Xiu'er didn't do anything to her, what she wanted at that time was not this late apology, but Chuanwu's heart.

"Breaking into the Guandong": Xian'er harmed Xiu'er for 18 years and was widowed, why can the two still become best friends

A few years later, the relationship between Xiu'er and Chuanwu has not changed, but strangely, she and Xian'er have become good sisters.

The two could discuss things together, and Xiu'er took the initiative to give way, so that Chuanwu and Xian'er had lovers and eventually became dependents.

When I first watched "Breaking into the Guandong", I thought that Xiu'er and Xian'er were reconciled, but they just chose to surrender to this relationship.

However, after rewatching this drama, I realized that Xian'er and Xiu'er first fell in love with the sisters, what is the truth behind it?

"Breaking into the Guandong": Xian'er harmed Xiu'er for 18 years and was widowed, why can the two still become best friends

After Chuanwu and Xian'er experienced a lot of things in the mountain field, the two developed feelings.

At first, Xian'er didn't dare to like Chuanwu, firstly, she was no longer a yellow flower girl, and she felt that she was no longer worthy of any man.

This is her short-sightedness and her insurmountable inferiority.

Second, she almost became Chuanwu's sister-in-law, and with this relationship, it was doomed that she and Chuanwu wanted to be together, which was more difficult than ascending to the sky.

So, after breaking up from the mountain field, Xian'er and Chuanwu lost contact for eight years.

During this time, Chuanwu's heart has always lived with Xian'er.

But coincidentally, Xiu'er was in the gap between Chuanwu's feelings and had a crazy infatuation with him.

Usually at such a time, as long as Xiu'er knows how to care about Chuanwu, she can slowly get Chuanwu's heart.

"Breaking into the Guandong": Xian'er harmed Xiu'er for 18 years and was widowed, why can the two still become best friends

However, Xiu'er does not understand love.

Xiu'er is an only child, and has been protected too well by her father Han Laohai since she was a child, as long as she wants, Han Laohai will always meet her daughter's requirements.

Therefore, Xiu'er never knew what giving was and what love was.

She only knows that if she likes someone, she must have it.

Chuanwu's heart originally had the existence of Xian'er, and Xiu'er not only did not understand, but also took the initiative to show favor to him repeatedly.

Seeing that Chuanwu did not appreciate her affection, Xiu'er asked Han Laohai to help.

His parents came forward, and in order to establish a good relationship with their neighbors, Zhu Kaishan and his wife responded to the request of Xiu'er's family and asked Chuanwu to go to their house to help with farm work.

"Breaking into the Guandong": Xian'er harmed Xiu'er for 18 years and was widowed, why can the two still become best friends

At that time, Chuanwu was not at the mercy of his eldest brother and third brother, he had a bad temper and a high heart, and the more others forced him to do something, the more it would backfire.

Besides, relationships are originally a matter for two people, and if a relationship involves parents, it will become extremely complicated and uncomfortable.

This made Chuanwu feel that he was very useless, so he had been avoiding Xiu'er, but no matter how he refused, Xiu'er still entertained herself in her emotional world.

In the end, in order to fulfill his daughter's wishes, Han Laohai took Chuanwu as a trading object, as long as Chuanwu and Xiu'er were married, he could help Zhu Kaishan solve the problem of difficulty in diverting water from rice fields.

Just as the two parents were circulating about Wu and Xiu'er, Xian'er appeared.

Her appearance completely awakened Chuanwu's heart.

"Breaking into the Guandong": Xian'er harmed Xiu'er for 18 years and was widowed, why can the two still become best friends

This time, Chuanwu could not lose Xian'er no matter what, but no matter how firm his heart was, it was useless, and his relationship with Xian'er was strongly opposed by Zhu Kaishan.

In order to cut off the thoughts of Chuanwu and Xian'er, Zhu Kaishan thought of a trick to think of Xian'er as a goddaughter, so that his sister and brother could never be together again.

Here, Zhu Kaishan cannot be blamed for being domineering, and he also had to do it.

When Xian'er appeared, Chuanwen, who had just married, wanted to repent and remarry Xian'er, and now, Chuanwu likes Xian'er again, and if Zhu Kaishan agrees to the marriage between Chuanwu and Xian'er, there will be no peaceful day for the Zhu family in the future.

So, the best thing to do is not to start.

Soon, after solving the matter between Xian'er and Chuanwu, he and Han Laohai held a wedding for Chuanwu and Xiu'er.

Let's put it this way, Xian'er and Chuanwu love each other but are forced to separate, and Chuanwu and Xiu'er have no love, but under her force, they are united.

"Breaking into the Guandong": Xian'er harmed Xiu'er for 18 years and was widowed, why can the two still become best friends

The treatment of the two is very different.

Xiu'er thought that as long as Chuanwu was by his side, his heart would turn towards her sooner or later.

But Xiu'er overestimated herself and underestimated love, and the day after marriage, Chuanwu ran away from home with Xian'er.

This walk is several years.

In the years after Chuanwu left, Xiu'er had a very hard time, not only to endure the cold eyes of others, but also to endure the loneliness at night.

After suffering so much, but Xiu'er still doesn't know what love is?

After Chuanwu and Xian'er separated, they returned to the Zhu family, at this time, Xiu'er knew that he had Xian'er in his heart, but still asked Chuanwu to let her have a child.

"Breaking into the Guandong": Xian'er harmed Xiu'er for 18 years and was widowed, why can the two still become best friends

Parents have no love, bringing children into this world will only make him continue the suffering of his parents, and children growing up in such a family are likely to be difficult to be happy.

These truths are understood by Chuan Wu.

But Xiu'er didn't understand, in her cognition, her parents also came over like this, why can they live a harmonious life?

Chuanwu's eldest brother and sister-in-law have also been slowly cultivated from no feelings, and the relationship between the two has become closer after having a child.

Therefore, Xiu'er is sometimes forced to Chuanwu, sometimes pleading.

But every time, he was ruthlessly rejected by Chuanwu.

Many times, Xiu'er hates Xian'er in her heart, although she is not there, she occupies all of Chuanwu's heart, so that Xiu'er can't squeeze in.

But looking back, if it weren't for himself, Xian'er or He Chuanwu would have lived a happy life now.

I once heard the saying: "In a relationship, the one who is not loved is the third party." ”

"Breaking into the Guandong": Xian'er harmed Xiu'er for 18 years and was widowed, why can the two still become best friends

Gradually, Xiu'er felt like she was superfluous.

Later, Ichiro appeared.

When Ichiro was a teenager, when everyone wanted to give up on him, it was Xiu'er who saved his life.

After Ichiro's body recovered, he returned to his biological parents, and since then, he has always remembered Hide'er in his heart.

When Xiu'er saw Ichiro again, the once sick boy had become a handsome guy with talents.

After contact, Ichiro found that Xiu'er was not happy.

And he, on the one hand, out of repayment and on the other hand, out of affection, during that time, Ichiro took Xiu'er to experience things that had never been done before.

"Breaking into the Guandong": Xian'er harmed Xiu'er for 18 years and was widowed, why can the two still become best friends

He invited Xiu'er to a western restaurant to eat steak and drink red wine, and on Xiu'er's birthday, Ichiro celebrated for her and invited her to eat cakes that she had never seen before.

These beautiful experiences, Chuanwu has never done for Xiu'er.

Ichiro's affection, Xiu'er saw it in her eyes.

It was at this time that Xiu'er deeply realized what it was like to like someone.

The person who really likes you will not let you be wronged, he will change the way to make you happy every day.

Gradually, Xiu'er also understood that she was only possessive of Chuanwu and had no love at all.

If you love someone deeply, how can you empathize so easily?

"Breaking into the Guandong": Xian'er harmed Xiu'er for 18 years and was widowed, why can the two still become best friends

Xiu'er began to understand Chuanwu and Xian'er, the kind of love between them.

Therefore, when Xian'er was rescued from the law field by Chuanwu, Xiu'er made up her mind to give up the throne and let Xian'er marry Chuanwu, and she would be Zhu Kaishan's daughter.

From here, a particularly strange phenomenon emerged.

In the past, Chuanwu always deliberately avoided Xiu'er when he returned home, but when he heard that Nawen wanted to tell his parents about the three of them, Xiu'er said to Nawen: "Don't worry, if he doesn't say it, I will say it too." ”

After Xiu'er said this, Chuanwu gave her an intriguing look, that look, there was gratitude, surprise, and a little tenderness.

Chuanwu finally waited for Xiu'er to open up, it was too difficult.

"Breaking into the Guandong": Xian'er harmed Xiu'er for 18 years and was widowed, why can the two still become best friends

After Xiu'er understood love, she not only became a good sister with Xian'er, but also boldly filed for divorce with Chuanwu and remarried to Ichilang.

Xiu'er and Xian'er have become best friends, with her letting go and Xian'er's understanding.

Xian'er took Xiu'er one step ahead and liked to upload martial arts, but when Chuanwu wanted to take her to elope, Xian'er not only did not object, but also walked comfortably.

Her behavior has deeply hurt Xiu'er and hurt the Zhu family.

Therefore, when they met again many years later, Xian'er had fully awakened, even if she still had Chuanwu in her heart, she still gave up entanglement with him.

This is also where Xiu'er was finally moved from the heart.

"Breaking into the Guandong": Xian'er harmed Xiu'er for 18 years and was widowed, why can the two still become best friends

Some people say that if Xiu'er had gotten out earlier, her ending would have been different.

However, people are often like this, when a person is obsessed with a relationship, you can never wake up, the only thing you can do is to let her experience it herself, and finally be woken up.

Although this is more costly, she will be impressed and will never make the same mistake again.

After Xiu'er woke up painfully, Cheng Chuanwu accepted Ichiro, even if Ichiro died in the end, but in Xiu'er's life, at least he experienced what true love is.

[The pictures are all from the stills of "Breaking the Guandong", invaded and deleted]

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