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Lei Jiayin's awards gala will be ridiculed for the "blackface" incident reversed, and I saw the ugliest scene of human nature

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Lei Jiayin's awards gala will be ridiculed for the "blackface" incident reversed, and I saw the ugliest scene of human nature

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Previously, at an awards party, Lei Jiayin's "black face" appeared on the hot search.

At the award ceremony that day, Lei Jiayin almost froze his face, making netizens feel out of state.

The most embarrassing part of the night was that Lei Jiayin, as the award presenter, partnered with senior Zhang Kaili to present the Best Supporting Actor Award to other actors.

In order to adjust the atmosphere of the award ceremony, Zhang Kaili always kept smiling, but Lei Jiayin "blackened her face" all the way.

Zhang Kaili first ridiculed: "Bingkun, you are so handsome today."

As soon as the words fell, Lei Jiayin turned his head and touched his nose, without extra words.

Lei Jiayin's awards gala will be ridiculed for the "blackface" incident reversed, and I saw the ugliest scene of human nature

Then Zhang Kaili praised him as "the most beautiful boy in light tablets", Lei Jiayin still turned his head and replied with an expressionless face: "Brother-in-law is sitting, don't laugh at me."

Lei Jiayin's awards gala will be ridiculed for the "blackface" incident reversed, and I saw the ugliest scene of human nature

Then, the two chatted briefly, and Zhang Kaili smiled and said that she hoped that the next cooperation would not drop her off the bicycle again.

Viewers who have watched the TV series "The World" know that this is a plot in the play.

Zhang Kaili said this, also to make a joke with the use of the plot.

But he didn't want Lei Jiayin to say:

"It's really not bad for me, if I remember correctly, it was Sister Kelly improvising at the time, and we didn't seem to have written this scene in the script. At that time, it fell quite heavily, which startled the director. So it's your dedication to the role that is really worth learning from our juniors."

After listening to this paragraph, it was really embarrassing.

Lei Jiayin's "black face" state stopped when he heard that he had won the best actor, he swept away the haze and instantly smiled.

Lei Jiayin's awards gala will be ridiculed for the "blackface" incident reversed, and I saw the ugliest scene of human nature

Some netizens even accused Lei Jiayin of his character because of the huge gap before and after.

After the incident fermented, Lei Jiayin finally clarified the situation that night in an interview, and the incident also took a huge turn.

It turned out that he participated in the award ceremony that day, and he was only 30% sure of winning the award for best actor.

For the trophy, he wanted it, but felt he couldn't get it.

Especially after the rest of the crew has won many honors, he feels that he is hopeless.

It is precisely because of this uneasy inner state that his mind is a mess, and this has become the "black face" in the eyes of the audience.

It's really embarrassing to read it.

There are too many people who are often easily misled by one-sided information, or catch the wind and shadows, or the clouds of people.

Thinking that your own perception is correct, you do not think about it, do not discriminate, and even stand on the moral high ground and point fingers at others with your own prejudices.

But they don't know that such words and deeds not only expose their ignorance, but also hurt innocent people.

There is a saying in "To Kill a Mockingbird":

"You can never really get to know a person unless you walk around in his shoes and put yourself in his shoes."

Take it for granted.

If you can't empathize, please don't point fingers.

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One summer, Zhihu netizen @ There is a bear walking home from work. In Wuhan at that time, even the sunset could be hot in minutes.

When I arrived at the intersection, I happened to encounter a red light, and netizens could only pace back and forth at the intersection.

On the main road, there were not many pedestrians except for a few duty officers standing next to the intersection urging pedestrians to cross the road civilly.

Suddenly, netizens heard someone next to them shouting loudly, "Eh, young man."

As soon as netizens heard it, they knew that it was calling him, because there was no one else at the intersection.

But netizens didn't want to pay attention to it, but felt a little helpless: "I'm just walking back and forth at the intersection, and I don't want to run a red light, why call me?" ”

Seeing that the young man did not respond, the officer on duty shouted even louder.

Netizens were even more irritable by the hot sunset, and some dissatisfaction rose in their hearts, ready to return to the duty officer.

Just turned his head, but netizens saw the on-duty staff pointing to a simple pavilion built with an umbrella on the side.

Suddenly, he understood everything, and the words on his lips could no longer be spoken.

Sure enough, when the officer on duty saw him turn around, he hurriedly said: "Young man, the weather is so hot, come and take advantage of the coolness, don't heat up your body." ”

When netizens listened, their faces were only full of infinite embarrassment.

The smaller the matter, the more you can see the innermost thoughts of people's hearts.

Shakespeare said: The fool is wise to himself, and the wise are foolish to himself.

In life, many people habitually ignore their own ignorance, and then self-righteously speculate on other people's thoughts, and even evaluate other people's character, completely ignoring other people's feelings.

But what they don't see is that their prejudices are trapping themselves in a small world without knowing it.

This is the ugliest side of human nature, and it has to be changed.

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2 tips to quit your prejudices and be a mature adult.

1. Cognitive iceberg model

There is a famous model in psychology called the iceberg model.

We know that about 90% of free-floating icebergs sink below the surface of seawater.

Therefore, the iceberg model refers to the part that is revealed, only a small part of the whole, and most of it is hidden.

Lei Jiayin's awards gala will be ridiculed for the "blackface" incident reversed, and I saw the ugliest scene of human nature

As far as we can see, we can only observe a small part of the world. Just looking at the shape of the iceberg floating on the water, it is difficult to guess the shape underwater.

But often, people like to speculate about the truth of the whole thing based on a small part of what they have.

But in fact, what is not visible or not discovered for the time being is likely to be the more important part of the whole event.

Therefore, in any judgment, we must remind ourselves: there is a high probability that I do not have holograms.

Therefore, learning to use critical thinking allows us to look at problems more rationally, so that we are not caught up in prejudice.

Wang Xiaobo once said:

"Foaming at the mouth, making a big value judgment on others, the level is very low."

In the adult world, learning to think rationally and not being trapped by prejudice is a sign of a person's maturity.

2. Improve self-pattern

Zhuangzi said a classic sentence in "The Getaway": "Summer insects cannot speak to ice, and well frogs cannot speak to the sea." ”

It's a bug that if it only has a life cycle of summer months, and you tell it what ice is, it won't know. It can't imagine that thing, because its life cycle never goes through winter.

Similarly, the frog in the well cannot talk to it about the sea because its vision is limited by its small abode.

When your knowledge is only one acre and three points, you are not qualified to comment on others.

Improve your pattern, and you will find that you who were once prejudiced against the world are actually just because the pattern is too small.

The philosopher Immanuel Kant said, "I respect any independent soul, and although I do not approve of some of them, I can understand them as much as possible." ”

Gentlemen are harmonious and different.

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