In the latest issue of "Goodbye Lover 2", in order to give 3 pairs of guests who are facing problems in their marriages a role model of faith in love, the program team specially invited famous model couples in the entertainment industry to be guests, on the one hand, "show affection", on the other hand, they also discussed some practical problems with 6 guests.
The fundamental reason why Huang Jue and his wife Maizi have been in love for many years is not only that they are still in love with each other, but also that the two have always known how to manage this relationship well after marriage, and learned to cherish and know how to be grateful.
Huang Jue also shared the rules of his marriage with Maizi in the show, no matter what quarrels and conflicts look like, he is not allowed to say the word divorce!
However, compared with Huang Jue and Maizi's mutual agreement, Zhang Wanting and Song Ningfeng have said about 30 divorces in the process of getting along and falling in love for 3 years!
This is a very typical contrast, the contrast between the feelings of loving couples and quarreling couples is so strong, hanging divorce on the lips, even if they do not really want to separate, they will gradually wear down each other's sincerity and perseverance.
However, Song Ningfeng has said more than once in the show that he will not divorce! Although his wife is so strong and sharp, he still feels that he will not come to the step of divorce.
Many netizens don't understand, including Gina, who also quipped: Did Zhang Wanting "save" Song Ningfeng's "life"?
When I watched more plots, I found that although Zhang Wanting did not have a substantial "life-saving grace" for her husband, many things were undoubtedly "kindness comparable to heaven" to Song Ningfeng!
Every time after his wife broke out, Song Ningfeng was silent and resigned, but he would first reflect on himself, bluntly saying that he was not good enough, did not take care of his wife's emotions, and did not give her enough trust, which led to the loss of control of his wife's emotions.
In the depths of Song Ningfeng's heart, he reflects on his own shortcomings so much, which is equivalent to him facing another status quo: my wife loves me very much, loves me very much to care so much, and cares about losing his temper and breaking out.
Song Ningfeng's logic may seem difficult to understand at first glance, but if you stand at the opportunity when the two of them came together, it is easy to understand the reason why Song Ningfeng is so inclusive.
That's right, one of the reasons why Song Ningfeng doesn't divorce is for his daughter Onna, and he doesn't shy away from the show, and Zhang Wanting also agrees. If there were no children, the two would have separated early in the morning, because the personality difference is too much.
But because of his children, Song Ningfeng chose to endure, including countless quarrels, and his wife's various hysterical madness. Watching his young daughter cry in the quarrel, Song Ningfeng's inner struggle deepened.
However, the more realistic problem is that Song Ningfeng frankly admitted that he was not as rich as Zhang Wanting!
Although he debuted as an actor for 19 years, Song Ningfeng has always been not a first-line actor, not even a second-line actor, not too well-known, and his income is not as good as Zhang Wanting, who is an agent.
Moreover, after Song Ningfeng divorced Qi Xi, the money has always been handed over to his mother for safekeeping. It wasn't until she met Zhang Wanting and soon became pregnant that Song Ningfeng cried and went to her mother, asked for her bank card back, and handed it to Zhang Wanting.
This detail is very important, although no wife has money, but Song Ningfeng still chooses to "hand over" all his savings to his wife, which is his responsibility as a husband and father, and it is also to prove his expectations for the future and family.
Obviously, from the very beginning of their marriage, Zhang Wanting took the initiative to control all the economic conditions of her husband and occupied a dominant position in the marriage.
And the reason why Song Ningfeng let his wife keep all his savings is that he has a deep gratitude to Zhang Wanting.
Zhang Wanting said that when she first proposed, Song Ningfeng's words moved her very much: I have nothing, and you are still willing to follow me.
It turned out that after divorcing Qi Xi, Song Ningfeng once had nothing, no money, no car and house, and a divorced person who was alone was as lonely as a "duckweed".
And Zhang Wanting, who was 10 years younger, fell in love with such a sloppy Song Ningfeng at that time, which made Song Ningfeng feel very pleased. He once felt that Zhang Wanting loved his people, not his external things and the so-called actor's fame.
At that moment, Song Ningfeng felt that he could still meet such pure love after divorce, and the woman quickly gave birth to a daughter to him, and the comfort after being lonely was the most profound and moving.
Song Ningfeng was very grateful at the beginning, and when he had nothing, no money, and nothing, Zhang Wanting also gave him a home without hesitation, so that he had more expectations for life.
In Song Ningfeng's heart, the first encounter with Zhang Wanting's hot and pure love was like grabbing a life-saving straw, freeing himself from the lonely and cold "vortex", going ashore, and feeling at ease.
Therefore, this is the fundamental reason why Song Ningfeng is unwilling to divorce, children are just an inseparable factor, and it is more because Song Ningfeng has always been a very soft person in his heart.
Don't look at Zhang Wanting and say that he won't coax people to take care of emotions, but Song Ningfeng has always remembered his most embarrassing moment in his relationship, and Zhang Wanting is like a light that illuminates life.
People's character determines destiny, this is a very real problem, Song Ningfeng has always been grateful, there is gratitude and debt to Zhang Wanting, so in the process of 3 years of marriage, in the outbreak of quarrels again and again, he can reflect on his infinite tolerance.
In addition, there are more realistic factors, money does not earn as much as Zhang Wanting, and the natural family status is relatively inferior. Although it is a husband and wife, who has a high income, will naturally have more confidence.