Reiza: Reinvent your role in life and get out of the cage of your heart.
Eggs, broken from the outside are called food, broken from the inside are called life. Excuse me, do you want to be someone else's meal, or do you want to be reborn yourself?
In an interview, Reiza compared her past, especially the period of depression, to a wicked person, saying that in the face of the wicked, she could not choose to endure and live cowardly, because the more she endured, the more she would be bullied, because the wicked knew that she would not resist. She was reborn when she straightened her waist against the wicked.
Yes, everyone is the protagonist of their own life, how to go on the road, how the role should be played, whether the ending is comedy or tragedy, it is up to them. Because of this, she was not afraid of having children out of wedlock, challenged severe depression, and sent herself to the stage of the 33rd Feitian Awards with the help of the role of Li Shuihua in "Mountain and Sea Love", and finally succeeded.
Who are you as a normal person? Or, what is your role?
In the Kapman Triangle, there are three roles: victim, persecutor, and rescuer, each with their own characteristics.
Victims: scapegoats, rebels, dependents, incapacitated, pathetic, desperate, frustrated, masochistic, burnout, doubtful, wounded, dependent, melancholy, indulgent, unfaired, self-pitying, stagnant complainers.
PERSECUTORS: Helpers, Implementers, Repairers, Generous Reliefers, Sacrificial Devotees, Planners, Solution Seekers, Analysts, Mentors, Apologists, Peacekeepers, Forgivenesses, Pleasers, Charitable High Officials, Able, "Knowledgeable" Facilitators.
Saviors: Impatient trainers, bullies, mockers, righteous perfectionists, suspicious, angry, criticic, abusive, harsh, blame-bearers.
There is a certain belief in all three roles, and the victim says that people all over the world can't help themselves and are bullying themselves; The persecutor said that everyone can do what he says; The rescuer said that without his help, everyone would have had a bad life.
Everyone has three roles and switches back and forth between them, but at a certain time they focus more on one or the other.
Whichever you are, when you decide to change to a new character, no one can stop you, because the script is always in your own hands.
"My dear, there is no one else out there, only yourself." When you bravely choose to be reborn, the whole world will cheer you on, let go and chase after the more wonderful self.
