In the summer of 2006, Li Youbin suddenly found his son and said to him: "Your mother and I have decided to divorce. ”
Li Xiaoke tried to stop it, but her mother's attitude was equally tough, and she had to leave.
After returning home, Zhang Ruiqi locked herself in the house and cried alone.
Li Xiaoke couldn't help crying while helping his father pack up his clothes, although he was an adult, his father's departure still made him sad.
Looking at his son's back, Li Youbin found that his son had unknowingly grown up.
In previous years, for his own career, he missed the growth of his son and failed his wife's waiting.
Before stepping out of the house, Li Youbin said to his wife in the room, "It's my fault." ”
In order to replenish his family, Li Youbin left all his property to them.
In 2008, someone photographed Li Youbin and Shi Lanya visiting the mall, and after unsuccessfully asking the reporter to hand over the photos, Li Youbin and the reporter who took the photo clashed.
Shi Lanya on the side was anxious and dialed the police.
The two had a scandal before, but it has not been confirmed.
Now with such a toss, all the media have exposed their romance, and also pushed the two people to the forefront.
After becoming famous, Li Youbin divorced Zhang Ruiqi and married Shi Lanya, who was 13 years younger than him, raising his stepson while neglecting his own son.
The divorce of his parents caused great psychological damage to Li Xiaoke, and Li Youbin did not try his best to make up for his son's debt until many years later.
Li Xiaoke not only became disgusted with his father, but also resisted marriage, and was not married at the age of 38.
On February 15, 1958, Li Youbin was born in Kuancheng District, Changchun, Jilin, and it is still early to say that this fame must be made early.
When he was in elementary school, Li Youbin was selected by Changchun Film Studio to star in a movie called "The General's Son".
Although "The General's Son" was not really released in the end, the dream of growing up to be an actor has quietly germinated in his heart.
The Li family has a total of 4 children, Li Youbin ranks second, and there is an eldest sister above.
The eldest sister Li Yeping not only has to take care of the lives of the siblings, as a dramatist, she also sets an example for Li Youbin.
Influenced by his eldest sister, Li Youbin usually watches drama performances, growing up in such an environment, Li Youbin also joined the drama troupe at the age of 16.
At the beginning, Li Youbin could only play some small supporting roles, and compared with the old actors in the troupe, he still had a certain gap.
Different from Li Youbin, who just joined the troupe, Zhang Ruiqi was already a famous actor in the drama troupe at that time, not only good-looking, but also very gentle.
At the first meeting, Li Youbin fell in love with the pure-looking Zhang Ruiqi at first sight.
In order to catch up with the girl he liked, Li Youbin also used all his strength, and in the end, Zhang Ruiqi could not resist his fierce pursuit, and the two became a couple.
In 1984, Li Youbin and Zhang Ruiqi became husband and wife, and a year later their son Li Xiaoke was born.
When faced with family and career choices, most women choose family.
Zhang Ruiqi's parents are executives, she began to contact drama since she was a child, and after being admitted to the drama troupe, she quickly became a pillar in the troupe by virtue of her appearance advantage.
If it were not for meeting Li Youbin, Zhang Ruiqi might have done something in the drama industry, and perhaps like Li Youbin, he would have become an actor and shine in the entertainment industry.
Zhang Ruiqi, who chose her family and gave up her career at this time, may not have realized what kind of risks she was about to face.
In 1986, because of his excellent acting skills, Li Youbin led him to transfer him to Changchun Film Studio.
Li Youbin, who has been appreciated, although the performance opportunities have increased, but the salary has not increased.
In order to make a good life for the whole family, Li Youbin decided to go to Beijing to break in.
Li Youbin, who first arrived in Beijing, did not dare to slack off on weekdays, shuttling through various crews all day.
At first, life in Beijing was okay, and Li Youbin would go home as soon as possible after work, and the family would be happy.
In Li Xiaoke's mind, this period was his happiest time.
In order to have a foothold in the entertainment industry, Li Youbin had to put more time on his career.
In the days that followed, Li Youbin came home later and later, and his wife warmed the meal again and again.
In 2002, Li Youbin played Lu Guangda in the movie "Out of the Sky" and won the Best Actor at the Changchun Film Festival.
Li Youbin, who is 44 years old, has finally begun to improve his career.
The fame is getting bigger and bigger, and more and more people are inviting Li Youbin to make movies.
When his career was on the rise, the relationship between Li Youbin and his wife was getting weaker and weaker, and he was busy filming all day, and he had no intention of taking care of his family.
Years later, his son Li Xiaoke recalled: "For a whole year, he spent less than a month at home, and his mother presided over all the big and small affairs of the family. ”
In the face of this kind of intermittent marriage, Zhang Ruiqi's dissatisfaction in her heart became more and more intense, and she often scolded without saying a few words, and then there was an endless cold war.
It just so happened that at this time, Shi Lanya entered Li Youbin's life, and the two played husband and wife in the play, and even director Battle couldn't help but sigh, you two played the couple alive.
Li Youbin felt that his wife could not understand him, and Shi Lanya on the side happened to act as an enlightener to appease Li Youbin.
The close relationship between Shi Lanya and Li Youbin in the crew soon spread to Zhang Ruiqi's ears.
Her husband is not at home all day, and now that this kind of scandal is being reported, Zhang Ruiqi, who is in the cold war, will inevitably want to be crooked.
And Li Youbin did not explain much in the face of such a scandal, only felt that his wife was messing around.
In 2005, after the TV series "Bright Sword" starring Li Youbin was broadcast, it caused a great response.
Li Youbin also relied on the role of Li Yunlong to become fragrant in the eyes of producers.
Originally, Li Youbin did not want to play this role, but later decided to play it under the lobbying of a friend, and this friend is Shi Lanya.
Li Xiaoke felt in his heart that the main responsibility for the failure of this marriage lay with his father.
Sometimes when Li Youbin comes home, Li Xiaoke will avoid it.
Li Youbin was not angry about this, but went home more often, and every time he went back, he would buy him a lot of delicious food.
Li Youbin's excessive concern made Li Xiaoke think that his father realized his mistake and would remarry his mother after that.
But what he didn't expect was that his father not only did not remarry his mother, but also married the object of the scandal of the year.
After Li Xiaoke learned of his father's new love, he was very angry and thought that his parents' divorce had a lot to do with Shi Lanya.
In order to resolve his son's misunderstanding of his father, Zhang Ruiqi chose to take care of the overall situation: "Li Youbin did not cheat in marriage, and we divorced because he was too career-minded and had no feelings for too long. ”
With the proof of his ex-wife, Li Youbin and Shi Lanya got married naturally.
Under Zhang Ruiqi's persuasion, Li Xiaoke began to slowly understand his father's decision, but it was only accepted on the surface, and there was still a gap in private.
After remarrying, Li Youbin not only had a new wife, but also had a son.
Before marrying Li Youbin, Shi Lanya experienced two marriages, and this stepson did not like the new father very much.
Not only did he not have a good face, but he also opposed him everywhere, putting sand into his leather shoes and deliberately knocking down the rice bowl when eating.
Once Li Youbin was writing a letter, and the naughty stepson grabbed his pen and ran out.
Li Youbin, who is more than half a hundred years old, can only chase the child all over the courtyard, tired and panting, Shi Lanya, who rushed to hear the sound, grabbed the pen and raised his hand to hit his son.
Li Youbin immediately stepped forward to stop it and told Shi Lanya: "This is a matter between father and son, we can solve it ourselves." ”
Li Youbin knows that if his stepson does not accept him, then he and Shi Lanya will not get along happily, so he must take down his stepson.
Li Youbin, who used to have no time to take care of his family, found time to pick up his children from school every day in order to promote the relationship between father and son.
I'll also buy some snacks and clothes on the way home.
Under a series of attacks, the simple child finally gave in to him and shouted "Father Li" to Li Youbin.
The moment he called out his father, Li Youbin burst into tears.
In order to preserve this hard-won father-son relationship, Li Youbin completely complied with all the requests made by his stepson.
It wasn't until Shi Lanya reminded him that this would harm the child that Li Youbin began to restrain himself.
Under the dual care of his mother and stepfather, his stepson not only has good grades, but is also tall and handsome.
Old Li of Deser often said to his friends: "The stepson is his pride." ”
Here, Li Youbin and his stepson get along well, but his own son has not seen each other for a long time.
So on the weekend, he called Li Xiaoke to his home and asked Shi Lanya to make a table full of good dishes.
At this time, Li Youbin, like other old people, began to worry about his son's marriage, hoping that he could get married and have children as soon as possible and let him hold his grandson.
Unexpectedly, my son just replied lightly: I am not interested in falling in love and getting married.
Li Youbin wondered: "Why don't you fall in love?" You're not small anymore. ”
Li Xiaoke just bowed his head to eat, silent.
At the beginning, Li Youbin thought that he just hadn't met the right person, but when he graduated and joined the work, Li Xiaoke still had no intention of falling in love.
At this time, Li Youbin couldn't sit still, so he found his ex-wife, and the two educated their son.
Under the constant pressure of his parents, Li Xiaoke chose to compromise, telling Li Youbin that a girl was chasing him and that he was willing to try to talk.
Li Youbin: "Okay, as long as you are willing to try, you don't have to worry about other things, your parents will give you Zhang Luo." ”
On the way home, Li Youbin smiled, and seemed to be able to become a grandfather immediately.
But some things always backfire, just like when he didn't remarry and turned around and married Shi Lanya, Li Xiaoke also gave him a "surprise".
A year later, Li Youbin did not wait for his son to bring his girlfriend home, but waited for the news of his son's breakup.
Because her son was too passive and did not care about the relationship, the woman couldn't stand it and proposed to break up.
Seeing that his son was getting older and older, Li Youbin decided that he could not wait any longer, and he began to take the initiative.
Whether it is a relative, a friend, or a neighbor, as long as there is a single woman of the right age, it is possible to become his daughter-in-law.
Under the continuous introduction of his parents, Li Xiaoke finally couldn't resist, and he told the truth that he did not want to get married.
It turned out that the divorce of his parents caused a great shadow in his heart.
Once my parents said everything, and the family of three was sweet and happy, but I don't know when it began, there were only quarrels between the families, and my father left.
He didn't understand why his father, who wanted to make a good life for his family, would leave the family when he became rich.
After learning the reason why his son did not marry, Li Youbin and Zhang Ruiqi both fell into deep thought.
In the face of Li Xiaoke's persistence, Li Youbin has no good way, he can only enlighten his son all the time.
Whether he wants to or not, as long as there is the right girl, he will rack his brains to let the two meet.
Sometimes parents always feel that when their children grow up, they will be able to understand their choices and will not be greatly affected.
As everyone knows, no matter what age you are, you can't understand, and your inner pain is still something that children can't avoid and are bound to experience.
As parents, at this time, we often have to be more patient to explain and enlighten, and at the same time give more care to our children.
Only in this way will they understand their parents' choice, the pain in their hearts will dissipate, and they will not be afraid of love and marriage.
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