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"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

author:Spring and summer entertainment

Zhu Yuchen's three relationships were broken up by his mother

"I have spent my whole life on my son, I have no ego, I have no ego at all."

What exactly can suffocating maternal love ruin a child?

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

The son in this mother's mouth is the well-known star Zhu Yuchen.

Don't look at Zhu Yuchen on the screen is very beautiful, but in real life, he is still alone in his forties, in fact, he also wants to start a family and have children as soon as possible, but on his own emotional road, his mother will always "interfere with it":

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

Zhu Yuchen

"I know every relationship he has, but I will interfere with it."

The lethality of Mother Zhu's words is really not light.

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

Mother Zhu narrated herself

At the beginning, Huo Siyan broke the news, saying that Mother Zhu took a fancy to herself and wanted to make herself her daughter-in-law, but she was scared away by the criteria for Mother Zhu's choice of daughter-in-law, because she really couldn't accept that she had such a controlling mother-in-law:

"Like Zhu Yuchen's mother, I think she may not care how much (the son) goes to find someone who loves or lives together, I think the old man is easy to say, marrying a bride is marrying a new bride."

Huo Siyan narrated herself

Huo Siyan's words amused the audience, but they really poked Mother Zhu's backbone, and the "prospective daughter-in-law" who was scared away by Mother Zhu was not only Huo Siyan alone.

In the early years, Zhu Yuchen and Jiang Yan had a relationship because of the play, Jiang Yan because of the good cooking, but also do housework, and won the heart of Zhu's mother, under the urging of the old man, the two naturally came together after the play was completed.

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

Jiang Yan, Zhu Yuchen

But their relationship is said to have lasted only one year and then disappeared, and to the great shock of the outside world, the reason why Mother Zhu passed the rare "best daughter-in-law" in her eyes was that the other party was dressed too revealingly.

"I think she's dressed too revealingly, you can't be too frivolous in front of your elders at home!"

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

Mother Zhu narrated herself

Mother Zhu even did not shy away from deriving from this, her hard requirements for choosing a good daughter-in-law:

"The division of labor between men and women is different, and women should be good wives and mothers, and since they have married you in, since you are willing to enter this family, you should take your responsibility."

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

Mother Zhu narrated herself

Because of such standard requirements, Zhu Yuchen's relationship with the goddess Tang Wei was also disturbed by her.

The failure of the three relationships hit Zhu Yuchen to a certain extent, but Zhu's mother did not understand her son's mood, and she stubbornly believed that she was doing this for her son's good.

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

Tang Wei

She even listed several guidelines for future daughters-in-law in public, saying that future daughters-in-law must be able to manage their sons, neither drink nor make small children, and live a regular life, and it is best to go home early every day to cook for her son.

After these standards were listed, the majority of netizens were all shocked, and this is one of the reasons why Mother Zhu was attacked by netizens.

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

Mother Zhu demanded

Zhu Yuchen cried alone, and his heavy maternal love suffocated him

"What's wrong, no one wants to be by my side?"

Zhu Yuchen cried sadly in the show, he is still alone in his 40s, he was eroded by loneliness after the dinner, and he was so painful that he plunged into the underground kennel and secretly hurt himself, and a major "hero" of this situation is his mother.

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

Zhu Yuchen

Although she has broken up her son's three romances, Mother Zhu disagrees, she believes that doing so is a manifestation of love for her son, and her desire for control has unconsciously penetrated into every detail of her son's life.

Usually, as long as Zhu Yuchen enters the crew to film, she will live in the crew with her son like a "personal pendant", for nothing else, but for her son to return to the hotel after acting, and can eat the hot meals she made.

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

Zhu Yuchen and his mother

When Zhu Yuchen is not filming, Zhu's mother is also reluctant to let her son cook by himself, as long as her son's ten fingers are stained with Yang Spring Water, she feels ashamed of her son.

In addition, she often goes to her son's house to help clean up and do housework, and when it comes to this, Mother Zhu even has a little pride:

"I can still do it now, I can give, my position at home is, I am two Filipino maids!"

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

Mother Zhu narrated herself

As soon as Mother Zhu's remarks came out, she shocked all the guests in the show, and netizens did not have a trace of sympathy for her excessive efforts.

But Mother Zhu is immersed in this "mother's love" of "good for her son", in addition to taking meticulous care of her son's diet and living, even her son's Weibo, she has to buy a small book to copy down one by one as a souvenir.

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

Zhu Yuchen's mother

Such "mother's love" weighed down Zhu Yuchen, in order to avoid the old man doing such meaningless things again, he never posted on Weibo again.

And Mother Zhu's actions to her son can be said to have adopted the spiritual victory method of self-deception, and she even used a selective "amnesia" trick, and after blocking her son's actions, she still gave her all to him.

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

Zhu Yuchen and his mother

As everyone knows, under the influence of her words and deeds, not only can her son not find a partner, but even her daughter is seriously afraid of marriage.

"She saw this (attitude) towards my son and brother from childhood to adulthood, and she said that she could not bear this responsibility."

Mother Zhu

At this time, Mother Zhu did not think too much about the reason behind this, and blindly gave 70% of her love to her favorite son.

"My mother is very patriarchal anyway, for example, I didn't go back when I was filming outside, my sister said she wanted to eat meat, my mother said 'do you want to eat meat when you're so fat'; my sister said she wanted to eat pig's trotters, and my mother said 'I don't know if your brother has pig's trotters outside, what kind of trotters do you eat?'" ”

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

Zhu Yuchen narrated himself

When Zhu Yuchen recalled the past, he couldn't help but complain about his mother's serious patriarchal thinking, saying that his mother was too harsh on his sister, causing his sister to often complain to him: "You don't have to come back and move around more, my life can be better." ”

And Zhu Yuchen's revelation also made Zhu's mother bombarded by the outside world, and even other mothers of her age in the show advised her to have her own life, but she could never let herself go and let her son go.

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

Zhu Yuchen and his mother

Did Zhu Yuchen's mother really realize the problem?

How terrifying is Zhu Yuchen's mother's intrusive maternal love?

"[I] had some of the best things, the destruction of instruments, and self-inferiority." "I went to touch the electric gate or something."

Zhu Yuchen narrated himself

Zhu Yuchen recalled that he was not happy about his life controlled by his mother in the past, when he was a child, he was forced by his mother to learn musical instruments, and when he grew up, even his love life was controlled by his mother.

Even though Zhu Yuchen is now more than forty years old, the suffocating love brought to him by his mother has never been absent.

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

Zhu Yuchen

Whether he filmed or not, his mother would boil pear juice for him, squeeze all kinds of juice to fill jar after jar to clean him up, and he couldn't stand it for a long time, and he also thought about fighting his mother, but after all, he still couldn't bear to break the old man's heart.

And Zhu Yuchen's connivance also made his mother's desire to control him more and more.

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

Mother Zhu

Mother Zhu once revealed in public that she and her son are also called very strange, they will not call each other in the daily way of "son, mother", but she uses Cantonese "Ite Ye", which translates to "old wife", such a title to call her son.

"I call him Master Yite, and he calls me Little Zhu Mama."

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

The mother and son were so intimate that they called each other "old wife", which gave countless netizens goosebumps.

But in the eyes of Mother Zhu, this is nothing at all, it is just a symbol of her deep relationship with her son.

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

Zhu Nana

She also said that her son has never shown his vulnerable side in front of her, in fact, what she does not know is that her young son once thought of suicide in order to avoid her suffocating maternal love;

In order to avoid her heart-wrenching maternal love, my middle-aged son even cried in public regardless of the image, and shouted why "no one wants to stay by my side"?

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

Zhu Yuchen

Through the lens, after so many years of finally seeing her son's vulnerable side, Mother Zhu was a little incredulous and a little overwhelmed, hearing her son's bitter cry, and seeing her son's lonely figure, she finally woke up.

She took off her armor that she was proud of her son's excessive self-sacrifice and apologized to her son in public for the first time:

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

Zhu Yuchen

"I feel very uncomfortable, I really feel very sorry for my son, I used to intervene a lot in his personal problems, otherwise it would not have dragged on to today."

Mother Zhu sincerely confessed, saying that her son rarely communicated with her and did not want to show his vulnerability to her face, so it seemed that she was actually a failed mother.

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

"In the future, my mother will also pay attention, respect your choices, respect your feelings, and my mother will definitely pay attention."

However, Mother Zhu's sincere apology was not accepted by netizens, because in the eyes of many people, her words may be just talk, and it is actually difficult to really change herself;

"Alternative Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: Missed Tang Wei to live up to Jiang Yan, lying in the kennel in his 40s and crying

Zhu Yuchen's mother

However, everyone also hopes that Mother Zhu can properly give Zhu Yuchen some space to breathe freely, after working hard all her life, she should focus more on herself.

And the story of Zhu Yuchen's mother and son also sounded the alarm for those parents who also have a strong desire to control. The children have grown up and have their own way to go, and parents can take a proper rest.

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