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"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

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He is the "Huazi" who bravely moves forward in "Struggle", and he is also the "Chu Mu" who dares to love and hate in "The Nth Power of Home".

He was once very popular, and together with Hu Ge and Lin Yushen, he was known as the "four students in the circle", and was a recognized powerful actor inside and outside the circle.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

However, it is such a promising person, but now he can only rotate in a supporting role, and there is no progress even with feelings.

And the reason for the current situation is actually inextricably linked to Zhu Yuchen's mother.

And his mother's oppression also made Zhu Yuchen want to take his own life for a while.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

01

In the summer of 1988, the sun shone through the lush leaves on the gate of the Central Academy of Drama.

Another school season, a large number of freshmen gathered inside and outside the door, including Zhu Yuchen's mother and son.

Looking at the bustling students, Zhu Yuchen's heart blossomed, because he could finally "get rid of home" and be out alone.

However, he was not happy for long, and his mother's operation made him feel helpless.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

As the last person to enter the dormitory, Zhu Yuchen took the initiative to greet his roommates out of politeness.

Mother Zhu, on the other hand, looked around the dormitory with patrolling eyes, and then pushed open the window and said:

"There are too many climbing tigers, it must be very insectic, it's not good to bite you, I will use boiling water to burn them all."

As soon as the voice fell, there were a few more sighs in the dormitory.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

Perhaps hearing the surprised voice of her roommate, Zhu Yuchen's mother instantly aimed her spearhead at her roommate.

"Classmate, do you snore at night".

Such an embarrassing and straightforward behavior made Zhu Yuchen hurriedly stop it and sigh.

In fact, this is not the first time he has felt suffocated.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

As a child born in Shanghai, Zhu Yuchen's personality is a "old Beijing" look.

At a very young age, he was interested in Wang Shuo's novels.

Especially the fluent Beijing films in the book made him feel happy and praised one after another.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

Compared with the soft and glutinous Shanghainese, Beijing dialect made him feel more energetic.

In addition to Jing'er, Zhu Yuchen's temper is also like a child in the alley, grinning and eclectic.

However, no matter how free the domestic pigeon is, it will not escape the "cage" of love.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

In order to cultivate the child into an all-round gentleman, Zhu Yuchen's mother has been very strict with him since he was a child.

In addition to passing the culture class, the piano must also be popped.

As a person with a heart for the sea, facing the boring piano, Zhu Yuchen collapsed several times and secretly skipped class.

However, every time he was caught by his mother and educated fiercely.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

Although her mother was very strict, fortunately, the strictness had an effect, and Zhu Yuchen's piano reached level 10.

For this news, although Mother Zhu had tears in her eyes and was very excited, Zhu Yuchen was not as happy as she imagined.

Because this result is not important to him at all.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

As the days flicker, the college entrance examination will come soon.

As a person who has been influenced by Wang Shuo's books since childhood, Zhu Yuchen did not hesitate to set his sights on Beijing when thinking about college entrance examination volunteers, and the Central Academy of Drama was his only choice.

In order to be admitted to his favorite school, Zhu Yuchen enrolled in an acting class during the summer vacation, and it was here that he met his first love, Tang Wei.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

As two people who are also in the same sprint, they have endless dreams.

In this back-and-forth nonsense, the two developed feelings for each other.

There are always more tired moments than practice, and it is no surprise that the two have fallen off the list.

The next year, the two sprinted again, and this time Zhu Yuchen was admitted to the Chinese drama as he wished, but Tang Wei fell off the list again.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

Although the feelings of the first love are sincere and beautiful, they cannot withstand the distance between the two places after all.

The two, who could not see each other for a long time, eventually ended in a breakup.

At that time, Zhu Yuchen would never have thought that his first love turned out to be one of the few independently chosen love experiences in the past 43 years.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

In 2000, Tang Wei, who lost three times in a row, finally stepped into the door of Chinese opera and became Zhu Yuchen's junior sister.

Although the two got rid of the different place, they still did not meet at the right time after all.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

02

After graduating from Chinese opera, Zhu Yuchen did not ascend to the sky in one step, but like most ordinary people, began to run a trick.

Although he has been in many crews, his most outstanding early work is only "Huiniang Wanxin".

It wasn't until 2007 that his career officially took off.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

In 2006, Zhu Yuchen, who was running a trick, was accidentally discovered by Zhao Baogang.

As a director who has directed countless classic films and made many actors popular, Zhao Baogang is simply a "star-making myth" in the entertainment industry.

Therefore, when such a big director issued an invitation to Zhu Yuchen, Zhu Yuchen was so excited that he almost knelt on the ground, and he accepted the invitation without the slightest hesitation.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

As a youth inspirational modern drama, "Struggle" has caused a lot of heated discussions across the country as soon as it was broadcast.

And Tong Dawei, Wang Luodan, Ma Yili and others who starred in this drama also became popular one by one.

Of course, Zhu Yuchen is no exception.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

In 2009, Zhu Yuchen, who had just become popular, once again cooperated with Wang Luodan and Zhao Baogang in "My Youth, My Decision".

As soon as it was released, it unsurprisingly became popular again.

At that time, Zhu Yuchen had a successful career, vigorous spirit, and independent work, and thought that he could get rid of his mother's "control", but who knew that his mother had been silently watching him from behind.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

As a literary and artistic youth, Zhu Yuchen often shares dynamics on his social platforms.

Then there was a time when I didn't update the content because I was too busy with work.

But who knows, he had his mother suddenly call him and ask why he didn't update the news?

It was only then that he learned that his mother had been paying attention to the content on his social platforms.

He even bought a thick notebook to transcribe every piece of his movement.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

This kind of behavior made Zhu Yuchen no longer bear it, and he quarreled with his mother, and it was also at this time that he no longer shared his life as often as before.

Although there are many episodes in ordinary days, life has to move on.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

After his career stabilized, Zhu Yuchen had an affair with the heroine Huo Siyan when filming "Love Must Have You to Be Perfect".

However, the relationship did not last long and ended in a breakup.

The reason for this is what Huo Siyan told in the program.

Zhu Yuchen's practice of choosing a "mother" for his son made the independent Huo Siyan unacceptable.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

I thought that after the breakup, my life would return to the same as before.

Unexpectedly, his mother came directly to Beijing alone, ready to take care of his life full-time.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

03

For his mother's arrival, Zhu Yuchen was very surprised.

In order to let his mother know that he could take care of himself, on the first day that Mother Zhu came, he cooked a meal himself.

Unexpectedly, it was this meal that made Zhu Yuchen's mother blame herself to cry.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

She didn't understand what happened to her son, who had come to eat and opened his mouth, and learned to cook?

It was also from this day that Zhu Yuchen's mother began an inseparable life with her son.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

Every morning at four o'clock in the morning, Mother Zhu gets up to prepare breakfast for her son.

She will finish all the chores by 8 o'clock because she has to make sure that lunch is scheduled.

By ten o'clock in the evening, she would finish everything so that she could set aside time to do laundry.

As for why this time is washed, because electricity is half price after 10 o'clock.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

In order to let her son eat his own cooking, even if Zhu Yuchen is filming in other places, she will bring an induction cooker with her to cook for her son.

It can be said that for so many years, Mother Zhu has been like Zhu Yuchen's mobile kitchen, taking wherever she goes.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

In 2012, a girl like light accidentally broke into Zhu Yuchen's life.

This girl is not only cheerful and beautiful, but also diligent and capable, very close to the daughter-in-law candidate in Mother Zhu's heart.

But even so, the two still became Xiao He and Xiao He.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

Back then, Zhu Yuchen filmed "The Story of Time" and met the considerate and gentle Jiang Yan.

Looking at the near-perfect girl in front of him, Zhu Yuchen didn't have any thoughts at first, because he felt that she must have a boyfriend.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

Later, once Jiang Yan made a plate of cucumbers for the crew's friends and asked Zhu Yuchen to bring it to his colleagues.

happened to be seen by Mother Zhu, looking at the plate of exquisite cucumbers in front of her, Mother Zhu felt that this girl's cooking skills must be very good, so she encouraged Zhu Yuchen to pursue.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

Later, after learning that Jiang Yan did not have a boyfriend, Zhu Yuchen launched an active attack and successfully hugged the beauty back.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

After falling in love with Zhu Yuchen, Jiang Yan, who has always been confident and generous, began to constantly doubt herself.

Whether he is liked by Zhu Yuchen as a person, or because he can take care of people and is suitable to be a wife, he is pursued.

In response to Jiang Yan's question, Zhu Yuchen changed the topic after being silent every time.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

For Mother Zhu, although the daughter-in-law is her own counselor, people also meet their own requirements.

But what she is one thing she is dissatisfied with is that Jiang Yan, as a star, does not have the appearance of everyone at all.

Therefore, such a person, if he is really a daughter-in-law, is still not very reliable.

In the end, under the intervention of Zhu's mother, the two broke up.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

As Zhu Yuchen once said, he feels that if he wants to get married in the future, his will is not important at all, and half of the reason why he can become one is for his mother.

And Mother Zhu never thought that her approach would affect her children's lives.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

04

Zhu Yuchen has an older sister named Zhu Beibei, she is a few years older than Zhu Yuchen, and she is still unmarried.

For so many years, she saw her mother caring for her brother and felt that she could not bear such a responsibility.

So there was a fear of marriage.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

And Zhu Yuchen is the same.

In the past few decades, large and small resistances, in the end, you need to compromise yourself, but it is better to give up resistance at the beginning and listen to your mother, which will be better.

It is precisely with this idea that Zhu Yuchen and his mother spent decades peacefully.

"Mabao Man" Zhu Yuchen: missed Tang Wei and failed Jiang Yan, imprisoned by maternal love for 43 years, and has not yet been married

Although Zhu Yuchen, now 43 years old, is still alone, his career has improved.

We don't know what the future holds, but we do.

Everyone is an individual, and instead of imprisoning your child in a greenhouse, let go and let him find his own sky.

Sometimes, permissiveness is also a form of protection.

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