"It's stupid to ask everyone else to be in tune with us." - Goethe
There is no other "me" in the world, just because it is unique, everyone has different thoughts and different personalities, we must accept that others are different from ourselves, and we must also recognize that there will be no two people in the world who are completely compatible in all aspects. But often people in love ignore this.
Time cannot solve all problems, and long-distance love running may not be able to achieve positive results. If you only blindly pursue subjective values in love and cannot "seek common ground while reserving differences", then you will not be able to go to the end, such as Wu Qihua, the "first brother in the love field".
Master Mother Killer, Love Scene One Brother
Speaking of Wu Qihua, the younger generation may not think of his masterpieces for a while, after all, Wu Qihua is now more than fifty years old, although he has been active in the entertainment industry, but in recent years, the resources have hardly splashed too much.
In fact, Wu Qihua when he was young was red. When the term "master mother killer" was still very popular, people often used it to describe male stars who were very popular among middle-aged women, and Wu Qihua was once named the title of "master mother killer", which shows that Wu Qihua was very popular in the market back then.
Wu Qihua also starred in many male roles in the early years, such as the Hong Kong drama "Wonderful Hands and Benevolence", the 01 version of "Relying on the Sky to Slay the Dragon" and so on. That's right, the 01 version of Zhang Wuji is Wu Qihua. Because of his handsome appearance and "Sven scum" temperament, Wu Qihua not only successfully mastered the role, but also proudly in the love field.
Wu Qihua is called the "prodigal son of love" for no reason. First with Lan Jieying, who debuted at the same time, there was an ambiguous relationship, and then he became acquainted with Miss Bodybuilding He Meiting, not to mention a famous love story with Li Meixian of "strong women and weak men", until the end of the cross-border love with his Thai wife, the label of "prodigal son in love" was firmly attached.
Wu Qihua and his Thai wife's marriage lasted only 5 years, it is said that the Thai wife's family is huge, Wu Qihua's identity as an entertainment star is really not enough in the eyes of his father-in-law, coupled with the difference in cross-border thinking, this marriage is very reluctant, even Wu Qihua himself feels that marriage is impulsive.
Later, Wu Qihua met Jin Qiaoqiao.
Fall in love with "Princess Professional"
The term "princess professional" was tailored for Jin Qiaoqiao. Not only because Jin Qiaoqiao always plays the role of various princesses, but also because Jin Qiaoqiao positions himself as a "princess". Similarly, Jin Qiaoqiao's personality is also somewhat contaminated with the habits of "princesses".
Jin Qiaoqiao and Wu Qihua were only 24 years old when they met, and as Jin Qiaoqiao said, Wu Qihua was her first love.
The two got married in "Peerless Double Pride" and quickly fell in love, Jin Qiaoqiao was young and beautiful at that time, Wu Qihua was also a talent, although Wu Qihua had a short marriage, but the audience was still optimistic about the relationship between the two. They also walked year after year with the golden boy and the jade girl as the audience expected.
The timing of the seven-year itch is not without reason. Under the 7-year long-distance run of Wu Qihua and Jin Qiaoqiao, the freshness has long disappeared, perhaps because the contradictions accumulated over the years have deepened, and their love is easily crushed by "a straw".
Wu Qihua and Jin Qiaoqiao had a quarrel. Jin Qiaoqiao "ran away from home" after the quarrel, perhaps Jin Qiaoqiao at that time subconsciously believed that Wu Qihua would save himself, but what he did not expect was that Wu Qihua not only did not stay, but also personally announced the news of the breakup of the two, and since then, the seven-year love has come to an end.
The first love has been running for seven years, and the emotional failure is indeed a big blow to Jin Qiaoqiao, after all, how many seven years of youth can a girl waste? So after breaking up with Wu Qihua, Jin Qiaoqiao put his energy into work and expanded his career.
Began to be obsessed with "father-daughter love"
Another proof that Wu Qihua is called the "prodigal son of love" is because of his well-known "father-daughter love".
Probably can't escape the heart of liking young and beautiful girls, Wu Qihua and Jin Qiaoqiao separated, and gradually began to embark on the road of "father-daughter love". First fell in love with Luo Yongxian, who was 15 years apart, and then fell in love with Shi Yoko, who was 21 years apart.
The love between Wu Qihua and Shi Yozi was once questioned by the outside world due to the huge age difference, but the party Wu Qihua did not care, still in full swing, and walked into marriage hand in hand with the "little wife", and the two had a daughter after marriage.
It stands to reason that if you want to be together despite all difficulties, your relationship should not be easily affected, but Wu Qihua and Shi Yoko ended this marriage again after 7 years. Another 7 years, which shows that seven years is really a sad hurdle.
This is not difficult to understand, after all, the age difference between the two will directly lead to differences in life concepts, ways of thinking, values and so on. If the beginning of love is hormonal, then after returning to life, sooner or later it will be beaten back to its original shape.
Wu Qihua and Shi Yozi separated smoothly, Wu Qihua did not drag mud and water in their relationship as usual, the only difference was that this time Wu Qihua tried his best to fight for the custody of his daughter.
Wu Qihua once publicly said that he was worried that his daughter would be affected by her parents' divorce, and he was reluctant to hastily end the second marriage, but in the end it backfired. Trying to fight for the custody of my daughter is also to give my daughter the most love and the greatest compensation. Obviously, in terms of parenting ability, Wu Qihua's economic situation is indeed better able to provide good material security for his daughter than Shi Yozi.
After separating from Shi Yozi, Wu Qihua's love life is much more low-key. Perhaps it is because he is getting older, and he has no intention of pursuing too many personal feelings, and he is still single at an age when he has known his destiny.
Love is a lifetime and a couple
Good love is once and for a lifetime, but it can be met but not sought. Even the "prodigal son of love" Wu Qihua, at the beginning of every love, must have the original intention of going to the end, but love needs to be run in too much, if you can't recognize the difference and over-amplify the emotional value, then love will eventually be unreliable.
Wu Qihua still has not mastered the secret of running marriage after two marriages, and some people will inevitably feel sorry for him. But Wu Qihua himself lives dashingly and transparently, he doesn't care if the ending of the story is as expected, he only believes that every step of the experience is arranged by God, love when you should be in love, let go when you should let go, people have to live for themselves in a short life.