Last night, a "blood and tear complaint of 21 art examination circles Fang Siqi" caused a sensation on the Internet. It is said that in the past 15 years, the art examination teachers of an art examination institution have used the convenience of teachers to "seduce" and "sexually harass" hundreds of underage women in the name of education.
The truth of the matter is believed that eventually a person will come out, and the evil person believes that he will also be punished as he deserves. But countless "Fang Siqi" still need to spend their lives healing pain.
According to a survey conducted by the Marriage and Family Research Institute of the All-China Women's Federation on the sexual harassment of Beijing citizens, 70% of women have been sexually harassed, 29% have encountered people with exposure fetishes, 27% have had physical contact with others without reluctance, and 8% have been spied on by others...
Whether it is women in the workplace, female students on campus, and even female children, most of them have been sexually harassed to varying degrees.
I used to talk to my friends about this topic, and in the end I found that each of us had encountered the experience of being harassed.
Some are on the street, and the exposing fetish suddenly takes off his pants in front of himself; There are also people in the toilet who encounter perverts rushing in; In addition, in his childhood, the neighbor's grandfather lured multiple young girls to sit on his lap with sugar and ravaged the girl's lower body...
Another friend said that one summer vacation in elementary school, he was asked by his cousin to hold his genitals at his aunt's house, but fortunately there was no substantial harm in the end.
She said: "My brother is a good son in the eyes of my aunt, filial piety and considerate; Now he is also a good husband and a good father; In front of himself, he is a good brother who takes very good care of people... When I grew up, when I met him, he was always so polite, sincere and thoughtful, maybe he had long forgotten his 'absurdity', but this matter always remained in my heart like a shadow. ”
She also said: "Sometimes, I also think, maybe he didn't understand things at that time, but just did that kind of thing under the influence of hormones..." She didn't tell any of the elders in the family, and even she thoughtfully found an "explanation" for her brother.
It's hard to imagine how many such "Fang Siqi" there really are. Girls who have not been physically hurt may be able to speak up calmly, but how much courage does it take for the real "Fang Siqi" to say what hurt she has suffered?
Such injuries are indescribable, such injuries are devastating, and such injuries affect the future, so many girls choose to hide and choose to lick their wounds themselves.
Today's parents have attached great importance to their children's sex education and taught them to protect themselves. But you can't know what kind of soul is hidden under a hypocritical face.
You don't know what these demons are going to do to hurt their children by means you can't think of.
What we can do is to instill more in our children which behaviors are "violent", to be brave and resolute, and to cultivate their ability to protect themselves.
As parents of boys, we must not only educate our children to learn to protect themselves, but also educate them to respect girls, kissing and touching these behaviors are only the behavior between husband and wife after adulthood, and we are not allowed to do these actions to other girls casually.
Finally, I hope that there will be no more "Fang Siqi" in the world, and there will be no more "Li Guohua".
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