Women giving birth to children seems to be an ordinary thing, but not all women feel this way, in the matter of having children, women will encounter this kind of strange things, some of which are more difficult for girls to talk about.
When Xiao Lu was pregnant, the whole pregnancy period was particularly relaxed and pleasant, but it was almost time to give birth, Xiao Lu did not think that it was a male doctor who delivered the baby to himself. When Xiao Lu was about to give birth, the fetus in his stomach actually had an early seizure, and Xiao Lu and her husband did not even have time to inform their families, and quickly came to the hospital with their husband, followed by an examination.
One of the things Xiao Lu remembers is particularly clear, when Xiao Lu is still confused by the pain, there is a male doctor who came over, and it was a check on Xiao Lu, when Xiao Lu may also be a bit blindfolded, when the male doctor finally put his hand into his lower body to go to the uterine examination, to see that Xiao Lu has opened a few fingers, the male doctor's operation actually made Xiao Lu have a "physiological reaction", a little want to go to the toilet.
At that time, Xiao Lu wanted to hold back, but he still didn't hold back for half a day, and finally he got a hand from the male doctor, who seemed to see Xiao Lu's reaction at that time and said directly to Xiao Lu: "It doesn't matter, this is a very normal thing, you don't have to hold back, otherwise it's not good for the fetus in the belly." The more Xiao Lu listened to the male doctor say this, the more Xiao Lu felt ashamed, so Xiao Lu really wanted to find a seam to drill into.
In fact, not only Xiao Lu will have this reaction, many Bao Moms will have this kind of unexpected thing when they give birth to children, and even some Bao Moms have made sufficient preparations for production, but they still did not expect that they would plant on it. In fact, women really need to be mentally prepared for some things before giving birth, and the province will have some unnecessary impact on the psychology of the mother after the event occurs.
Women will meet male doctors when giving birth, some women do not reject male doctors, but some women are not acceptable, resulting in many women close to childbirth, at a critical juncture in their lives are still asking for a doctor. But sometimes the staff in the hospital is nervous, giving birth to a child is not picking things, who wants to deliver who is waiting for you, so women are still prepared in advance before giving birth, especially the husband must be prepared in advance for the mother's thoughts, and the mother is awkward when the baby is born.
Women will also encounter the problem of internal examination when giving birth, of course, this situation is the mother who is ready to give birth smoothly, sometimes the doctor gives the mother internal examination, the pain is self-evident, but the most important thing is that many mothers will have some physiological reactions when the doctor is examined, such as urinary incontinence, the mother must calm her mind, even if she urinary incontinence, it does not matter that this is a normal phenomenon, the mother must not have too strong psychological burden.
Women give birth to children in addition to giving birth to children before encountering some more embarrassing scenes, in fact, children will also encounter, such as some natural birth of some Bao Ma in the birth of fecal incontinence is also a lot, some Bao Mom face such a self simply can not accept, feel their own special embarrassment, so some Bao Mom will choose to hold back when giving birth smoothly. In fact, this situation is particularly bad, because Bao Mom is not only holding the stool but also the fetus in the belly, and the longer the Bao Mom holds back, the greater the impact on the fetus in the belly. So when Bao Mom has the feeling of wanting to pull the stool, be sure to let yourself go, don't hold back.
Women will also encounter this situation of skin preparation in the process of giving birth, of course, this is the mother who is preparing for the caesarean section, and the normal birth is generally not needed. But some mothers are also more sensitive, and they don't know that they have to scrape off their pubic hair when they give birth, so when the nurse operates for herself, the mother is particularly embarrassed. In fact, it is not necessary, nurses have long been strange and not embarrassed about this kind of thing, scraping pubic hair is also responsible for the fetus in the belly, reducing the chance of infection during surgery. Therefore, women still have to do some homework before giving birth, if they do not do their homework, it is easy to have embarrassing things when they give birth, of course, having a child is not just a matter of motherhood. Bao Mom did not do the position, as a husband must think of Bao Ma, so that when Bao Mom encounters problems, the husband can also comfort Bao Ma's mood.
In addition, in the process of giving birth, if the husband is convenient, he must accompany the mother as much as possible, giving the mother enough security, so that the mother can put all her energy into the matter of having a child, and the child will be born smoothly. And if the husband is around, in the face of difficulties and embarrassment, there are also people to share together, and the psychological burden of the mother is not so heavy, which is also a relief for the psychology of the mother.