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Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

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Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

Who is Zhang Mo? Seeing this name, many people may be very unfamiliar.

But do you remember "Sniper," which was released earlier this year?

People who have seen it have given a very high reliance, although it has not become the box office champion of the Spring Festival file, it has become a dark horse of the Spring Festival file.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

In the end, it received a high score of 7.7 in Douban and also won 300 million at the box office, which is very eye-catching in historical war films, which are directed by Zhang Yimou and his daughter Zhang Mo.

Many people will feel that "Sniper" can get such a good box office, most of which is the credit of Zhang Yimou.

In fact, as early as 2016, Zhang Mo's debut film "28-year-old minor" eventually won about 130 million at the box office.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

For a newcomer director, this is already a good result.

This year, Zhang Mo has a new film "Rescue the Suspect", the heroine is Zhang Xiaofei, who has just become a film queen, from production to actors, everything is a high-level configuration.

All these show that Zhang Mo has unlimited potential and will have great achievements in the future.

But you will definitely say that she is so powerful, and it is naturally indispensable to the help of her father Zhang Yimou.

This is true, from the moment her daughter planned to take the road of directing, Zhang Yimou took pains to cultivate.

He felt that if Zhang Mo could not achieve such a great achievement as him, at least an independent style would be good.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

Today, Zhang Mo is gradually getting closer to this expectation.

But her relationship with her father was once not harmonious.

Zhang Yimou's so-called help is only a compensation for the lack of his daughter's company.

Causing a gap between the father and daughter, in addition to Zhang Yimou himself, there is gong Li.

For this reason, Zhang Mo once personally rebuked this woman for ruining her childhood life.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?
Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

If you want to understand Zhang Mo's past, you have to start with his parents.

01

In 1987, when Zhang Yimou was filming "Red Sorghum", he and Gong Li had an affair because of the play.

At that time, Gong Li also had a boyfriend.

But when filming, he spent time with Zhang Yimou and found that he was a particularly talented person, and his soul began to "derail".

Zhang Yimou at this moment is also the same, "unable to extricate himself" to fall in love with Gong Li. In his eyes, Gong Li is the true love of his life.

However, the paper could not contain the fire, and their "shameless love" was soon discovered by the wife.

When washing Zhang Yimou's clothes once, he found a love letter written by Gong Li to Zhang Yimou, and the sentence was very explicit.

"You're gone, and you've taken my heart with you. We have endless words together, unfinished business, haha, do you know what "unfinished business" means? ”
Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

Xiao Hua's mind was confused, and she knew that the marriage she had painstakingly managed was gone.

Zhang Yimou did not retain, he chose Gong Li without hesitation, and formally divorced the following year.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

This seems to be a tragedy caused by the man's infidelity, but in fact, Zhang Yimou and Xiao Hua were not suitable for being together from the beginning, and the two were a failed combination.

Why?

The biggest problem may be that the door is not right.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

First of all, let's take a look at Zhang Yimou's background.

Because of his father's military career in a special era, he suffered a lot of strange vision, and he was inferior and sensitive in his heart.

Xiao Hua, on the other hand, is diametrically opposed, with a clean family background and well received in the local area.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

Xiao Hua was one of the few girls who took the initiative to talk to Zhang Yimou when the two were young.

They are junior high school classmates, love began when they went to the countryside to join the team, a total of three years, the two lived together in a cave, a long time will also produce feelings, no one can do without anyone.

Later, when they interacted, because of their family background, they were opposed by the woman's father.

However, the little couple who have just fallen in love feel that they are unique to each other, and no one can be separated.

Therefore, Zhang Yimou did not care about the words of his future father-in-law, and he continued to talk to Xiao Huaqing and me.

Interestingly, at that time, Xiao Hua still had three boys pursuing her.

After learning of this, Zhang Yimou was greatly jealous.

Seeing Xiao Hua chatting with a boy who pursued her, she ignored him.

Zhang Yimou, who was snubbed, expressed his love by writing letters, and as a result, when he wrote more than 40 pages to the post office to send a letter, he finally weighed too much to be flat mailed, and could only be sent as a parcel.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

Seeing this, Zhang Yimou and Xiao Hua's feelings are actually quite sweet.

However, after the two married in 1979, it was a different picture.

02

After marriage, Zhang Yimou was admitted to the Nortel Photography Department, and after graduation, he was assigned to xi'an Film Studio as a photographer.

Since then, his work has not only become busy, but also widened the relationship with Xiao Hua.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

Xiao Hua's heart is not a taste, but in order to help her husband complete his dream of directing as much as possible, he will try his best to accommodate.

After all, she and Zhang Yimou's three years of loving life are vivid.

For him: "If you go to college, our relationship will be over." ”

Xiao Hua really gave up.

Instead, Zhang Yimou was admitted to Nortel, and she did not use the same words to persuade the other party not to go, and still unconditionally supported any decisions he made.

Therefore, Xiao Hua gave up going to college for Zhang Yimou, which became a regret in his life, and naturally after marriage, he naturally took the other party as his consideration to maintain this relationship.

However, Xiao Hua repeatedly accommodated Zhang Yimou, but pushed the distance between her and her husband farther away.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

In 1983, two daughters, Zhang Mo, were born.

Originally, I thought that after Zhang Yimou was promoted to a father, he would take time to accompany his wife and children.

But in fact, his "workaholic" attributes have not changed, even busier than before his daughter was born, almost homeless.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

For Zhang Mo as a child, his father was a strange figure.

When she saw other children of the same age accompanied by her parents, her feelings were very complicated.

Both envious and jealous in her heart, she hoped that her father, that is, Zhang Yimou, would suddenly appear in front of her one day, say how much she loved her, realize how irresponsible she was as a father, and then choose to compensate.

Xiao Hua also thinks like this, why doesn't she want Zhang Yimou to be a good father or even a good husband?

How good it would be to spend more time with their mother and daughter, not only was the previous sadness swept away, but also the happy family of three was established.

However, Xiao Hua and Zhang Mo were really too well-behaved, and they both felt that they should not bring any trouble to Zhang Yimou.

It is no wonder that when the old strategist evaluates his ex-wife, he will use "honesty" to describe it.

And just so-called, it will make people have sugar to eat.

After too long and stable life, so that he forgot to be bound by his family, Zhang Yimou finally crossed the line and fell in love with Gong Li.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

It is undeniable that Zhang Yimou and Xiao Hua have feelings.

But their family backgrounds are very different, and the hot love is just washed out, which belongs to the moment.

After marriage, there is no common topic, and the woman pays too much and loses herself.

So even without Gong Li, this unbalanced relationship will come to an end.

However, Zhang Mo, who was still young, did not stand in God's perspective.

She did not know the complexity of adult feelings, only that it was a fact that her father abandoned her and her mother, and the damage caused was indelible.

In her opinion, the culprit who destroys the tranquility of the family is Gong Li.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

As a result, Zhang Mo buried a deep grudge against Gong Li.

03

Zhang Mo's resentment towards Gong Li is not generally deep, and after more than 10 years after the end of "Zhang Gong's" love affair, he still can't let go.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

Logically, she should also be relieved, but her father and Gong Li sent news again that year, which made Zhang Mo angry and publicly accused the woman of ruining her childhood.

Gong Li may have to blame Gong Li for causing such a situation.

It is said that When Zhang Yimou and Gong Li were together, they did not care about the strange eyes of the outside world.

They often exchanged phone calls and complained intimately to each other.

However, once, Zhang Yimou and his daughter called for a little longer, causing Gong Li to show the busy line every time.

Afterwards, she lost her temper with Zhang Yimou.

It is no wonder that there have been many media reports in the back, and Gong Li forced Zhang Yimou to marry without results.

The reason is that the woman will be a good lover, but definitely not a qualified stepmother.

In the end, Zhang Yimou and Gong Li's patience with each other was exhausted in 1995.

After the woman finished filming the last shot of "Shake, Shake, Shake to Grandma's Bridge", the couple officially announced their breakup to the outside world, and the 8-year relationship ended without illness.

At that time, Zhang Yimou became a major international director with films such as "Yellow Land", "Lao Jing", and "Qiu Ju Fights a Lawsuit".

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

Without the bondage of feelings, Zhang Yimou naturally has more time to accompany his daughter, so that Zhang Mo has a feeling of fatherly love.

Although the relationship between him and Zhang Mo gradually eased, the estrangement in his heart still existed, after all, he had done something wrong online.

Similarly, Zhang Mo also had a thorn in her heart, and she really couldn't understand why the woman would have such a great hostility towards her lover's child.

Gong Li intervened in her parents' feelings, resulting in her parents' divorce, leaving her without her father's love in her childhood.

The shameless love between father and Gong Li, although it has ended, has indeed existed.

Therefore, the end of "Zhang Gong"'s love affair did not eliminate Zhang Mo's resentment towards Gong Li.

Years of inner repression finally allowed it to be vented in a book called "My Father and Mother".

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

The book records the love story of Zhang Yimou and Xiao Hua, as well as a large number of Zhang Mo's personal negative views on Gong Li.

Coupled with her public rebuke of the woman for ruining her childhood in 2008, it is enough to see that Zhang Mo's resentment towards Gong Li is indeed not ordinary.

But what can be done?

Zhang Mo will only be angry, but he will not let his parents break the mirror and reunite.

Because Zhang Yimou soon had new feelings after leaving Gong Li.

The other party is Chen Ting, who is 31 years younger than him, and after marriage, they have conceived two sons and a daughter.

Since then, Zhang Mo is no longer the only daughter of his father.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

However, Zhang Mo was not jealous that Chen Ting and her children had robbed their father of love.

She clearly knew that Chen Ting and Zhang Yimou were normal acquaintances and then married and had children.

Except for a slight regret, the parents no longer have any hope of compounding, and Zhang Mo still sends blessings to this marriage.

What's more, Zhang Yimou has a new family, still booing and greeting her, and gradually making up for the lack of companionship in childhood, although the compensation may really come late...

04

How exactly is the compensation method?

At that time, Zhang Mo studied in the architecture department of Columbia University, and was influenced by his father and wanted to become a director.

Then, without much twists and turns, he successfully came to the New York Film Academy for further study.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

It should be known that the department of architecture and the art industry have no relationship, so whether it is transferring to another department, it is extremely difficult.

Moreover, the New York Film School seems to only recruit two Chinese students a year, which can be said to be very fierce competition.

How did Zhang Mo do it? Believe the clever mind you have guessed it.

Obviously, there is a father who is a director, and it is speculated that the old strategist found a colleague friend and Ang Lee, who is also studying in New York Film, and asked him to help write a letter of recommendation, so that his daughter can smoothly transfer schools.

If you can go to a prestigious university, the tuition fee is naturally notoriously expensive.

It is said that the annual tuition fee of the New York Film Academy is $20,000, and zhang mo has to eat, drink and play to study abroad, which is estimated to require $15,000 in living expenses.

A total of several years of study abroad life, adding up to all the funds provided by the old strategist.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

Of course, material compensation is nothing.

Even if Zhang Yimou did not divorce his ex-wife, he had to bear the responsibility of support.

Therefore, what is important is spiritual care, and the real reconciliation between the father and daughter is zhang mo's first failed marriage.

Through this bitter lesson, she understood how terrible it was not to listen to her father.

Zhang Mo's first husband was a foreigner named Tovey, who was a year older than her, majoring in financial management at the New York Film School, and after the two met, they immediately fell in love.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

Zhang Mo is too eager for love and family, and this relationship comes unexpectedly, making her think that Tovi is her true love.

Therefore, when Zhang Yimou learned about it and thought that the two were inappropriate to raise objections, she could not listen to it, but wanted to be with the other party.

For the sake of his daughter, Zhang Yimou personally went to the door to persuade Tovey to leave Zhang Mo, only to receive a call from the opposing lawyer, saying that his behavior was illegal in the United States, and if he continued, he could only go to court.

The old man was angry and more convinced that his vision was right, but Tovey was sure that his father-in-law would not be too embarrassed by this, otherwise it would only make the relationship between the father and daughter worse and worse.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

Although Zhang Yimou later implemented the general mobilization of the whole family, lobbying Zhang Mo one by one was useless, and the daughter did not agree to break up or disagree.

In this way, the old man watched his own cabbage being arched by the pig.

And it turns out that Tovey is not a good pig, and Zhang Mo paid the price for her hasty marriage.

After marriage, Zhang Mo did not harvest a happy family that had been dreamed for a long time, but as long as Tovey had a dissatisfaction, he would commit domestic violence against her.

So, it's a relationship that can't even be established in a basic balanced relationship.

During that difficult time, it was Zhang Mo's father, who thought he did not love her, who provided infinite warmth.

Zhang Yimou saw that his daughter was unhappy after marriage as he expected, not to complain that the other party was disobedient, but actively helped her daughter leave the scumbag, and suggested that she focus on professionalism.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

After learning to be distracted, Zhang Mo's pain was greatly reduced.

In 2008, she finally ended this bad marriage.

This is the new life of Zhang Mo given by his father, through this opportunity, not only to close the relationship between father and daughter, but also to let Zhang Mo grow up and reconcile with himself.

05

After being single, Zhang Mo no longer fell in love with the brain, and she began to devote herself to her directing career.

One is to become a great director like his father in the future, and the other is to get closer to Zhang Yimou in this way.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

Zhang Yimou was very relieved to see his daughter's change.

If a child has such an awareness, he naturally cannot chill the other party's heart.

Therefore, the old strategist began to spare no effort to help.

From "The Surprise of the Three Guns Shooting" to "The Love of the Hawthorn Tree", and then from "Jinling Thirteen Chao" to "Return", if you carefully look at the list of people behind the scenes, you will always find the shadow of Zhang Mo.

Some are assistant directors, some are editors and subtitlers.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

Although it is not the main force, these big productions can get a good reputation, and it must be her credit.

Zhang Mo's strength was obvious to all, which made Lao Mouzi quite proud.

He would always find time to stand on his platform or visit his class, and when he mentioned his children, he would never have a smile on his face.

In the same way, Zhang Mo is the same, she and her father's heart are slowly getting closer, and the other party understands her to a degree second only to herself.

For example, once lao Mozi and Zhang Ziyi spread a peach-colored scandal, he first explained it to his daughter.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

After listening, Zhang Mo was deeply moved.

It is really rare to imagine that the man who abandoned his family in spite of the feelings of his wife and daughter has grown up under the action of time and becomes a way to communicate with his daughter.

Therefore, Zhang Mo comforted her father that she did not have to explain the rumors that were very false at first sight, and as an adult, she had the ability to judge.

Zhang Mo also learned to reconcile with himself when he learned to get along with his father thoroughly and how to accept the love of the other party.

The best thing to prove is that at the Cannes Film Festival in 2014, she and Gong Li, the woman who once hated the most, smiled and hugged, ending more than a decade of resentment.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

Being able to forgive the woman who brought sadness to her childhood and let go of the hatred that has been accumulated for a long time shows that Zhang Mo is not pretending, she is really and truly relieved.

When the personal knot is unraveled, the director's career gradually develops in a good direction, and Zhang Mo's emotional world also blossoms.

This time, she no longer blindly chooses her future partner, and although her current husband Meng Danqing is also a foreigner, he and towy, a domestic violence man, are extreme.

Meng Danqing's sunny handsome ability is outstanding, and he completely satisfies the fantasy of the other half of Zhang Mo's ideal.

Most importantly, the father, Zhang Yimou, no longer opposes and even likes the new partner his daughter chose.

After learning that the two were in love, they sent support at the first time.

Therefore, in 2013, Zhang Mo and Meng Danqing officially married, and with the blessing of everyone, they led to the road of happiness.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

Today, Zhang Mo is 39 years old, and he will soon usher in a good age of forty and not confused, but looking at her current state, he has already seen the clouds.

After learning to reconcile with his father, himself, and Gong Li, he also had beautiful feelings.

In her career, the considerable achievements of a film to resist US aggression and aid Korea in all aspects of "Sniper" are enough for her to blow for a long time.

Abandoned by her father Zhang Yimou and publicly naming Gong Li to ruin her childhood, what did Zhang Mo experience?

Therefore, Zhang Mo, who has a new life, is simply radiant, and as for whether she can create brilliance, it is actually unknown.

All you can do is hope that she can inherit her father's mantle and bring fresh blood to the Chinese film industry.

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