#头条创作挑战赛 #
Did everyone eat the big melons during the Mid-Autumn Festival? Unexpectedly, this year's Mid-Autumn Festival everyone eats the most is not moon cakes, but the big melons in the entertainment industry.
It is estimated that the partners who have access to the Internet should all know, that is, Li Yifeng's prostitution arrest incident.
Three days of vacation, the first day of breaking the news, the second day to debunk rumors, the third day of the real hammer, the plot ups and downs, the layers are progressive, this melon is bigger than the moon in the Mid-Autumn Festival.
Although the holiday is over, but this melon has not all been eaten, with the official notification of the hammer, more fierce materials were exposed: "concubine", with sunglasses doi, suspected bed photos, women's photos, trading process ...
All kinds of details, dirty to the point of outrageous, see the most vivid comment is: even I often read small H text, I think the scale is too big.
In fact, this is not the first time that such a melon has appeared in the entertainment industry, especially in the past few years, Wu Yifan, Luo Zhixiang, Li Yundi... It seems that every once in a while, there will be a melon that prostitutes.
Every time there is news about a celebrity being caught prostituting, there is always a tone on the Internet: Why do those male celebrities want to prostitute? Why not find a girlfriend? On the condition of male celebrities, girls who want to be their girlfriends grab a lot.
At first glance, you don't think these arguments are quite reasonable, but if you think about it carefully, you will find that these words are too ruined.
Let me help you translate, the logic of this sentence is: he could have found a girlfriend to solve sexual needs, and did not need to take legal risks, why should he go to the death of prostitution.
Have you noticed the problem? It turns out that girlfriends are tools to solve men's sexual needs, and it turns out that finding a girlfriend is the same as prostitution, all to solve sexual needs.
Having said that, it's really all too common to go to men who go looking for girlfriends in order to address their sexual needs.
Let's talk about a specific case, the girl's name is Xiaoyan, she is a college student.
When Xiao Yan came to me, she said that she had lost love, and the loss of love brought her not only sadness, but also the death of the society, because the ex-boyfriend actually shared the private things in the bed with her as a show-off talk to his roommates, but Xiao Yan was still in the dark, foolishly trying to save her ex.
In the end, the ex-boyfriend's roommate's girlfriend really couldn't stand it, and told Xiao Yan about it, and Xiao Yan knew what kind of person she understood that she couldn't let go of her ex-boyfriend.
Think back to the experience of being with your ex-boyfriend: Xiao Yan, who was chased by her ex-boyfriend, had a good feeling for him, so she agreed to be together in less than a week; On the day of being together, the ex-boyfriend took Xiaoyan to a small hotel; After that, every time they went on a solo date, the boyfriend would have a relationship with her; Less than two months together, the boyfriend proposed to break up...
This relationship came and went in a hurry, it was Xiao Yan's first love, she could not accept to break up like this, so she found various ways to redeem herself, during which the ex-boyfriend also had a relationship with her, but in the end, she still did not agree to reunite, Xiao Yan was sad for a long time.
Obviously, the ex-boyfriend has never been serious about Xiaoyan, and he fell in love with her, but it was all for the sake of having a relationship, which is to put it bluntly, in fact, it is to deceive P.
The most shameful thing about cheating P is to meet your own needs and cheat on other people's feelings under the guise of love.
In the eyes of these cheating P men, the woman is a sex doll, a tool to solve their needs.
So I really can't agree with the "why should you prostitute, why don't you find a girlfriend" argument on the Internet, co-authoring others as tool people, you are still justified? Is this encouraging scam p?
In fact, for girls, there is the same logic I don't know if you have heard, that is: no money, why not find a boyfriend?
Someone once said that to me.
At that time, I was still an intern, the salary was only more than 2,000, the serious house could not afford to rent, renting an illegal partition room, the room was small, there was no separate bathroom.
Once when talking about renting a house in the company, I casually complained to everyone about the embarrassment of my living there: every day before the bathroom, I had to observe the outside with a cat's eye, and then rush into the bathroom at the speed of light.
When I said these words, it was all a joke and I didn't feel anything.
But when I finished, an older local colleague asked me with a look of disbelief: Why don't you change to a room with a single bathroom?
I smiled and said: I don't have any money, I still have to eat, and I can't spend all my money on renting.
The colleague said to me even more incredibly: Then why don't you find a boyfriend?
I wondered: Is there any connection between this? I'm quite comfortable being single now, and I don't want to find a partner for the time being.
Colleagues said: You are stupid, find a boyfriend, you at least eat without spending money, if you find a better condition, you can rent the money can let him bear.
So a boyfriend is a cash machine?
Finding a boyfriend is not because I have an emotional need, but because I have a material need?
Treating men as cash machines and women as sex dolls are both using each other as tool people, which is a very selfish act.
It is estimated that seeing this, some people will think that I say these words is a false qinggao, where is there so much pure love? Love is all containing sex, containing material things.
It is true, but you have reversed the causal relationship: we have received sex and material things by the way because of love; Instead of loving for the sake of contentment and materialism.
For example: making friends can enjoy the pleasant experience of friendship, if the friend is very rich, when you need money, you can borrow money, help you, you have a kind of money from this period of help, is this problem? No problem.
But what if cause and effect are inverted?
Is it normal for you to be friends with your friend because he has money, so that he can borrow you money and help you?
Suppose your friend says to you: If it weren't for the fact that you have a few stinky money, I would have borrowed money from you, so I wouldn't have forced myself to be friends with you.
I ask you how you feel when you hear this, and do you want to break off your friendship with him immediately?
The same is true in the relationship, you fall in love with a person, because you like the other person, like the feeling of being with each other, you enjoy the pleasure of sex after you are together, you enjoy the money that the other party spends on you, which is very natural.
But if you're in love with each other for sex, and you're in love with each other for money, it's a different flavor.
Put yourself in the shoes of the imagination, you really fall in love with each other, but the other party regards you as a tool to satisfy his selfish desires, even if he is a male star, this blessing no one wants.
Being in love should make people feel respected, not trying to misbehave.
Neither boy nor girl should be a tool to solve someone's needs!