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Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

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Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending
Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

Sun Li is a well-known actor, who has acted in many dramas and created many classic roles.

And people like her, not only because of her good acting skills, but also because of her kindness.

For example, for many years, I funded someone else to go to college.

But a few years later, the person who was funded actually gave back a 6,000-word essay.

This is not praise, but "accusation".

What exactly happened between these two people?

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending
Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

In 2002, Sun Li went to Kunming to shoot "Jade Guanyin".

At this time, she saw a program "Hope in the Mountains", in which the boy named Xiang Haiqing became a problem because his family was poor and schooling had become a problem.

But Xiang Haiqing did not see himself clearly, did not bow to fate.

Looking at his story, Sun Li thought of himself.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

Sun Li was raised by her mother from a young age, because her parents divorced, she also followed her mother for 7 years without a stable home.

Although life was very hard, her mother tried to fulfill Sun Li's wishes, let her learn dance, and agreed to let her perform abroad to support Sun Li.

I have been drenched in rain and want to hand someone an umbrella.

Therefore, Sun Li saw Xiang Haiqing's story and her heart was touched, and she wanted to help him.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

Sun Li told her mother everything, and her mother was also very touched after hearing it, and immediately got in touch with the program.

Decided to help Xiang Haiqing in his studies.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending
Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

In May 2002, Xiang Haiqing received the first donation from Sun Li's mother, Aunt Deng.

He held the heavy money, as if he felt the deep love through the money, his hands were trembling, his eyes were in tears, and his shoulders were trembling because of the crying.

The teacher immediately comforted him and gently stroked his shoulder.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

This sum of money allowed Xiang Haiqing to see the future light, but there were also regrets, why did the other party choose himself?

That night, Xiang Haiqing wrote a letter to Aunt Deng, and the other party quickly replied, and the words and sentences were all encouragement to Xiang Haiqing, encouraging him to study hard, enter a good university, and enter the society.

Later, Aunt Deng also made a phone call, and Aunt Deng's gentle words made Xiang Haiqing let go of the last bit of guard in his heart.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

Aunt Deng told him to study, don't care about the tuition fee, and wrap it all up himself until he graduated from college.

Wait until the future college entrance examination, and try to choose a big city.

With Aunt Deng's words, Xiang Haiqing studied harder, and Sun Li, in order to support him, did not mail him a lot of books in the past.

There are mock exam papers, real questions from previous years, tutorial books and so on.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

It's just a pity that in 2004, Xiang Haiqing was not admitted to the university of his choice. He wanted to give up, but Sun Li and Aunt Deng wrote him a letter or called him and asked him to try again.

In this way, Xiang Haiqing continued to study for another year.

In the end, under the advice of Aunt Deng, Shanghai Fisheries University was chosen. This is today's Shanghai Ocean University.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

Xiang Haiqing was happy to see that he could go to college.

Aunt Deng and Sun Li were comforted to see that the sponsors could go to college.

So the two planned to meet Xiang Haiqing, and it was this time that Xiang Haiqing learned that the one who had been funding himself was the big star Sun Li.

Maybe it was the joy of being admitted to college, or maybe it was the support of big stars, all of which made Xiang Haiqing so excited that he couldn't touch his head, and the tears couldn't stop flowing.

Xiang Haiqing felt that there were many words to say to Sun Li and Aunt Deng, but when he said that he did not open his mouth, the tears ran out first, and Aunt Deng looked at him, crying and laughing and hurting, so she hugged him and comforted him.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

The three of them said a word, and Sun Li left first because of the reason for the trip, and accompanied Xiang Haiqing to the school, so he handed it over to Aunt Deng.

When she arrived at the school, Aunt Deng paid the tuition and living expenses, and accompanied Xiang Haiqing to see the school.

When it was time to go back, Aunt Deng also gave a strong instruction to let Xiang Haiqing study well and not worry about the problem of money.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

This sentence, Aunt Deng said heroically.

But I didn't expect how much this sentence would cause in the future.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending
Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

In order to ensure Xiang Haiqing's daily life at school, Aunt Deng and Sun Li decided to give him 500 yuan a month.

Although Shanghai is a metropolis, it can also live without spending money indiscriminately.

It's just that the two people didn't expect that in the first month, Xiang Haiqing would spend super.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

It was not easy to get to the university, saw a new world, met new people, Xiang Haiqing wanted to study harder, and took on some positions to exercise himself.

In this way, Xiang Haiqing became the class leader, and later because the class leader did a good job, he was in the External Relations Department of the Student Union.

Under the "pressure" of these titles, Xiang Haiqing forced himself to take responsibility and grew little by little.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

However, there are advantages and disadvantages to becoming a squad cadre, although I have exercised my own ability, but I also spend a lot of money.

They are all freshmen, they don't understand each other, Xiang Haiqing is a good class leader in order to fulfill his duties, he can't help but call his classmates to understand, communicate feelings, and explain things. Not to mention, there is also the student council thing.

This month, the cost alone is 90 yuan.

In less than a month, it was stretched.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

Sun Li and Aunt Deng were very curious when they saw that Xiang Haiqing was spending money like flowing water, so they asked him what he had done and told Haiqing truthfully.

The two thought for a moment and suggested that he quit the student council.

At this point, a contradiction arose between the two.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

Xiang Haiqing does not want to be invisible to everyone, wants to participate in more activities in the university, accumulate experience, increase ability, and survive in society, the student union is undoubtedly the best choice.

Moreover, the school's senior sister and teacher also believe that Xiang Haiqing is capable.

But Sun Li and Aunt Deng stand on the perspective of reality, after all, when cadres spend a lot of money, is it really worth it?

In the end neither side said anything about anyone.

Xiang Haiqing did not quit the student union, but on the surface of Aunt Deng and Sun Li, he still pretended to quit.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

After that, life continued as usual, and Xiang Haiqing tried to save money as much as possible, and the amount of money spent was also clearly recorded in the book.

You can also show it to Aunt Deng at any time.

It seems that Aunt Deng looked at the accounts and did not have much expression, perhaps because the previous matter was a mustard.

However, Xiang Haiqing thanked the other party, and the other party also felt that Xiang Haiqing must have a chance, and the relationship did not become very stiff.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

Later, the school began to inject the hepatitis B vaccine, xiang Haiqing had not been injected before, then this time he had to pay for injections.

And the money for this needle costs 175 yuan.

At this moment, Xiang Haiqing was completely stretched, and there were twenty or thirty fast money in his pocket, that is lucky.

He wanted to ask for more money, but the other party wouldn't give it.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

When I first said yes, "if I lack money, I would say it", and I wouldn't count it in an instant.

Xiang Haiqing was depressed, and he wanted to ask for some money again, but thinking of the other party's determined expression, he finally did not ask for more money.

Although he didn't ask for money anymore, he had already made Aunt Deng and Sun Li a little unable to understand him.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending
Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

Not long after the start of the school, he asked for money, and seeing how much he spent, Aunt Deng and Sun Li were puzzled.

Sun Li very much wanted to rush to the school and ask Xiang Haiqing why the money was spent so fast! However, she usually had a lot of travel, so this matter fell on Aunt Deng's head.

Not long after, Aunt Deng went to the school and found a counselor.

After some talk from the counselor, Aunt Deng knew how he spent money, and also learned that Xiang Haiqing was actually working part-time.

But part-time work, why is the money not enough?

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

This trip to inquire undoubtedly made Aunt Deng very annoyed, she felt that Xiang Haiqing was consuming her love, enthusiasm, and did not know how to be grateful. After hearing her mother's retelling, Sun Li's heart was also full of mixed feelings.

After this meeting, the counselor also found Xiang Haiqing.

Tell him that he can apply for poverty allowance, that people should know how to be grateful, that people should have self-esteem, and so on.

These words made Xiang Haiqing very sad, but at the same time, he was very grateful to Aunt Deng for going to school to see him.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

Under mixed feelings, Xiang Haiqing wrote a letter to Aunt Deng and Sun Li.

The letter was also quickly replied.

But this time the reply was no longer a word of encouragement, but a cold word.

Since then, the relationship between the two has completely become tense.

It wasn't until November 2005 that the grant came to an abrupt end.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending
Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

This was supposed to end there, but new developments were made during the 2006 National Day.

At that time, Qiu Chaoju, a person who was doing the show, deliberately looked for Xiang Haiqing, hoping to make a column on the topic of celebrity funding for vegetarians.

I didn't expect to meet, and I learned that Xiang Haiqing had not accepted Sun Li's sponsorship for a long time.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

Qiu Chaoju thought of a similar encounter and also saved a child, but unfortunately, the two later became enemies.

He was very curious about this phenomenon, so he hoped that Xiang Haiqing would write everything down in detail, and set up a column for people to think about.

Xiang Haiqing struggled for a long time, and finally agreed to it, provided that the content of the letter was not made public. But if it had to be made public, he wouldn't stand in the way.

"If one day Sun Li's sister needs to announce it to the public, or when she agrees to announce it to the public, I will absolutely cooperate, which is my respect for her."

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

In this way, Qiu Chaoju sorted out the story, through Xiang Haiqing's story, he found that Xiang Haiqing was right, sun Li was also right, but the ending was not good.

This further aroused his desire to explore.

Therefore, he concealed his real name and some place names in order to make a show to provoke people's discussion.

Unexpectedly, this matter was seen by a reporter, who wanted to understand the whole picture of the matter and published the letter.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending
Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

The two struggled for a long time, and finally posted the letter in its entirety.

Soon it gained a lot of heat, although all of them concealed their real names, but netizens quickly pulled out the two protagonists in the letter.

They are Sun Li and Xiang Haiqing.

Sun Li probably couldn't understand how he suddenly got tied to Xiang Haiqing's name a year later.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

After knowing the name of the protagonist, people's enthusiasm for eating melons is obviously higher.

There were also two major factions on the Internet in an instant, one side supporting Xiang Haiqing and the other supporting Sun Li.

More celebrities also participated, among which Han Han even said a sentence " Ordinary people are not allowed to raise even a large dog indoors, so why can Sun Li raise wolves in Shanghai?" ”

A simple sarcastic sentence not only angrily scolded Xiang Haiqing as a white-eyed wolf, but also once again caused two groups of people on the Internet to scold.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

Qiu Chaoju and the reporter just wanted netizens to discuss this phenomenon, but they did not want to become a network scuffle.

"Xiang Hai Qing White Eyed Wolf" and "Sun Li Too Cut the Door" have become the labels of the event.

And in the end of the matter, Qiu Chaoju also led the netizens to the war. Many people questioned whether it was really reasonable for him to make Xiang Haiqing's personal letter public.

In this way, Qiu Chaoju was scolded and withdrew from the net.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending
Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

This matter is boiling over, but in the long river of time, we must also bow to the wind.

After doing several news columns and newspaper features, the matter gradually returned to calm.

Sun Li was greatly influenced by this matter, and later relied on "Sweet Honey", "Painted Skin", "Zhen Huan Biography" and so on, once again established word of mouth.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

At that time, because of the accident, Xiang Haiqing came out with many people who said that his classmates were talking nonsense, which made him suffer a lot of criticism in his private life.

But perhaps it was the support of his mother's father that prevented him from falling.

He paid for his tuition and fees on student loans and actively considered joining the party.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

In order to earn more money, he has also insisted on serving as an assistant counselor and an assistant to the intermediate party school of the hospital.

You can also earn more than 200 yuan a month.

When it came time for the holidays, Xiang Haiqing played several part-time jobs, just to earn medical treatment for his parents, although it was a dime, but the thought of being able to help his mother share a little, Xiang Haiqing felt better.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

Later, Xiang Haiqing graduated and worked. Even if the things that were funded were boiling over, as things passed, people no longer cared about him.

He also works like a normal person, commuting to and from work.

Even so, when it comes to Xiang Haiqing, countless netizens have an impression of him, or a white-eyed wolf, not familiar with it.

Some people will sigh that he is too sorry.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

If you didn't break up with Sun Li and Aunt Deng at that time, and the relationship was getting better and better, it would definitely not be difficult to find a stable job in Shanghai.

But now that it has happened, there is no room for maneuver.

At the end of the day, are these two parties really doing something wrong?

No matter how much money is funded, this is the love of Sun Li and Aunt Deng, who do not want Xiang Haiqing to be a cadre, perhaps because they do not want him to become extravagant.

In Xiang Haiqing's letter, it can actually be seen that he also has a grateful heart and wants to repay Sun Li and Aunt Deng, and at the same time, in his heart, he does not let himself be idle.

Thinking of repaying, and thinking of proving yourself.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

In this way, the two may have missed.

And such an example is definitely not Xiang Haiqing and Sun Li, only this one case, why in the end from the beginning of mutual optimism to mutual displeasure?

Xiang Haiqing came to the situation of being insulted today, who is to blame?

Greedy? Selfish? Greed? Or did the two parties fail to communicate well?

However, I also believe that this incident contributed to Xiang Haiqing's growth.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

Nowadays, xiang Haiqing's news is unconcerned.

And Sun Li is still that star, a star who cares about others and cares about public welfare.

I hope that her love can be passed on to more people, and I hope that her love will not be cold.

Sun Li funded the "white-eyed wolf" Xiang Haiqing for 4 years, and who is to blame for today's ending

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