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Yi Nengjing's 20-year-old son wore sexy women's clothes again, and the semi-nude photos attracted heated discussion: "Don't you care about your son?" ”

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Yi Nengjing's 20-year-old son wore sexy women's clothes again, and the semi-nude photos attracted heated discussion: "Don't you care about your son?" ”

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01

At the end of August, Yi Nengjing's son Harry released another set of women's clothes photos of himself.

Waist-length wavy curls, sexy bandeau tops and tonal split skirts with heavy makeup make it look like a "hot girl".

Yi Nengjing's 20-year-old son wore sexy women's clothes again, and the semi-nude photos attracted heated discussion: "Don't you care about your son?" ”

His favor for women's clothing, presumably everyone has heard a little, this is not the first time he has worn women's clothing.

Harry has always loved multiculturalism and is happy to experiment with different styles of dress.

Every time a similar photo of Harry is sent, it will attract heated discussion among netizens, and this time is no exception.

A year or two ago, he had sent some photos of women's clothing wearing bandeaus and short skirts;

Yi Nengjing's 20-year-old son wore sexy women's clothes again, and the semi-nude photos attracted heated discussion: "Don't you care about your son?" ”

It has also been on the hot search because of a group of photos.

In the photo, he wears red eyeshadow and hugs a girl half-naked.

Yi Nengjing's 20-year-old son wore sexy women's clothes again, and the semi-nude photos attracted heated discussion: "Don't you care about your son?" ”

Seeing these photos, netizens have different opinions.

Some people think that this is the freedom of others, which is very good.

But there are also people who can't accept it, and even say something ugly:

"I feel like my brain is not normal..."

"Hot eyes, is there something wrong with the psychology?"

"Don't your parents care?"

Yi Nengjing's 20-year-old son wore sexy women's clothes again, and the semi-nude photos attracted heated discussion: "Don't you care about your son?" ”
Yi Nengjing's 20-year-old son wore sexy women's clothes again, and the semi-nude photos attracted heated discussion: "Don't you care about your son?" ”

Although his photos may be "different" and "eye-catching" in the eyes of ordinary people.

But like what is everyone's freedom, no one can evaluate with such hurtful words.

Some people also questioned, how does Yi Nengjing teach children?

In fact, for Harry's women's clothing style, she responded in a variety show.

Yi Nengjing said that at that time, her son called her for the first time and asked her whether her own controversy would affect her work and whether she needed to turn off her social account.

Yi Nengjing's 20-year-old son wore sexy women's clothes again, and the semi-nude photos attracted heated discussion: "Don't you care about your son?" ”

Yi Nengjing said:

I will give him all his freedom.

He can be himself in my world.

I also let him know that I was strong, strong enough to block the malice of the world.

She said that the respect of parents is very important, and children are not only their own children, but also come to this world to experience the love of their parents.

She encouraged Harry, "Not only will you not affect us, but you will also let more people know the preciousness of freedom!" ”

Yi Nengjing believes that children only rely on the carrier of their parents to experience the world, not belong to their parents.

Children are independent individuals, as parents, should be properly withdrawn from the child's world, let the child experience life by himself, parents are just a role, should let the child complete life by himself.

Yi Nengjing's 20-year-old son wore sexy women's clothes again, and the semi-nude photos attracted heated discussion: "Don't you care about your son?" ”

Yes, children are not here to fulfill the mission of their parents, and every child has his or her own right to control life.

What you like and what you pursue is not due to the wishes of the parents, but from the wishes of the children themselves.

Let them develop according to their own preferences, in order to fully realize their potential, may be able to see the parents in the eyes of the unthinkable excellence.

Sometimes, excessive "discipline" is the main culprit that stifles children's development talents and independent growth.

02

Not long ago, "this is really the future can be expected" on Weibo hot search.

A mother stumbles upon several of her son's picture books.

The mother said that her son loved to scribble since elementary school, and the scribble in his mother's mouth was like this:

Yi Nengjing's 20-year-old son wore sexy women's clothes again, and the semi-nude photos attracted heated discussion: "Don't you care about your son?" ”

And here's it:

Yi Nengjing's 20-year-old son wore sexy women's clothes again, and the semi-nude photos attracted heated discussion: "Don't you care about your son?" ”
Yi Nengjing's 20-year-old son wore sexy women's clothes again, and the semi-nude photos attracted heated discussion: "Don't you care about your son?" ”

As soon as the album was issued, it attracted the attention of many netizens.

Everyone praised the boy's talent.

Yi Nengjing's 20-year-old son wore sexy women's clothes again, and the semi-nude photos attracted heated discussion: "Don't you care about your son?" ”
Yi Nengjing's 20-year-old son wore sexy women's clothes again, and the semi-nude photos attracted heated discussion: "Don't you care about your son?" ”

Even official accounts such as China Aerospace and Chinese Ships have left him:

"China Aerospace waits for him to grow up" and "the future can be expected" praise and encouragement.

Yi Nengjing's 20-year-old son wore sexy women's clothes again, and the semi-nude photos attracted heated discussion: "Don't you care about your son?" ”
Yi Nengjing's 20-year-old son wore sexy women's clothes again, and the semi-nude photos attracted heated discussion: "Don't you care about your son?" ”

However, in the eyes of the mother, these paintings are things that affect the child's learning.

Yi Nengjing's 20-year-old son wore sexy women's clothes again, and the semi-nude photos attracted heated discussion: "Don't you care about your son?" ”

"I thought I wouldn't draw when I was in junior high school, but I didn't expect to draw secretly."

Concentrate on learning, don't think about it anymore. ”

In just two sentences, you can glimpse the attitude of parents to their children's hobbies that can be called gifts.

Netizens have expressed their concerns:

"Don't stand in the way of him being a talent."

The last sentence, alas, was a little mixed. Hopefully my worries are superfluous. ”

In the eyes of some parents, they can only study hard and get good grades, and others are a waste of time and should not be touched.

They control the child's inability to do this and that cannot be done, and they have worn away the child's innate talent.

Such discipline is too much.

03

There is a documentary called "Little Boy".

It focuses on several children who are obsessed with different fields such as nature, technology, art, sports, etc., recording their growth stories and observing their obsession and talent for hobbies.

They are all little geniuses in their respective fields.

For example, this ballet girl Yun Er dancing in the pork shop.

Yi Nengjing's 20-year-old son wore sexy women's clothes again, and the semi-nude photos attracted heated discussion: "Don't you care about your son?" ”

Yun'er, who lives deep in the mountains, has been working outside for many years, and her mother has opened a pork shop.

Every day at 4:30 a.m., she would get up and go to the store to help with things and take care of her younger siblings.

What makes her happiest is that when business is not so busy, she can dance in the pork shop.

Without the teacher to teach, she watched online videos to teach herself, and actually learned.

Yun Er likes to dance, and her mother takes her around to study, and unexpectedly, the teachers refuse.

The teachers all said that they were not unwilling, they could not teach, they were afraid that their level was not enough, delaying Yun'er's little seedlings, and they suggested sending Yun'er to the province to receive a better education.

Even the teacher of the North Dance said that he had never seen such a talented child.

But the high tuition fees made the family prohibitive, and her mother had to take Yun'er to watch online videos to learn, and she often chopped pork while helping Yun'er shout the password "one, two, three, four".

Yi Nengjing's 20-year-old son wore sexy women's clothes again, and the semi-nude photos attracted heated discussion: "Don't you care about your son?" ”

Yun Er's persistence with her mother finally allowed them to meet Bo Le.

Through the help of the teachers of the Beijing Dance Academy, Guan Yu and Zhang Ping, Yun Er came to Beijing to take the stage for the first time in her life, and she can follow two excellent teachers in the future and learn to dance well.

The simple Mother of Yun Er said: "As long as she likes, adults have to help her." ”

On the way to learn dance in Yun'er, her mother respected and trusted her, and has always been by her side, which gives Yun'er the strength to persevere and the opportunity to be seen.

There is also a boy Yin Ran, who catches insects at home every day, and there are more than 200 kinds of one breeding.

Yi Nengjing's 20-year-old son wore sexy women's clothes again, and the semi-nude photos attracted heated discussion: "Don't you care about your son?" ”

Such hobbies are usually only reprimanded, but his mother does not do it.

His mom instead found it "very interesting."

She said, "You can't get rid of his fun things, then life is not very boring." ”

When she encountered insect knowledge that she did not understand, she asked her son to understand and integrate as much as possible.

Every holiday, Mom and Dad will accompany Yin Ran into the mountains to catch insects.

Of course, in addition to catching insects, Yin Ran also has to complete the homework punching card and jumping rope punching card.

Her mother told Yin Ran: "In a person's life, it is impossible to only do what they like to do, what they want to do and what they should do, that is a balance. ”

After watching the documentary, you will find that in their growth process, the most important thing is not talent, nor is it family situation.

It is their dedication and love for their dreams, as well as the support and guidance of their parents.

Respecting the different aspects of children's lives is the right way to open education.

Many parents always hang on the lips of a sentence is "let you do this, it is for your own good", in fact, more like a kind of kidnapping.

As the intensive Reading Jun's Dictionary entry "Non-Loving Behavior" says:

They use the so-called "love for each other" to achieve the purpose of making the other party obey their will.

True love is to treat him as an independent individual, not to make him have to grow according to your wishes.

As educator Sun Ruixue said in the book "Love and Freedom":

"It's the duty of a parent to provide a safe environment for their children with love, but as for how to explore the world, that's the child's freedom."

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