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Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

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In the entertainment industry, there are many actors who have won the titles of film emperor and film queen with their outstanding acting skills, such as Zhou Runfa, who participated in "Hero's True Colors", and Mei Yanfang, who participated in "Rouge Buckle".

There is only one actor who can use one work to win 8 film queen titles, and she is Yan Bingyan.

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

Many people are not familiar with the name Yan Bingyan, but as soon as they see her face, they have an impression, she has won many awards since entering the entertainment industry, why did she suddenly disappear a few years in the golden age of her career?

After returning again, she won eight awards with "Ten Thousand Arrows Through the Heart", why is she now facing the situation of no drama to shoot with such outstanding acting skills?

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

When she was a child, Yan Bingyan never expected that she would become an excellent actor in the future.

Yan Bingyan was born in a family of scholars, her grandmother is a descendant of Confucius, and her grandfather is a descendant of Confucius's disciple Yan Hui, living in such a family, she is not angry with books, but very rebellious, in her mother's words, like a "female hooligan".

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

When she was about one year old, her parents took care of her because she was too busy working in Beijing to take care of her, so they sent her to her grandparents' house and did not take her home until she was 6 years old.

Born in 1972, she grew up in Shandong, spoke with a Shandong accent, and when she returned to Beijing with her parents to go to school, she was often called "hillbilly" by her classmates because of accent problems.

Yan Bingyan's solution to the problem is also very simple, directly pick up the brick to break the bridge of the other party's nose, and no one dares to bully her again.

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

The parents also wanted to correct Yan Bingyan's rebellion, but the daughter did not grow up around them since childhood, and she also had a sense of alienation when facing them, as if they were not parents but uncles and aunts.

They had beaten and scolded but had little effect, but it made Yan Bingyan even more rebellious.

At that time, after Yan Bingyan was sent away, Yan's father and mother gave birth to another daughter, and when she returned, her parents wanted her to help take care of her sister.

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

But every time Yan Bingyan promised to be happy, she turned her head and left her sister behind and ran out to play by herself.

Even after going back to being beaten by her parents, she still went her own way.

Later, in adolescence, Yan Bingyan's rebellion was more obvious, and when other little girls secretly fell in love, she directly informed her parents: "I have an object, don't worry about coming back late later." ”

This made Yan's mother angry enough, in order to make her daughter less rebellious, but also in order to make her daughter look like a girl, she reported a dance class to Yan Bingyan.

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

Unexpectedly, Yan Bingyan, who had a rebellious personality, was really interested in dance, and was very serious when she studied, and when she was 11 years old, she took advantage of the fact that her parents did not pay attention to apply for the Beijing Song and Dance Troupe.

Although she was not excellent, she successfully "squeezed" in and became a real dancer.

After entering the song and dance troupe, Yan Bingyan has a salary every month, and after paying her salary every month, she will save the money and give it to her parents to subsidize the family.

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

Parents also feel the understanding of their daughters under the appearance of rebellion, and they feel very comforted in their hearts.

Once, when her mother saw Yan Bingyan asleep, she specially covered her with a blanket and touched her face. But Yan Bingyan could not adapt to this sudden concern, and her body instantly stiffened until her mother left.

Yan Bingyan originally thought that the relationship with her parents could not be restored in this life, and one thing eliminated the gap between them.

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

Yan Bingyan studied very quickly after entering the dance troupe, and continued to work in the troupe after graduation, thinking that she would be a dancer for a lifetime, and an opportunity appeared.

Her friend introduced her to an advertising shoot job, and since then she has been printed on the calendar and quickly became popular, becoming the goddess of the wall calendar in the hearts of many people.

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

At the age of 22, director Li Zhao encountered an accident when filming "The Hunt for the Wild Wolf Gang", and the original heroine could not participate due to scheduling reasons, and the opportunity for the heroine fell on Yan Bingyan.

At first, Yan Bingyan did not want to go to film because of the distance, but finally the director promised to reimburse the travel expenses, and she considered that she could take this opportunity to see her father who worked in Shenzhen, so she agreed to come down.

Facts have proved that the director's vision is good, although Yan Bingyan has no acting experience, she is not worse than other actors when filming, and this work has also received a good response after broadcasting.

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

This experience made Yan Bingyan have a strong interest in acting, and at the age of 25, she did not hesitate to give up her job in the song and dance troupe and become a professional actor.

Since then, she won the Best Supporting Actress Award for her role in "Xiao Hong" in "Red Cross", and cooperated with Li Youbin and Jiang Shan to star in "Never Give Up".

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

In addition, she also starred in "Gan Nineteen Sisters", it is said that the director Wang Wenjie wanted her to play the female number one, but Yan Bingyan was interested in the female number two "Wei Chi Lanxin".

In desperation, the director had to agree with her opinion and handed over the heroine to Yang Lu, who had starred in "Mother's Day".

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

Just when her career was going well, an accident befell her.

In 1998, at the age of 26, she suddenly received a critical illness notice from her mother.

The doctor told Yan That her mother would only have three years to live even if the operation was successful.

On that day, her mother was pushed into the operating room for a full 7 hours of treatment, and Yan Bingyan also stood outside for 7 hours.

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

It was at this time that she realized her feelings for her mother, and Yan Bingyan silently swore outside the operating room that if her mother's operation could be successful, she would reconcile with her mother.

Fortunately, her mother's surgery was very successful, but the cost of treatment became a big problem, although Yan Bingyan took out all the income from these years, which was also a drop in the bucket.

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

For her mother, she faded out of the entertainment circle in the golden career of her acting career, while looking for friends to borrow money, while playing some dragon set roles to make money, and also looking for the boss Li Shu to borrow hundreds of thousands, only to barely turn around.

After putting down work, Yan Bingyan has a lot of leisure, sometimes going to the hospital to chat with her mother, Yan Mother also understands that she does not have much time, and her only regret is that she cannot see her daughter harvest happiness.

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

In order to meet her mother's wishes, during that time, Yan Bingyan talked about many objects, hoping to marry as soon as possible to reassure her parents.

But she acted too urgently, and several boyfriends were scared away by her forced marriage.

In the eighth year after her mother's surgery, Yan Bingyan could only watch her leave with regret, this year Yan Bingyan was 33 years old.

After her mother's death, she was sad for a long time, did not sleep, did not eat or drink, and once lost more than 80 pounds.

In the 7 years after her mother's death, she did not have a birthday, because she felt that there was no important person to accompany her, and the birthday was meaningless.

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

It wasn't until she was 40 years old that she participated in the show "Best Scene" and celebrated her birthday in the company of the show's host.

In her, the script for Teeth of Love inspired her love of acting.

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

At that time, when she first took over this work, Yan Bingyan was still immersed in sadness and did not intend to act, but after seeing the script, she changed her mind.

This play is about the protagonist Qian Yehong and her three relationships, and at that time, Li Hongtao, Li Naiwen and others were also cooperating together.

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

At that time, there was a kiss scene in this play, which was Li Naiwen's first kiss scene, and he couldn't let go during the shooting, knocking Yan Bingyan's mouth into pain.

Fortunately, this play was filmed very successfully, and Yan Bingyan also won the Golden Rooster Award for Film Queen.

After that, she cooperated with Li Naiwen to star in works such as "Pension Plan" and "The Beginning of Love", becoming a famous screen couple at that time, and many people wanted to match them together.

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

Unfortunately, there seems to be no male and female love between them, and every time they talk about this matter, the two also use "friends" to explain the relationship between the two, and their feelings have become difficult to reconcile in the hearts of the audience.

After re-entering the entertainment industry, Yan Bingyan's resources were a lot worse, she successively starred in "Borrowing a Gun" with Zhang Jiayi, and cooperated with Li Kunlin and Qiao Zhenyu in the cause of "ManQiu" is still tepid.

Until 2012, she and Jiao Gang co-starred in "Ten Thousand Arrows Through the Heart", and with the role of "Li Baoli", she successfully won 8 awards after the film queen, and since then she has become famous.

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

When her career was successful, her feelings also became her father's "heart disease", and her father often urged her: "You first find someone to marry and try, and then find that it is really inappropriate to divorce after waiting together." ”

But Yan Bingyan, after experiencing that crazy time of pursuing marriage, is also more cautious about feelings, and if she is not sure that she can go to the end with each other, she will not bring her lover to her parents.

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

Several failed feelings also made her more demanding of her boyfriend, when participating in a variety show, her friend Jin Shuhui complained about Yan Bingyan's request: "She does not accept that her boyfriend has a love history, nor does she accept that the other party is shorter than her, and she also hopes that the marriage between the two begins with love." ”

Perhaps it is this seriousness that makes her 49 years old and still alone.

Yan Dad was also very uncomfortable to see that his daughter had been single, and he said guiltily: "It is your mother's illness that has delayed you." ”

Yan Bingyan was very indifferent to comfort her father: "While I don't have a family, let me be willful, and if I have a family, I can't be willful." ”

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

Over the years, Yan Bingyan's works have been "stable output", and her works such as "Family Banquet" and "Pension Plan" have received good feedback.

But Yan Bingyan, who has such outstanding acting skills, is facing the dilemma of having no drama to shoot, only because of her strict "professional code".

Yan Bingyan has particularly high requirements for the script, only wants to shoot her favorite works, does not accept rolling dramas, and does not accept works dubbed in different periods.

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

At that time, Jiang Wen invited her to play a cameo role in "One Step Away", the role was very small, and it would not take long to finish filming, and she refused the other party on the grounds that she was filming.

Later, Yu Zheng also invited her to star when filming "Yanxi Raiders", but she refused again because she minded the other party's post-dubbing.

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

Several times, she also lost a lot of excellent scripts because of her "harshness" and unwillingness to "compromise" her work.

Yan Bingyan once laughed and ridiculed: "Everyone knows that I am pretentious and know that I have no face, which is my insistence on acting." ”

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

However, when there is no drama to shoot, Yan Bingyan is not idle, she will take her father out on a trip together, and she will also take time to accompany her grandmother for the New Year. At this time, she no longer had the rebellion of her teenage years, and was like a filial and obedient daughter and granddaughter.

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

Now Yan Bingyan is 49 years old, but she does not have the smoothness of an adult, whether it is career or feelings, she is very "picky".

In her career, she has only made two works this year, including "Big Test" in January and "Splendid Embroidery of Mountains and Rivers" on June 26.

Yan Bingyan: I once forced marriage to scare away my predecessor, and now I can't find a partner because of the high standard of mate selection

Emotionally, she did not meet the right person, did not pass on the news of love, and seemed to remain single.

She is like a red plum blooming in the snow, from beginning to end, she has always firmly established her original intention and never changed her will for the outside world.

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