On September 6, Li Xiang posted a story on social platforms about the enrollment of his daughter Wang Shiling.
In the picture, Li Xiang and his daughter Wang Shiling are in the UK, and the school where Wang Shiling enrolled was quickly pulled out by netizens, it is the British Bonnetton Girls' School, the best boarding girls' school in the UK.
The school has a lot of heritage, and many celebrities have studied here.
For example, Japanese actor Hai Tian Yoshihi, Macau gambling king Ho Hung Sun's daughter Ho Chao Xin, and the famous British royal princess Anne and so on.
Not only that, according to Li Xiang, the school also specially arranged the room where Princess Anne once lived to Wang Shiling, which made Li Xiang extremely moved.
From the photos she posted, it is not difficult to see that the school environment is very good, and the environment of the dormitory is also full of culture and classical atmosphere.
At the same time, Li Xiang also posted a photo of his daughter.
Wang Shiling, who has not appeared for a long time, has already come out of nowhere.
At the age of 13, she has long hair and shawls, slender arms, and cheeks that have gradually faded from childishness, and her temperament is very outstanding.
Coincidentally, almost at the same time as Li Xiang's daughter, Li Xiaolu also updated a video on the Internet.
This is a video that uses mobile phone filters to show Sweet Xin's European and American makeup, in the picture, 9-year-old Sweet Xin has long hair and waist, bright eyes and bright teeth, and her appearance is completely different from when she was a child.
The appearance inadvertently displayed made netizens shout, "Like Li Xiaolu."
In fact, compared with Wang Shiling and Tianxin, the two "second generation of stars", we can see a lot of similar "labels", such as they are all "child stars" debut, and are loved by the public.
In addition, they have a similar family status, their parents are stars and divorced, but they all have a good living environment.
Of course, they also have many differences, such as: Wang Shiling gradually disappeared from everyone's sight and returned to her "peaceful" life, while Tianxin was still taken by her mother to the hot search from time to time.
This difference in life actually has a lot to do with the way the two mothers are educated, and in contrast, we may be able to find the way the "second generation of stars" grow up.
1. "Rich" vs "Poor" is essentially the shaping of values
All along, Li Xiang has been "rich" to Wang Shiling, and he has given the best.
The most straightforward thing is reflected in Wang Shiling's eating and wearing.
Some time ago, when Li Xiang's family of three appeared at the airport, Wang Shiling's outfit could be said to be worth a lot.
In this regard, some netizens said: Raising children like this, will it be "wasted"?
In the face of such doubts, Li Xiang once said so.
At that time, when she was pregnant with Wang Shiling, it was very difficult, almost relying on dripping to maintain her life.
Therefore, Li Xiang once said that he would definitely give Wang Shiling the best.
And the Wang Shiling that we viewers see has lived a rich life since childhood.
However, Wang Shiling's life under such nurturing did not deviate, but since childhood, he has received the teachings of various famous teachers and has a high cultural literacy.
Her paintings won gold medals at an early age in international touring events, and she also qualified to participate in the touring exhibition of the Louvre museum in France.
Compared with Li Xiang, Li Xiaolu chose "poor support".
She once confessed that she would buy discounted clothes for her daughter, first, because the child grew quickly and the clothes were updated quickly, and second, sweet and sweet, she thought there was no need to buy luxury goods for the child.
Of course, Li Xiaolu is not without money, but let Tianxin shape her own values.
Taking pocket money as an example, most of Tianxin's money comes from pressing the old money and is managed by Li Xiaolu.
The way she gave her daughter pocket money was to exchange her academic performance with handicrafts and painting.
Under this "utilitarian" condition, Tianxin has had the impulse to "consume" since she was a child, and Li Xiaolu once said that Tianxin once took her grandmother's mobile phone to shop on a treasure.
When she found such a situation, Li Xiaolu would correct her daughter's mistake at the first time and warn: you can't take other people's money casually.
For Li Xiaolu, "poor maintenance" is to let Tianxin understand the correct values.
If you encounter public welfare, Li Xiaolu will also take the initiative to let Tianxin use its pressure money to do it, because this is not only a meaningful thing for Tianxin, but also for the public welfare itself.
In fact, these two ways of raising children are rooted in order to shape the child's values, And Li Xiang's approach is to solve all the worries of the child and wholeheartedly establish a comprehensive development environment for her; And Li Xiaolu is biased towards the child herself, allowing her to understand the truth from life.
2, "praise" vs "control", only for the better growth of children
For how to educate children, Li Xiang has her own "parenting scripture", and her way is "praise" with a baby.
From talent, to learning, to life, she always encourages her children to try as much as possible.
It is precisely because of this educational concept that Wang Shiling can see the advantages of others and give respect to others at a very young age.
And when Li Xiang feels that she has done something wrong, she will also apologize to the child.
In "Where Daddy Goes", we can see that Wang Shiling is well educated.
When Cindy put a hair band on Wang Shiling, the latter politely exaggerated Cindy's advantages.
When grandpa in the village gave her food, she didn't forget to say hello to grandpa before she left, and let grandpa take care of himself.
In the show, she accidentally made Kimi angry, and she also gave her favorite SpongeBob hot water bottle to each other for the first time to make each other happy.
Knowing politeness, loving love, and emotional intelligence, although Wang Shiling was "rich", she was not "pampered".
Compared with Li Xiang, Li Xiaolu has a little more "control" in Tianxin's education.
She once posted a video of Tianxin learning street dance, and the sweet Xin in the picture seemed very uncomfortable, and even cried at one point.
We all know that Li Xiaolu is a deep hip hop fan, and netizens have questioned whether she imposed her will on Tianxin.
However, afterwards, Li Xiaolu also responded to this, "This is her own choice." ”
In terms of academic performance, Li Xiaolu also said, "Mom does not require you to become the top three, but you must make progress", in these words, she has certain "control and requirements" for the growth of her children.
For another example, Li Xiaolu will also insist on letting her daughter learn the piano, because Tianxin has a cheerful personality and the piano can balance her outgoing personality.
From some of the above sporadic examples, it is not difficult to see that Li Xiaolu's education method is more traditional, and will clearly tell you what you can do and what you can't do.
Of course, it is not that this kind of education is not good, which may make children make fewer mistakes.
3. "Comprehensive protection" and "showing the baby's face from time to time", there is an essential difference between the two planned lives
After returning from "Daddy", Wang Shiling once became the hottest "child star" in the country.
However, for Li Xiang, this is not Wang Shiling's life.
Therefore, Li Xiang sent Wang Shiling to an international school, during which chess, painting, horseback riding, piano, archery... Classes are packed.
Even private interest classes were one-on-one teaching, and during that time, Wang Shiling "disappeared", and she faded from the aura of "child star" and became an "ordinary person".
And Tianxin, she also entered an international school, and the tuition fee is not cheap.
But in addition to going to school, Tianxin also "constantly appears" in Li Xiaolu's video.
Whether it is Sanya or Dali, where Li Xiaolu is there, there must be sweet Xin.
The former is to give comprehensive "protection" and reduce exposure so as not to be distracted and affect academics; The latter is "showing his face from time to time", never reducing the heat, always living under the eyes of everyone.
Will such a sweet heart really be happy? Maybe just look at the smiles of the two men.
Although Li Xiang and Li Xiaolu's education methods are different, it does not mean that Tianxin is not excellent, on the contrary, some time ago, she traveled with Li Xiaolu in Yunnan.
In a minority village, many grain and oil materials were also distributed, and Sweet Xin was not squeamish, and took the initiative to send oil and grain to the villagers, which is worthy of our praise.
But returning to education itself, perhaps Li Xiang's education method can make children grow up in a relaxed and free environment.
After all, at the current age of Wang Shiling and Tianxin, the most appropriate and should-do thing is to study, and their growth environment should not be mixed with too many other things.
Of course, everyone has their own set of rules for educating children, and there is no absolute right or wrong, but from the original intention, we prefer that children grow up in a healthy and happy environment.
Nowadays, Wang Shiling has gone abroad for further study, and her future has a broader space; And Tianxin may also come to this road in the future, but before that, I hope to give her more freedom and choice, and I hope to see more of her sweet, innocent smile.
(Rotten Tomatoes Editorial Board: Ann An)