"My name is Baiyun", "My name is Black Earth"; "I belong to the chicken", "I belong to the tiger"; "This is my husband", "This is my old mother".
Yu Yun'er said that the most classic memory of the Spring Festival Gala is still stuck in the "white clouds and black soil" of Song Dandan and Zhao Benshan.
But in fact, the year she became "Grandma Baiyun", Song Dandan was only 38 years old.
On the 62nd birthday, people in the entertainment industry walked tea cold
For a long time, Song Dandan was always fixed as the "rural woman" Spring Festival Gala stage image.
It didn't delay people from liking her.
A "Beijing circle grid" of the Eight Classics can dress up ugly, when the road of comedy stars comes to the top, becoming the most famous "queen of sketches".
Among them, it is indispensable to the "huge dating circle" behind it.
Yes, Song Dandan has been in the entertainment industry for many years, with a reputation and many well-known friends in the circle.
So her birthday scenes in previous years, one game after another, were spectacular.
That scene can be said to be: gongs and drums are noisy and firecrackers are fired in unison, and red flags are displayed in a sea of people.
Take last year's birthday party, for example.
All of them are director Zhao Baogang, Xu Fan Feng Xiaogang and his wife such as super first-line, others please can not invite the top celebrities.
It is more lively than the backstage of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala.
Even if Song Dandan solemnly reminds everyone that there is no need to revitalize the teacher, the "enthusiasm" of a group of friends is still undiminished.
It's like who has more heart and who arrives earlier, like a large red carpet catwalk scene.
Since Song Dandan became famous, it has been like this almost every year.
The time came to August 25 this year.
Compared with the noise of gongs and drums in previous years, this year's Song Dandan's birthday scene is much bleaker to the naked eye.
On the night of August 25, the first person to post the scene of Song Dandan's 62nd birthday was Jiang Yan, his daughter.
There were a lot of people, but there was a faulty decline in the curry position.
The so-called 38 big coffee, in addition to Li Bingbing, Dong Xuan, Lin Yongjian, Chen Xiaoyi, are basically hovering outside the second and third lines.
The previous top directors and first-line actors are all missing.
The most surprising thing is that the members of the "Spring Festival Gala Sketch Nail Household" did not show up at the birthday party.
The personal social platform is also silent, and no one sends blessings to Song Dandan.
Among them are Yang Zi, a "good girl" who is very popular, Ni Ping, a good sister who has a lifelong friendship, and Zhu Yuanyuan, a good girlfriend who has just won the Hundred Flowers Award.
All the staff closed the wheat and disappeared.
There used to be a word called "people walking tea cool".
It is used to describe the world as hot and cold, and human feelings are cold and warm.
Now it seems that this word has just become the situation of Song Dandan today.
Friends who had a laugh with you before retirement had to miss the birthday party for various reasons.
It just passed in a hurry, without even saying a happy birthday.
Many people may have to sigh that the entertainment industry is that people walk tea cold, and the people in this circle are too realistic.
Is this really the case?
Yes.
Today, Song Dandan's situation is indeed not optimistic.
Song Dandan, who is outspoken and fast-talking, is not suitable for the entertainment industry
In the early years, there was a high praise on the Internet.
"Song Dandan was born at a good time when the internal entertainment was just formed, and only then did he go all the way and precipitate into an old artist."
"If she had put her personality in the present, she might have been eliminated a long time ago."
This is a rough word, but it is not rough.
Mixed entertainment circle.
Have the appearance, have the figure, have the money, you have to account for at least two of the three things, in order to be able to enter the circle.
In addition, the just need to become famous is high emotional intelligence.
Looking around, almost all the people who can count in the circle today are human spirits.
Take Zhang Ziyi as an analogy.
Two days ago, in the infield of a luxury jewelry show, Zhang Niangniang alone raised a glass to touch the vegetarians and celebrities in the field, because of her strong social skills.
Eight faces, social attributes are full.
There is no other reason, just because in the entertainment industry, many times rely on human feelings and connections to maintain their own heat operation.
Since in the entertainment industry, practitioners need to have this social quality.
Unfortunately, in this regard, Song Dandan could not even reach the passing line.
The most widely known example is her marriage history.
Song Dandan's several relationships, falling in the entertainment circle is a disaster.
The young lover Dou first opened, fascinated by the polite white moonlight, and launched the world's well-known pursuit.
Circle the key points, at that time, Song Dandan was already the beloved disciple of Blue Sky Wild.
Like Wang Ji, she is destined to be a female star.
What are female celebrities most afraid of?
All sorts of outrageous histories of marriage and love.
Therefore, most girls from the arts are secretly talking even if they are in love, for fear of being pulled out one day in the future.
But Song Dandan obviously did not care, in the words of Wang Ji: "She came in with a love purpose." ”
Write love poems for first love, stand in front of the fence and kiss.
Eyebrows fluttered and danced with my boyfriend on campus to qingqing me.
Then a violent loss of love, angry and frustrated and stranger flash marriage and divorce.
At that time, Song Dandan was only 24 years old.
After a stack of unforgettable love history, Song Dandan crashed head-on the south wall of Yingda.
In this marriage, Song Dandan's characteristics of being outspoken and fast-talking and not seeking consequences are vividly displayed.
Others divorce hammer each other, Song Dandan divorce hammers herself
On the surface, these two people are a "century-old family" and a "literary and artistic family".
It's also a good match.
In fact, the two pointed their needles at Mai Mang, each with their own family network, and neither of them was angry with the other.
Take a look at the stills of Song Dandan when he starred in the drama at the age of 26.
Wearing a fluffy princess dress, wearing a large red bow, his skin is white to almost reflective.
That sweet and delicate appearance is simply the grandmother of the "Disney Princess on The Run".
As a result, the beautiful woman began to engage in comedy, and Song Dandan waited for the East Wind before Yingda.
In 1989, he first appeared on the Spring Festival Gala, and "Lazy Blind Date" was out of the circle.
In fact, as a drama actor, Song Dandan could not accept his own ugly appearance.
After all, before that, she had been acting on the stage of Beijing Renyi.
The beautiful and shiny Kyo circle Gege should put down his body and look ugly, which is not very acceptable to young actresses.
But the problem was that Indah was not famous at the time.
Song Dandan had to raise a husband and raise children, so she had no choice.
In 1990, "Super Life Guerrilla" became popular, and Song Dandan became a fragrant bounty in the comedy circle.
It also upset the balance between her and her husband, Indah.
Science proves that strong men and weak women are the norm, and when this normal state is broken, many men's self-esteem will be hurt.
So, Indah cheated.
Under Song Dandan's eyes, he fell in love with Liang Huan, who was more gentle, more assertive, and more obedient.
In 1997, Geng ended his 10-year marriage to Yingda.
After the divorce, everyone else is a hammer ex-husband, and the "outspoken" Song Dandan hammers himself.
"I filed for divorce because I had my only extramarital affair in ten years."
"I'm so lonely and need love too much."
Song Dandan's reputation was discredited, and ten years of marriage became the darkest years that could not be looked back.
There is an immature defense mechanism in psychology called "seeing into action."
It means that when a certain emotion and desire arise in the heart, it is immediately and impulsively put into action to achieve the purpose of transfer and covering, so as to avoid the inner feelings from being perceived by themselves.
Obviously, Song Dandan is easily motivated by the psychology of seeing actions.
At any time, it will give priority to impulsive treatment, not considering the consequences, just to cover up the pain in the heart, but the result is counterproductive.
Here, I have to thank Teacher Ni Ping.
When Song Dandan was 36 years old, he was extremely emotionally broken, and once thought of suicide:
"I'm lonely and can't get by."
It was already dawn that day, but she didn't open the curtains.
Suddenly Ni Ping called me: What are you doing? ”
"I want to die".
"Don't die first, come to my house and wipe the floor first." You die what you do. ”
It was also with the support of Ni Ping that Song Dandan walked out of his dark moment.
Before retirement, the love career double harvest, after retirement, the reputation collapsed
He worked for many years until retirement.
Even if he has spread out cheating remarks, Song Dandan's reputation has always been very good.
Career, love double harvest.
At the age of 60, Song Dandan refused to be retained by all fans.
"Instead of letting the audience go down, let me go on my own."
"Don't look at anyone's face."
- Song Dandan
Voluntarily retire early and leave the Spring Festival Gala stage.
After the popularity of reality shows, Song Dandan accepted many invitations from variety shows.
Since this time, the reputation has been very good "queen of comedy", and has become a "reality show public knowledge" that has been criticized and educated by netizens for many years.
Every time I am on the hot search, I am scolded.
On Ace vs. Ace, she breaks the rules in order to take care of her emotions.
Rob Mai guess the song link himself can not answer to say that Brilliance Chenyu fouled, the music has not yet played on the stage.
After being punished by spray, the requirement must be followed by a 3 times penalty.
As a result, Shen Teng and Jia Ling behind them were full of embarrassment.
But when it's your turn, it's always a reason, no matter how others refute it.
When someone asked, she choked, "What do you care about me?" ”
After the program was broadcast, netizens complained.
Accusing her of standing on the status of a senior and relying on the old and selling the old, breaking the rules.
A good episode of the show became a spit conference.
On "Suddenly Moving Again", Ni Ping, who bluntly said that "save his own life", hurt herself because of a sentence.
Stubbornly angry for more than 20 years, he refused to communicate with Ni Ping.
Completely forget that in the most difficult and bumpy time of your life.
It was Ni Ping who gave her spiritual support.
Now even if Ni Ping says in front of the camera: We are the best friends, but you have always ignored me.
And Song Dandan still takes his self-esteem and the past of Chen Sesame Rotten Grain.
From his own standpoint, he asked Ni Ping to admit that it was his fault.
On "Fifty Kilometers of Peach Blossom Dock", she was aggressive with Zhang Han.
As soon as everyone met in the show, Song Dandan, as a senior, began to make rules for self-introduction in the show.
"What are you doing, what are you relying on, what are your achievements, why are you here?"
Most people are still very cooperative, and as a result, they get stuck here in Zhang Han.
Song Dandan aggressively dismantled the stage: What you have played, you are a famous actor, I really don't know.
A sentence once again mentioned the hot search, and the reputation of the old artist was discredited.
Crowned with a "hat" that is difficult for the younger generations and has no one in sight.
Taking his son to "Longing for Life", Song Dandan was scolded even more miserably.
In other people's pictures, some of them are quiet and good, and some are quiet and indifferent.
When it came to Song Dandan, it became the "Batu Spit Conference".
In front of a national audience, Batuu was ridiculed for being in poor shape, eating too much, having nothing and being incompetent.
He even uttered words such as "I'm going to change my son" and "I gave birth to a piece of crap."
As a son, Batuu didn't even have a chance to defend himself except for a dry self-deprecation or walking away.
Netizens are once again anxious to catch fire, sending netizens to discuss "how terrible it is for a strong single mother".
Scolding her will not educate her children, but will only humiliate others, full of oppression, and late festivals.
Life is like a drama, Song Dandan voluntarily enjoys the entertainment circle's "people walk tea cool"
What really makes many people feel disgusted with Song Dandan.
It is "Peach Blossom Dock" recorded a while ago.
In the first program, Song Dandan accurately stepped on the minefield of everyone and every audience throughout the whole process.
Even created an "awkward 9 minutes" that never appeared.
Li Xueqin suggested that everyone have a clear division of labor and stop grabbing work.
Song Dandan retorted: "Who grabbed the job to do it?" ”
Li Xueqin took Wu Muye as an example, and Song Dandan retorted:
"It's okay if he wants to."
Asking for a vote on the spot, it is forced to prove that Li Xueqin is wrong and is looking for trouble.
After killing Li Xueqin, she began to make up her own mind and control the guests from her own point of view.
Lose your temper directly when others obviously don't want to have a party, don't want to perform a show:
"Then what are you sitting here for?"
Everyone obviously wants to hold a sports meeting, but they must insist on their own views and hold a party;
Regardless of everyone's wishes, arrange others with a tough and unquestionable posture to be "clear".
As a result, everyone on the scene, every viewer in front of the screen, was suffocated.
In addition, in the case of unfamiliarity, Dong Xuan, who had just encountered a scumbag and was divorced, got married.
Belittling Wang Sutaki's business ability is worrying, and it will only cause trouble.
Li Xueqin "got up the latest, slept the earliest".
Then it sparked accusations across the web.
The melon-eating masses picked up the keyboard in their hands and sprayed, questioning Song Dandan's dependence on the old and selling the old, the PUA insulting others, and the childhood filters all fell out.
Because a variety show was scolded for half a month, Song Dandan is also the first person in internal entertainment.
It is not difficult to understand why the birthday of August, Song Dan Dan Men Ke Luo Finches.
The big guys in the entertainment industry have always been so profit-seeking and avoiding harm, haven't they?
Song Dandan is not the first, nor will he be the last.
Such examples are not uncommon in the entertainment industry.
Zhu Jun, who was once the "first brother of CCTV", did not expose the "salty pig hand" before the door was like a city.
And how many A-list actors, hosts, big directors and artists call brothers and sisters.
Once sued by the "string", the friends collectively draw a line.
Even now his lawsuit has been won, proving his innocence.
No one wanted to help him say a fair word.
He Jiong, a "brother in Hunan", is a great and good person who has to cause a sensation every year on his birthday.
That year, he was named by CCTV for "receiving gifts", and then he also had the same encounter.
Black history was pickpocketed, and even what his father did and what he lived in was found out.
In the end, "Happy Base Camp", which had been hosted for 24 years, was tragically suspended.
All of a sudden, it became a public nuisance to the public's eyesight.
Once piled up to go forward small fresh meat, flow of small flowers, the younger generations who were illuminated, how many are left?
Even the 4 brothers and sisters of the "Happy Family" who are desperately guarding are absent from Teacher He's birthday in 2022.
Once famous, the youngest "Golden Horse Film Queen" Li Xiaolu.
Once a group of sisters, directors sought after, friends everywhere.
After "see you on Wednesday", her reputation was discredited, and you see her friends, how many are like before?
"The world is bustling, all for the benefit of the coming, the world is bustling, all for the benefit of the future"
The stars will seek profits and avoid harms, and pursue fame and profit.
Seeing you rise tall, seeing you feasting guests, seeing your building collapse.
They won't ask you if you're wronged, and they won't take the handle.
Just turn around and sweep the snow in front of the door.
epilogue
After 62 years of fire, Song Dandan, who has experienced great ups and downs, still has nothing to understand.
She was getting lazier.
Too lazy to lie, too lazy to please, too lazy to retain, too lazy to explain.
Others say she plays games too realistically, but she is still more real.
Say she has low emotional intelligence and can't talk, and next time she'll still go straight.
Old friends Zhao Benshan, Chen Daoming, and Ni Ping all advised her that if she said more, she would lose.
She said thank you and still didn't listen.
In the end, Song Dandan, from the beginning of love, is a person who loves to drill the horns and is easy to get excited, isn't it?
When you are young, you always spare no effort to make yourself conform to everyone's standards.
Now old and retired.
There's nothing wrong with being an old lady who entertains herself.
I am particularly self now, and if you are comfortable with me, you will stay, and if you are uncomfortable, you will go, and I will not keep.
I'll just say a word about walking slowly and not far away. - Song Dandan
Life is short, why bother?