Recently, I watched a short film that made people feel very deeply
The heroine narrates her past life through self-narration. All the beauty came to an abrupt end in the summer when she was nine years old.
That summer, she happily climbed to the apricot tree in front of her house to pick apricots. Grandma under the tree shouted for her to hurry down, because her mother, who had just given birth to her sister, had come home. She happily held Huang Chengcheng's apricot in one hand, happily ran to her mother, before she had time to give the apricot to her mother, she was greeted by her mother's sentence: Wash your sister's diaper, and then your sister's diaper will be handed over to you to wash.
A little girl who was only nine years old, holding an apricot in one hand and her sister's diaper in the other, was both "Huang Chengcheng", but so blinking and ironic. Since then, "apricots" have become a pain in her heart that can never be soothed. From that moment on, she turned her "love" for her sister into "hate."
But the pain brought to her by her parents was far from this, since her sister came to this home. No matter what happened, as long as the sister cried and made a fuss, the parents did not ask the reason for her, it was a severe beating and scolding. From time to time, he also instilled the concept of "you are a sister, you have to let your sister".
The disregard and indifference to the sister, as well as the bottomless doting on the sister, eventually led to the completely different personality defects of the sisters.
Under the pressure of her parents, my sister learned to please adults, and even in the end, she developed a rebellious psychology under extreme tolerance, learned to resist, and her personality became extremely strong, always wanting to be above others. This strong personality has always affected her, causing her friends around her to leave her because of the unbearable strength...
Because her family was overly tolerant, her sister could not adapt to school life during her school years, and she repeatedly skipped school or even became bored with school. After entering the society, because of her weak personality, she was often bullied by colleagues, and she used her car at will, and her monthly salary was not enough to refuel...
The harm brought by the extreme education methods of the older generation of parents to the heroine must follow her throughout her life, and at the same time, it also causes the sister's weak character due to her inability to withstand external pressure.
With the development of society and the improvement of economic ability, two-child families and even multi-child families abound. But as a parent, you must lead by example, the child's education problems can not be ignored, the small one to take care of but the big is also your child, should be the same care and care.
Once again, I appeal to parents all over the world, please give your children more love and companionship, and believe that your true feelings should be able to be felt by your children. When a child grows up, becomes a father, and becomes a mother, he will be grateful to you, and she/he will be a warm and grateful person.
#Summer Wars # #温暖 #
