Yesterday the couple of friends sent their daughter to school, when they left, the wife suppressed the tears, but the husband did not hold back, wet eyes in front of the daughter's face, this is the first time in the daughter's life to leave them, adults and children are not very comfortable for a while.
I asked him: Then won't you cry even harder when your daughter gets married in the future?
He said: "I wouldn't cry back then because she had grown up and learned to take care of herself.
His daughter has not studied well since elementary school, I once suggested that my mother let the child be sent to our local private school, this mother said that she felt very necessary, but the father did not agree, afraid of the child's suffering, now the child's junior high school graduation is not out of the file, the wife complained that he did not send his daughter to the private school, he said: I don't want my daughter to suffer, the teacher beat and scolded, is not studying to have a good job in the future? I'm trying to earn her money now, and when she grows up, I'll make enough money for her to spend her whole life.
I laughed at his habitual children, and he said sarcastically: What is wrong with his own biological children?
Yeah, what's wrong with your own children? He was eager to earn his daughter a lifetime of money, and he didn't want his children to suffer a little.
Probably many people will do what my neighbor thinks, doing everything they can to create everything for the child to protect the child for the rest of his life. When your life comes to an end, you will give your life savings to your children.
The same is true for Fat Shen Dianxia, the difference is that Fat is two parts, Zheng Xinyi is under the age of 35, she will be the inheritance through the trust company to pay only Zheng Xinyi's normal living expenses and tuition fees, most of the remaining property such as Zheng Xinyi after reaching the age of 35 once inherited.
This is the deepest love of a mother, this love is full of her 62 years of life insights and experiences, and it is the protection of her daughter who is full of wisdom after tasting the cold and warm of human feelings and sinister human nature in the world.
As we all know, the marriage of Shen Dianxia and Zheng Shaoqiu was broken due to Zheng Shaoqiu's empathy, and after Zheng Shaoqiu married Guan Jinghua, Shen Dianxia fell in love with Zheng Shaoqiu until her death, never remarried, and all her thoughts were on her daughter Zheng Xinyi, but unfortunately, when Zheng Xinyi was 21 years old, Fei Fei died of illness. It is reasonable to say that Zheng Xinyi is an adult and fully qualified to inherit property, but why does Shen Dianxia's will wait until Zheng Xinyi is 35 years old to inherit most of the property she left behind?
Hidden in this is the fat wisdom of life. In the entertainment industry, the fat that has been playing most of her life knows more than anyone the environment in which Zheng Xinyi is located.
On the one hand, Zheng Xinyi as a second-generation female parents have better connections and resources than other industries, Zheng Shaoqiu has divorced her, but tiger poison does not eat children, as an old predecessor in your circle, his interpersonal relationships can win better resources for Zheng Xinyi. On the other hand, your circle has always been Vanity Fair, there are many opportunities and temptations, if Fei Fei gives all the property to Zheng Xinyi at one time, she is afraid that her daughter will meet a second Zheng Shaoqiu. She herself suffered so much that she did not want her daughter to repeat the mistakes of the past.
She wants Zheng Xinyi to have the ability to look at the world coldly and inherit it when she has the ability to manage such a large amount of wealth.
I once said to my girlfriend that a woman with a lot of money is no better choice than a penniless woman when it comes to relationships and marriages. Because a woman who has nothing does not have to think about whether the other party is with her for money or a person, but a rich woman must figure out what the other party wants. But this is often a conundrum, and you don't know if he's trying to figure people or money.
People have limitations in seeing people and things when they are young, and the fewer bad people they encounter, the more superficial their understanding of human nature. Only when people suffer losses and are hurt will they truly grow.
People in their twenties will have illusions about people and things, and they will always think in the good way when encountering people and things, and they will not have a defensive mentality. Especially in the issue of feelings, it is often easy to invest too much, just as fei fei fell in love with Zheng Shaoqiu, and her entire life was caught in the pain of this relationship and marriage.
The greatest misfortune in life is to meet a person who amazes you all your life when you are young, and this person often has heights that you cannot reach. Although Fat Fat as a talented woman is not weaker than Zheng Shaoqiu in ability, but Zheng Shaoqiu is a handsome man with the reputation of Qiu Guan, he is Chu Liuxiang who fascinates all sentient beings, the gap between them from the appearance is vastly different, this huge gap is impossible to fill in talent, and most importantly, Zheng Shaoqiu is also an all-round actor, and his talent is not under Fat Fat.
He was an unsolvable problem for hers. The pain of love is that love cannot begin and end at the same time. The pain caused by Zheng Shaoqiu's empathy to Shen Dianxia throughout her life, she couldn't understand: Did he really love her in the end?
Even in the work after many years of divorce, Fei Fei let go of all his worries and asked Zheng Shaoqiu in the interview: Have you ever liked me?
Zheng Shaoqiu blurted out: Of course, I liked it.
Fat as if re-released, laughing to change the topic, this scene, people watching too sad.
She understands women, but also understands men, she can not continue to protect her daughter, can not escort her life path, can only in this way to protect her daughter thoroughly.
Zheng Xinyi, who is in her twenties, does not yet have the ability to manage such a large amount of property, and Fei Fei postponed the inheritance of this inheritance, first, to exercise her ability to stand on her own, on the other hand, to prevent her from being deceived, which is much better than giving Zheng Xinyi at one time.
Parents love their children, and they have far-reaching plans for them.
We all know a saying: it is better to teach people to fish than to teach people to fish. But very few people can really understand this sentence. Giving each other wealth is not as good as teaching each other how to make money, fundamentally speaking, it must be so, but too many people want to let their loved ones have no worries, and as a result, giving too much will hurt each other.