Among the CCTV male hosts is a group that calls itself the "F4 Day Group".
"National Face" Kang Hui, "Poisonous Tongue" Sabine, "Talented" Zhu Guangquan, "Brilliant Brother" Nigmat.
They are the "young benchmarks" of the hosting industry, affectionately known as "CCTV boys" by the audience.
And Nigmat is recognized as one of the 4 people who is recognized as the "most honest and lovely".
Love to play, love to shop, love to buy and love to take pictures, netizens in Beijing often encounter "wild little ni" on the street.
Chatting with fans is not perfunctory or contrived, and the smile is always bright, and no one can see it.
Behind this famous host, there is a marriage that has been separated for many years, and a mutually considerate family relationship.
The leader of Taili gave him a holiday, and a walk-and-go fulfillment went to Bali.
Who knew that on a flight to overseas, you can also meet your fellow countrymen.
It was during this journey that the beautiful Pasha Guli took away the heart of Nigmat.
They have been in love for two years, married for 9 years, but lived a life of transnational separation with less and more.
Nigmat's career and achievements are the pride of his parents.
But he is nearly 40 years old and has no children, which is a regret in the hearts of his parents.
From 2013 to the present, Nigmat has been on the way forward.
There have been unwilling partings, careful love, and tears of guilt...
The "outbreak" after opening the meridians
Born in 1983 in Urumqi, Xinjiang Uygur Autonomous Region.
Nigmat Rehmann is very different from his older siblings.
He is introverted, does not like to talk, and once Q is Q to stand up and perform a small show.
Two bubbles of tears wrapped in the eyes will not fall, parents will have no choice but to come out to play the round field, saying that their children are shy.
Grew up in Shuxiang mendi.
Yu's father, who worked as an editor and translator at the publishing house, gave Xiaoni a very good intellectual enlightenment.
His mother, who works as a translation producer and announcer at a television station, gave him access to television recording (occasional cameos to record children's voices).
But the child's crying and afraid personality made Xiaoni's father, Lao Ni, see it in his eyes and be anxious in his heart.
I discussed with my wife that I must change the character of my children.
So under the leadership of Lao Ni, he sneaked from the park to the zoo, and went out of the adult pile to play in the children's pile.
Helplessly, Xiaoni just does not give face, and the adults can not say a word, and the child will blush when greeting him face to face.
Helpless, The Old Ni decided to make up his mind, and after taking his son out, he excused himself and walked away.
Xiao Niqian waited for thousands of people to wait for his father, stood where he was and did not dare to leave, and the cry alarmed many "elderly friends" around him.
This one is "what's wrong with you little friend", the one is "what about your parents", and some people ask "Where is your home, I will send you back".
Old Ni stood in the corner silently observing, watching his son with tears and snot, and intermittently talking about his own situation.
He was very happy.
I was able to go home that day, and I also thanked my elderly friends for their help.
Xiao Ni was very "alert", did not let the well-wishers hold his hand along the way, and insisted on taking public transportation home.
When he saw his mother, he cried and pounced, and the old ni who "followed" all the way appeared leisurely.
"Don't be afraid, I've been following you. You did great today. You see, it's not that hard to talk to people. Be bold and resist things yourself. What should you say to this kind grandfather? ”
Sobbing and saying "thank you", Xiaoni's life was completely changed because of this "fright".
Signing up for the local choir, Lao Ni told his son that it was learning, and if he wanted to relax, he could go and paint and play the piano.
Under the combination of "learning and leisure", the "not very smart" Xiaoni learned a good skill in this way.
He has a wide range of hobbies, is excellent in learning, lets go of himself a little bit, and dares to show himself with the encouragement of the people around him.
Nigmat can be said to have successfully transformed into "someone else's child".
In 1995, the 12-year-old boy stood out from the crowd and went to Beijing as a representative of the local Young Pioneers.
Exposed to the new environment, Xiaoni marveled at the beauty of Beijing.
After returning home, he kept talking to his father about what he had seen.
His father took the opportunity to teach him: "The outside world is very vast. If you want to see more 'Beijing', you have to work hard to make yourself excellent. Excellent people are more likely to stand on a higher platform, see different landscapes, and do different things. ”
It is worthy of being a person who deals with words every day, and the words that want to make children work hard are also so literary.
Inspired by the "three words and two words", Xiaoni began to make Beijing a goal and be more motivated.
In 2000, at the age of 26, He Jiong published his own collection of essays, How To Be Happy.
After reading it, the 17-year-old Xiaoni decided that "the source of happiness is love."
I felt the author's love for life, and I also felt interested in this love.
Xiao Ni wants to be a good host like He Jiong.
Go all the way up and be yourself
Solemnly announce to his parents that he is also a person with ideals.
Without jokes or blows, Old Ni and his wife looked at each other and gave affirmation.
After that, one of them was educated from the perspective of knowledge reserves. One starts with the professional skills aspect.
Vowing to grant his son's wish.
At the age of 19, he participated in the National Television Program Hosting Competition for Middle School Students at the reminder of his mother.
Smiling and moving back to the third place, Xiaoni won the opportunity to skip the exam at the Communication University of China.
Exempted from the art exam, the next step is to compete for the college entrance examination results.
Plunging into the study, Xiaoni used the thrown-up test paper to spell out a second place in Xinjiang.
Setting foot in Beijing again, the young man firmly believes that he will find "happiness in the book" here.
The nearly 4 years slipped through the process of burying oneself in.
In 2006, a yin and yang mistake made Xiaoni meet a new self.
Accompany friends to participate in a host selection activity of the puzzle program "Happy Dictionary".
Unexpectedly, as a group of relatives and friends on stage, he received a registration form from the director behind the scenes.
With the support of her friends, Xiaoni stood on the stage, and then walked all the way up, becoming the only person standing on the stage at the end.
The original hosts of the Happy Dictionary are Wang Xiaoya and Li Jiaming.
Because he wanted to go abroad for further study, Li Jiaming's position was vacated, and this selection was to find a new partner for Wang Xiaoya.
That year, Xiaoni was 23 years old, without the public's "graduation and unemployment", he became a CCTV host.
As soon as the industry is such a high starting point, Xiao Ni's heart is panicked.
Afraid that the audience would not like him, he tried his best to imitate Jiamingo's hosting style.
But other people's is not their own after all, spending time in anxiety and their own doubts, Xiaoni began to be confused.
Fortunately, at that time, he made a cross-call to Jiamingo who was overseas.
"Everyone likes your style, I don't dare to be myself, if I continue like this, will I smash the signboard in the stage when I am discouraged?"
Faced with a young man's confusion and helplessness, Jiamingge solemnly treated:
"Being yourself is the best, you host easily, the audience will relax and remember your name." Believe in yourself, you deserve everyone's love..."
"Those words at the time were really useful to me. I didn't dare to tell my family about things at work, for fear that my parents would worry. Fortunately, Jiamingo has always supported me, and later called me to encourage me, he is my brother and teacher..."
A little bit of thinking about their hosting style, working overtime to memorize the manuscript, and repeatedly practicing the smiling tone and corresponding expression in front of the mirror.
In order to make yourself "export into chapters", it seems to have "thickness".
He desperately enriches his knowledge both inside and outside his profession.
Fortunately, hard work eventually pays off, and the Dictionary of Happiness is played by him in the palm of his hand.
He also took over the hosting of "Mobilization in the Whole Family" under the arrangement of the leader.
In addition, it is often "borrowed" by CCTV 3 and appears in programs such as "Challenge Host" and "Animal Carnival".
After work, if you want to find Xiaoni, colleagues have something to say:
"When he goes to the lounge, when he is not broadcasting, he is there to read materials, prepare manuscripts, read books, practice oral notes..."
In today's words, Xiaoni is the "first person" in the CCTV volume, and one person has brought up a lot of learning enthusiasm for column hosts.
I don't know if this kind of behavior has seriously affected the harmonious atmosphere in the stage.
The leader "couldn't look at it anymore", so he semi-compulsively gave Xiaoni a long vacation and let him go out to relax.
A ticket to Bali in my arms.
Xiao Ni could not have imagined that from this journey he would bring him a daughter-in-law.
From "trick-or-treating" to getting married, liking each other
In the noisy cabin, there was a nice Xinjiang dialect, and Xiao Ni was surprised and curious.
Take the initiative to say hello to the talking girl.
The girl, Pasha Guli Durukkun, is a Uighur like him and now lives in Beijing.
"I know you, you are Nigmat, our host of Xinjiang going out!"
The girl was equally excited, and then she changed seats and whispered all the way.
The destinations were all In Bali, and Xiaoni joined Pasha Guli's team.
Enthusiastic and lively, know how to regulate the atmosphere and take care of the emotions of others.
After a journey, Xiao ni's liking for Pasha Guli soared.
Holding up his camera to record the scenery, he himself did not notice, he photographed the figures of many beautiful girls.
More than a week together has spawned a relationship.
After returning to Beijing, Xiaoni's colleagues found out, how did this person start to commute to work on time?
Today I'll have a meal with Pasha Guli, and tomorrow I'll take her shopping and watching a movie.
They all have a good feeling for each other, but no one goes one step further.
After a while, Pasha Guli suddenly told Xiaoni that her mother was in a hurry and arranged several blind dates for her.
This really makes Xiao Ni stand also not, sit is not, anxious to get on the fire.
As soon as the next day's work was over, he hurried to find Pasha Guli.
"When did you go on a blind date, I see that people are very good at it, how do you see when I give you a check?"
Holding back the smile that was about to overflow the corners of her lips, Pasha Guli actually took Xiaoni out the door.
"This is my fellow countryman Nigmat, a host."
Introduce each person you meet in this way, and the other party greets them in a kind manner.
But every time he came back from meeting, Xiaoni was not very "friendly".
"This is not OK, the personality is a bit strong..." "This is not okay, its own conditions are a bit lacking..."
"Eh, this condition is so good and not yet married, I guess the elders in the family are not easy to get along with..."
Xiao Ni will "make trouble" to the end, and Pasha Guli does not know whether to be happy or suffocated.
Fortunately, the "bad guys" on this side were finally frightened by the continuous blind date.
Summoning up the courage of a confession, the smiling Pasha Guli took him directly home to meet his parents.
Hands offer gifts and tonics, rush to do work, even show cooking, accompany the bend to play chess...
Incarnated as "24 good boyfriends", Pasha Guli's parents nodded in agreement with their daughter's choice.
He returned to Urumqi with his girlfriend, and Lao Ni was very happy about his son's "sudden opening".
In 2013, the 30-year-old Xiaoni married Pasha Guli in the scenery of his hometown.
It was also this year that Xiaoni went from the "Echo Loud" program group to the scene of "Opening the Door".
After that, he also hosted programs such as "Chinese Good Songs" and "Perfect Star Opening".
Separated suddenly, but also insisted on waiting
In 2015, Xiao ni was even more incredible.
Was transferred to CCTV 1 to host "Avenue of Stars"; Cooperated with Li Sisi on "I want to go to the Spring Festival Gala".
It was also from this year that he was selected as the host of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala and sent Spring Festival wishes to the people of the whole country for 8 consecutive years.
Originally, when the career and marriage were complete, Pasha Guli had a "change" on her side.
"My job requires me to have a higher degree, I am ready to study abroad, sorry ..."
Before his wife could finish speaking, Xiao ni interrupted her.
"There's nothing to be sorry about, I can understand that you also have your own career aspirations, just like me. You wait for me to think about how to tell my parents..."
Take advantage of the holidays to take Pasha Guli home.
Xiao Ni informed both parents of his wife's decision.
"Mommy and Daddy, I am supporting Gu Li, we have thought about it, there is nothing to be separated for a few years, and it is more important that she does not have regrets."
Because of the son's and son-in-law's "support", although the parents of both sides have some opposition, they are not strong.
Maybe Xiaoni himself did not expect that his wife's departure would be nearly 6 years.
As Xiaoni's career ushered in an upward period, he became busier and busier.
Fortunately, busy work can take up most of his time, so that the thoughts are only controlled in a short space.
They often call each other to say that they are safe, because of the time difference they use more email to communicate.
Pasha Guli is a woman who likes to talk to.
What you do every day, the food you eat, the problems you encounter, the projects you carry out, and so on.
She would write long emails telling her husbands at home about their experiences.
It was as if he was by his wife's side and accompanied her through every day.
Xiaoni liked his wife's sharing and slowly began to share his daily experiences.
Colleagues said that Xiaoni was more gentle, and Xiaoni said that he was very happy every day at a fixed time.
Pasha Guli's parents, who live in Beijing, have always felt that their daughter's "self-pursuit" is not "fair" to Xiaoni.
So the old couple often called their son-in-law to stay at home to eat, chat, play chess, and enhance their feelings.
"My father-in-law and mother-in-law are really nice, and when I'm busy they'll come to the stage to bring me food. When they call me and I'm working overtime, they'll tell me a lot to take care of my rest and take care of my body. The next day the stewed soup was delivered to the doorstep..."
There is also this kind of psychology, and those who feel that their son is lonely are the old couple.
Watching my son's age run up little by little, he has been married for several years, but he has never had children.
They are also anxious.
It can be known that the daughter-in-law is going to school, and there are children who are really delaying their studies.
The old nun's wife could only suppress her worries in her heart and practice meditation.
There is always a time when you can't help it, and the old man's mood of looking forward to his grandson is understandable.
Therefore, when his mother urged carefully and cryptically, in addition to patiently comforting, he also wiped away tears of guilt for failing to meet his parents' wishes.
In 2019, Xiao Ni hairstyleed his first single "The Man Who Waits for a Lifetime".
Countless netizens said, "Looking at the name is to confess to someone!" ”
Xiao Ni just smiled happily and did not make any response.
"I want her to do everything she wants and not want her to be disturbed and hurt by any outside world." It's nice to live quietly. ”
"We've been married for 9 years and although we haven't spent much time together, we've always had a good relationship."
"We have always had communication about whether we have children or not. Our parents always felt that Gully had gone abroad, because she had no children. Actually, no, I'm also very busy, and this responsibility should not be all up to her. ”
Fortunately, Pasha Guli has successfully obtained the relevant master's degree and returned to China.
Now 39 years old, Xiaoni is finally reunited with his wife.
I don't know if at the age of 40, he will fulfill his parents' wishes and add ding to his family?