There are many sentient beings in the Qing Dynasty, and it is perfectly normal to encounter intentional or unintentional difficulties from others on the road of growth. So what we have to do is not to find a way to avoid encountering difficulties.
Instead, to learn how to effectively deal with the 2013 Golden Horse Awards awards party when encountering difficulties, Huang Bo encountered things that were difficult to be harassed.
On that day, the lights were brilliant, the stars gathered, and Chinese stars from all over the world walked together to the red carpet and gathered together, looking forward to the release of the major awards of the 50th Taiwan Film Golden Horse Awards.
Liang Chaowei, Andy Lau, Zhang Ziyi, Maggie Cheung, Zhang Jiahui, Shu Qi and many other stars came to the scene, most of them are the heroes of the film industry at home and abroad, at this time gorgeous gathering together, can be described as dazzling, as if to make the Taipei Sun Yat-sen Memorial Hall where the party was held more magnificent than ever.
From the dress of many stars, it can be seen that although everyone's style is different, each has its own characteristics, some are brilliant and atmospheric, and some are alternative but easy-going and some are playful but solemn.
But without exception, they all spent less time thinking about this event.
One of the previous Golden Horse Awards hosts Huang Bo wore the thin belt of a thin belt of a robe in the dark cross-sectional printed material of the 2014 Spring 2014 collection that simon go had just released.
This season's Golden Horse Awards host Cai Kangyong is ingenious, wearing a black and white plaid dress on the upper body, and carrying a horse on the back, which appropriately echoes the Golden Horse Award.
That night, the class guest Zheng Yulin and Huang Bo on the same stage to present the award, he first took Huang Bo's dress style to start the joke, tonight you are wearing pajamas, because I have not been to the Golden Horse Awards for five years.
So I was dressed up to attend, and you saw Andy Lau, Liang Chaowei, Jackie Chan under the stage, they were all very heavy. It turns out that although Huang Bo is dressed in a low-key style without losing his aristocratic style, the shape itself is more at home than most stars, and Zheng Yuling just takes this opportunity to open up.
In such a cheerful atmosphere, it is common for celebrities to joke with each other, especially after the stage.
If the response mechanism is appropriate, it will also produce a humorous effect like crosstalk, but if the response is stretched, it will be difficult to lift.
Sometimes it will affect their image in the minds of fans, and even have an impact on their acting career. Therefore, as soon as Zheng Yuling's words were exported, the people in the audience could not help but straighten out their posture a little, and they wanted to hear how Huang Bo should answer in the end. Spotlights, cameras, countless pairs of eyes, this is the evening of global live broadcasting.
Without much thought, Huang Bo immediately said easily and naturally: "Yes, yes, yes, because they are all guests, guests go to someone else's house, of course, you have to wear a little weight, you have not come for five years, but in these five years, I have been at the Golden Horse Awards, and here is already like home." What do you wear when you get home? When you get home, you must wear a little more comfortable. A witty answer, his voice has not yet fallen the stars have been laughing, the audience applause, a possible embarrassment, just like Huang Bo a few words to resolve. ”
Who knew that a bigger discourse was difficult, and then it attacked Huang Bo.
When Zheng Yuling mentioned Cai Kangyong, the host of the Golden Horse Awards night, she said that although he was hosting alone, he did a very good job.
Huang Bo also immediately nodded and applauded in response, and the eyes of the audience were attracted by the three people on the stage, and all their eyes were focused on the warm atmosphere on the stage.
In the face of praise, Cai Tongyong first said two words of thanks and compliments, and then immediately turned his words around and said: "But Huang Bo, this is my home, not your home In fact, Huang Tangyong's words do not have a problem with Chongkangshui's district bag station Kai'an, he may mean that this Golden Horse Awards is hosted by him, naturally it is his home."
But the atmosphere at this moment, when the words are spoken, it is inevitable that there will be a certain lethality, even the many stars watching offstage seem to be caught off guard, and some people even look stunned, even the well-informed Uranus superstar table like Aaron Kwok and Andy Lau
The emotions all changed, showing a worried look, and secretly pinched a handful of sweat for Huang Bo.
Everyone here is very clean, and if you encounter such a difficulty, if you fight back too hard, you will offend people, and it will not be conducive to your own image.
But if nothing happens, or if the counterattack is weak and weak, it will appear very nested, and it will also be detrimental to its own image.
Moreover, Cai Gongyong has always been regarded as one of the most witty hosts, and Huang Bo can be regarded as having met a strong hand.
Just when everyone was still immersed in the problem given by Cai Kangyong, Huang Bo had already begun to deal with it, he first narrated and laughed, which made the scene not become too embarrassing, and then calmly and calmly followed zheng Yulin's words just now and smiled at Cai Gengyong
Say.
Actually, you are not a talent to fight, I just saw a horse with you.
Oops, it's been so long, I've only seen people riding horses and I haven't seen horses riding people. The stars in attendance were stunned for a second, then burst into deafening laughter and applause.
Andy Lau, Zhang Jiahui and Liu Jialing, who had just shown sympathy for Huang Bo, couldn't help but laugh at this moment, especially Andy Lau looked around while laughing, as if he was anxious to let everyone know how happy he was at the moment, and even Cai Kangyong himself laughed and clapped. Yeah, what a wonderful response, what a precise counterattack.
First of all, Huang Bo successfully started from the places he had talked about before, making the overall discourse atmosphere of the scene more coherent, and did not let people have the idea that he was creating a topic in order to fight back.
In the minds of the listeners, naturally there is no mustard left for him.
Secondly, the statement of the horse rider is very much in line with Cai Kangyong's previous image, which can immediately attract everyone's attention to him, and the topic of human riding and horse rider itself creates a laugh point.
Or to say that it constitutes a mechanism and there is no lack of humor, which is very suitable for such a cheerful occasion as the awards party, but also can make everyone laugh and win more favor for themselves.
The last and most important point is that Huang Bo cleverly used puns, with a horse rider to fight back against Cai Kangyong's difficulties, suddenly reversed the unfavorable situation for himself, but did not use the words to tear his face to directly hit back, so it played a corresponding effect at the same time, let the other party know that he is not a soft persimmon, but also left enough face for the other party, in short, win or lose, everyone will laugh once, seemingly calm, in fact, the words fighting for the opposite of merit have passed so cheerfully and quietly.
Therefore, in social communication, if you can tactfully deal with the difficulties of others, it is a kind of ability to do a lot, which reflects the maintenance of your own reputation and integrity, and is also related to personal quality and cultivation. It also involves the continuous construction of social relationships, which is very important to everyone.
Generally speaking, there are the following methods to deal with the difficulties of others can be referenced, the first turn a blind eye, as the name suggests, is as if nothing happens, it can be difficult as a floating cloud, this method is suitable for doing what you encounter the so-called difficulty is relatively small, and the other party is really unintentional, just because of personality, round environment, etc., to promote this situation, you can completely turn a blind eye, a slight smile on it. If not, it will seem that you have a small pattern and a small clip, don't you?
The second is to turn to the topic method, in many occasions, no matter what situations are encountered, including difficulties, if you can't deal with it in time, you can use this method to lead the topic to other places.
Around the corner, he diverted everyone's attention and avoided putting himself in a difficult situation. Although this is passive, at least it will not be impossible to get off the stage, and it is also a blessing in misfortune.
The third side-knock side attack method, in most cases, if you want to directly hit back at other people's difficulties, do not easily face the tip of the hard needle and sell the horse.
Therefore, you need to start from the side, quietly turn the situation around, and let the other party know that you are not as nested as he imagined. The so-called sneaking into the night with the wind, the moisturizer is silent.
The fourth method, self-deprecation method, if you and the other party do have a large difference in examples, such as you are stupid and tongue-catching, and he is clever in tongue,then it is best not to hit the stone with a pebble, you can follow the meaning of the other party to self-deprecating, in order to achieve the effect of retreating. This can not only show your generosity, but also avoid repeated defeats, or even defeats. The important thing is that self-deprecation itself will also make the other party realize that he is wrong, and in fact achieve the purpose of coping.
Fifth, the needle method is hidden in the cotton, when the inevitable malicious trickery strikes, you don't have to escape, you don't have to hide, you can completely face the battle head-on.
But considering the social needs, try to wrap your tough attitude with a soft coat, and minimize the harm caused to you by the other party. It also makes the other party realize that it is an incorrect social behavior to make it difficult for others.
In fact, in a variety of social situations, any situation may be encountered, there are many ways to deal with difficulties, and most of the time need a variety of methods to mix use, in order to solve the social problems. However, no matter how soft or hard the method is, the purpose is only to maintain the social relationship between good people, promote social harmony, and create a relaxed and warm social environment for everyone.
It is not necessary to mold yourself into an exceptionally tough and invincible jianghu master, otherwise, then you really have to seek defeat alone?
