Ni Ping's mother once taught Ni Ping: "Why haven't you let your nanny resign and go home?" She is 44 years old, it is difficult to conceive a child, you also let the family have a stomach to do housework, the neighbors look at it and gossip! Ni Ping said, "I let her continue to work for her own good!" ”
This nanny is called Matsuko, who works well and has been together for a long time, and Ni Ping also regards her as her own family.
That day, the babysitter said to her, "Sister, I have to resign with you, I am pregnant!" ”
Ni Ping was shocked: "Is it really fake?" All 44 years old, pregnant? ”
The babysitter said, "Really, I even brought the test form!" ”
Ni Ping didn't say a word, and let the nanny quickly lie down: "Lie down, raise the fetus well!" ”
A few days later, Ni Ping found a babysitter again and said to Matsuko, "This nanny is here to take care of you, you should raise a baby, and don't think about going home!" ”
Matsuko was stunned when she heard this, and quickly refused: "I am a nanny, sister, why do you still hire a nanny to take care of me?" This doesn't work! ”
Ni Ping said, "Okay, raise a baby!" Don't rush back, just stay at my house, I will open your salary of 4,000 a month, and a nanny to take care of you, close to the hospital, there is something immediately to give you the best doctor! ”
As a woman, Ni Ping knows that it is not easy for advanced-age mothers, and she thinks well:
Matsuko in her own home, there is a special nanny to take care of, eat pregnant women's meals every day, she wants to eat what the whole family follows, and can take money, the medical facilities in the city are also convenient, safe and stable to raise a fetus, how good.
Ni Ping knew that Songzi did not have her own child, she had been pregnant twice before, but she had not been able to keep it, and now that she was pregnant again, she also wanted to help Matsuko and take good care of her.
As for the neighbor's gossip, Ni Ping said that she and The pine nuts also discussed well: "After the dangerous period, you do some easy work, wipe the table and arrange flowers, and go back to buy two fruits or something, otherwise you will feel bad to hold these 4,000 pieces!" ”
But the neighbor just wants to chew his tongue, and Ni Ping doesn't care: "There are a total of two people in the family, two nannies, who serves whom!" Matsuko and I knew in our hearts that we wanted her to give birth to the baby safely! I'm just such a real person! ”
Unfortunately, in the end, Matsuko resigned and left.
Ni Ping's mother advised her: "You are kind, but you don't know, when a woman is pregnant, how good she eats and lives, the happiest thing is still around her husband, touching her head and pinching her feet, touching the baby in her belly, that is the most comfortable!" ”
Ni Ping thought, it also makes sense, she went to ask Matsuko: "Do you want to go home, your husband will touch your head and pinch your feet, or just stay here with me, and when you have a caesarean section, I will find you the best doctor?" ”
Matsuko and her husband made a phone call and eventually decided to go back to their hometown.
Later, Ni Ping has also been concerned about Matsuko's body, knowing that she finally gave birth to a boy of six pounds and four pairs, and sincerely rejoiced for her.
@ Gu and over As Ni Ping said, she is a particularly real person, good for the nanny, not the whole those virtual, what the nanny needs to get pregnant, she all arranges it properly.
She didn't want anything, in her own words: "She ran into me, I was good to her!" ”
Only like her, who is strong enough, will take helping others for granted, in her view, good to people, may just be a show of hands; But for the other party, it is inexhaustible.
What's even more admirable is that she's not the type of "I'm for your own good, you listen to me", and she respects Matsuko's idea.
Ni Ping's mother suggested that Matsuko might want to have her husband company, and she immediately asked Matsuko for advice and let her make her own choice.
People say, "Don't do to others what you don't want," but in fact, it is a higher cultivation to be able to do "do what you want, don't do to others."
Everyone's definition of "good" may be different, and what they think is good may be a burden in the eyes of the other party.
And Ni Ping respects Matsuko and lets her make the best choice she wants, which is a more gentle kindness.
*Reference: Super Interview, Live Out Your True Self: Ni Ping
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