In 2001, pregnant actress Nicole Kidman stared at the TV in shock – her husband announced he was divorcing her! And she didn't know it. In anger, a tingle came from her abdomen, and she collapsed in an instant: "Blood! My child, help..."
"Divorced" without warning, this extremely awkward woman can be described as the darkest moment in the life of Hollywood legend actress Nicole Kidman.
As the golden child of Hollywood, their union has made countless people envious, what exactly happened to Make Tom Cruise announce the end of their marriage in such a cruel way? In the face of abandonment, how should Nicole Kidman deal with it?
If you want to know too, please walk with me into today's story -
1990 was a lucky year for Nicole Kidman.
That year, she became the heroine of the movie "Thunder Ambition", which became a milestone in the beginning of her career.
It was also then that she met Tom Cruise.
A delicate and lovely, a mature and handsome.
Inside the play, they are compassionate, outside the play, they fall in love at first sight.
Their love is lingering and inseparable.
Nicole didn't even have time to think about it, and was intoxicated by Tom's gentle hometown, ignoring the fact that Tom had been divorced from his first wife for less than three months.
Tom was already a Hollywood superstar at the time, and Nicole was just a 22-year-old rising star.
When he proposed to her, she couldn't even find a reason to refuse, and yes, why did she refuse?
He would give her the best love and give her the happiness of a lifetime.
Nicole is convinced of this.
Therefore, after marriage, her only dream is to have more children and become Tom Cruise's best wife.
For this reason, even if she sacrifices her career, even if she has no name, she is willing to eat.
But the sky is not the limit.
The first time she became pregnant, she miscarried.
After that, I couldn't get pregnant.
Ten years of marriage, in order to prepare for pregnancy, she lost many excellent opportunities, the former star aura, has long been replaced by the role of "Tom's wife".
Marriage has become Nicole's biggest investment in life.
She was desperate, but she was also trapped by this—
"If something goes wrong in my marriage, I'm going to break down because I love him so much."
Later, Nicole adopted two children and worked hard to keep the family whole.
She did her best to be a qualified wife, obeying her husband's wishes—
She was taller than him, so, for him, she didn't wear high heels for ten years;
Respecting his faith, she was not allowed to take medicine when she was sick, and she endured it.
She thought she would touch him and be the only one for him.
However, Nicole was too young at the time.
She didn't know that no amount of chips could stop the change of people's hearts.
When Nicole and Tom are in their 7th year of marriage, some things are quietly changing -
In 2001, Nicole took over the filming of Moulin Rouge, and during the filming, she broke her ribs, suffered a serious knee injury, and could hardly move.
She struggled to support herself, and finally survived to the end, and the severe sequelae forced her to announce the end of the shadow.
However, in her toughest moments, Tom Cruise was interviewed and said he had proposed to break up with Nicole.
For a moment, Nicole thundered five times.
She didn't know the news of Tom's move, and she didn't know that she was "divorced"!
He hurt his foot, lost his job, and his husband was gone.
At this time, her stomach was still pregnant with their child.
The child she had been looking forward to for ten years!
What was most difficult for her to accept was that shortly after announcing her divorce, Tom found a new girlfriend.
Everything Nicole had cherished was gone overnight.
For three whole months, she curled up at home, afraid to go out, afraid to face, a marriage that almost cost her life.
But until this time, to Tom, she still loved—
It wasn't until "Moulin Rouge" earned her an Oscar nomination for Best Actress that she was the first to dial Tom's number.
How she wished to share the glory with him.
However, all she got was indifference.
At that moment, her heart was broken, and in tears, she understood—
How can a person who has lost even self-love gain the respect of others?
From then on, she wanted to live for herself—
In 2002, she starred in the movie "All the Time", and her superb acting skills made her long-cherished wish come true, and she was sealed in one fell swoop.
"The divorce destroyed my life, but I won it back on my own."
She finally left Tom's shadow and stepped onto the stage of her dreams under the name "Nicole Kidman".
She no longer bears the disgust and disdain of men.
With their own strength, they have proved the value of their own existence, and also given themselves the courage to pursue life and pursue love.
Five years later, Nicole met the famous Australian country singer, Keith Urban.
A man who can write songs for her, quit gambling for her, and walk side by side with her.
She no longer has to aggrieved herself, does not have to pretend to be strong, and does not have to give up her career.
She can be a wife, she can be a mother, but she is always herself.
She has always been active in front of the screen and continues to do great works.
The regrets of the past, in this marriage, have finally been realized -
In life, there are many girls like Nicole.
She is a good woman, a good wife, a good mother, who will give her life to meet the expectations of all people, but only forget to love herself.
When the marriage suddenly changes, they can't accept it, complain about the world, and are in pain.
But they forget that you don't have to aggrieved yourself to the other person's preferences, you can dig your heart and lungs to love a person, but you can't lose yourself because of a person.
Sophie Marceau once said:
"The saddest thing about a woman is not getting old, but losing herself in marriage and in an ordinary life. Women can age, but they must be graceful to death, and marriage cannot be allowed to wear women out of luster. ”
A lifetime is long, don't tie yourself to a man.
After all, losing a marriage does not mean losing a life, and there are many things worth doing in life.
Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifetime of romance, isn't it?
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