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I immigrated to Canada in the 90s, married a French wife, had four babies, and struggled for 20 years not to lie flat

author:Xiao Han was a monk

Narrator: Zou Ping

Finishing: Mr. Xiao Han

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My name is Zou Ping, a native of Shaanxi, Canada, and I am 63 years old. At the end of the 90s, I immigrated to Canada after divorcing my ex-wife, started my own business in Canada, and also married a French wife here, Minsa, who bore me four children, even though I was already old, I still did not dare to slack off, after all, the children were not completely independent, and I needed to do something for them.

In fact, when I was in China, I was also an excellent talent, working in the system for 6 years, doing business for several years, and becoming one of the first ordinary people to become rich, but with the breakdown of my relationship with my ex-wife, I was once overwhelmed by the blow, so I simply immigrated to Cananda at the suggestion of my friends.

I immigrated to Canada in the 90s, married a French wife, had four babies, and struggled for 20 years not to lie flat

After living in Canada for 23 years, having his own real estate company and doing a Chinese restaurant, he had a relatively good life and a good relationship with his French wife Minsha. Now that I am older, the only thing I can't let go of is the life of four children and the future work. After all, we Chinese will work for our children all our lives.

In 1963, I was born in a family of civil servants in Xi'an, Shaanxi Province, my father was a former soldier, and I spent the rest of my life within the system. Our family is more populous, with five children, and I am the third child in the family and the most cultured.

When I was a child, I showed unusual talents than other older siblings, younger siblings, active and good at expressing my thoughts, but in that era, more words were not necessarily a good thing, so my parents often locked me in a room and couldn't go anywhere. Sometimes my brother thinks that I am too depressed, he will secretly open the door and let me out, and I am happy to let go of myself, my brother is not so smooth, and will be pressed on the bench by my father and whipped with a leather whip.

I immigrated to Canada in the 90s, married a French wife, had four babies, and struggled for 20 years not to lie flat

My brother is very strong, never shouts pain, and sometimes feels that my brother is too painful for me, and I have slowly converged a lot. As I grew older, my academic performance got better and better, and since junior high school, I have been in the top few places in the school, and I am also the most likely to be admitted to college.

Speaking of college, it is not easy for us to enter the university at that age, there are not so many private colleges and universities now, and the choice of schools and majors is relatively single, basically it is a hammer to buy and sell, determine which is which, can not be admitted to the only work.

In fact, I am fine, even if I can't go to college, the job is guaranteed, after all, the son inherited his father's business in that era was allowed, such as my brother, who worked in the Oriental Factory for a lifetime, and now retired, also lives a very comfortable life.

I immigrated to Canada in the 90s, married a French wife, had four babies, and struggled for 20 years not to lie flat

When I was a child, I didn't like to live at home very much, because my parents were strict, and my grandparents were different and very good to me, and the oil noodles made by my grandmother were very delicious, and I had to eat a bowl of oil noodles almost every day. Grandma's house was in the suburbs and could play unbridled.

At that time, I liked to sing, especially the folk songs of northern Shaanxi, living in the city, if I sang, I would be reprimanded by the neighbors left and right, so I was a lot more comfortable in the countryside, and I did what I wanted, and the people in the village not only did not say me, but praised me for singing well.

Because of my good academic performance, I entered Xi'an Middle School in 1978, and throughout my high school years, I was very nervous, probably because I had a good face and was afraid of losing people to my father. In the past, I was too willful and did not like to study, but when I got to high school, I wanted to go to college, after all, it was a very good thing to be admitted to college in the 80s.

I immigrated to Canada in the 90s, married a French wife, had four babies, and struggled for 20 years not to lie flat

Through three years of hard work, I was admitted to Xi'an Polytechnic University as I wished (I was called Xi'an Textile Institute of Technology at that time), I was also the only child in the whole street who was admitted to college, many people went to my home to bless my parents, it seems that I can be admitted to my parents, it is the credit of my parents, and I feel a little lost in my heart.

In any case, it was a good thing to be admitted to college, and I went through college smoothly and smoothly and participated in the work.

My ex-wife and I are colleagues, and my father and father know each other, at that age, as long as we participate in work, our parents will arrange blind dates, while my ex-wife and I are in free love, and we got married after talking for a year.

I always feel that people in our era were psychologically mature earlier than today's children, and when they became fathers at the age of 24, they felt a lot of pressure, even if we were dual-career workers, we could think of sons, and we still felt the need to struggle if we wanted to marry our daughter-in-law and buy a house in the future.

I immigrated to Canada in the 90s, married a French wife, had four babies, and struggled for 20 years not to lie flat

The ex-wife and I had a good relationship at first, but with the development of the times, many friends around me made money doing business, and the ex-wife felt that I was incompetent, and every day when I came home, I was faced with a person who chattered and counted me, and slowly hit the enthusiasm, frequent quarrels, and finally made our marriage falter.

In 1991, I divorced my ex-wife, so I left the system and started a clothing wholesale business, and in 1993, I had a big brother, which was the representative of the rich at that time. The times create heroes, I can also catch up with a good era, in just a few years, I have made a lot of money, but when facing life, I can't be happy.

I immigrated to Canada in the 90s, married a French wife, had four babies, and struggled for 20 years not to lie flat

In the late 1990s, many people emigrated abroad, and a few friends wanted me to change my environment and start my own life.

After careful consideration, I immigrated to Canada. Indeed, in that era, Canada was more convenient in all aspects, after going, still doing their own business, but also in the second year of going to Canada married a French woman who came to Canada to travel, she was ten years younger than me, although the language barrier, but each other are trying to adapt.

I immigrated to Canada in the 90s, married a French wife, had four babies, and struggled for 20 years not to lie flat

After marriage, my French wife Minsa gave birth to four children for me, and I had a completely new life, working hard for more than twenty years, the children gradually grew up, but never dared to relax, after all, there are many children, the future days are still long, can not drag the children.

As for many people who have said that they will live a lying flat life at the age of 60, I have never thought about it, after all, strength does not allow it.

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