In 2007, a popular TV series "Struggle" set off a wave of urban inspiration.
It can be said that the fire of "Struggle" is completely expected.
It is true that young people in the new era need to find this kind of thing that strives for youth.
The success of this drama has almost overnight attracted several actors.
Article, Tong Dawei, Li Xiaolu, Ma Yili, Zhu Yuchen, etc.
The previous few have experienced obscurity to fame, and now have a different life.
On the contrary, Zhu Yuchen seems to have faded out of everyone's sight for so many years.
What the hell happened to him?
01
This also needs to be said to return to the feelings of Zhu Yuchen and Tang Wei.
At the age of 19, Zhu Yuchen took the exam of Chinese opera, and it was in the examination room that he met Tang Wei, who made his heart move.
That encounter always left a very deep impression on Zhu Yuchen.
Then they met again, this time the two said hello.
Since then, the two have known each other.
With the time spent together, Zhu Yuchen and Tang Wei came together and began a simple relationship.
But when the results of the exam came out, they were very surprised.
Zhu Yuchen was admitted, but Tang Wei fell off the list.
Tang Wei decided to repeat the study, and Zhu Yuchen rented a 300 yuan rental house in Beijing and began to live with Tang Wei.
02
Three years have passed, but their feelings have become more and more cold, and even contradictions have emerged.
After breaking up with Tang Wei, Zhu Yuchen and Jiang Yan came together again.
Surprisingly, it didn't go any further in the end.
Being able to win the favor of two goddesses at the same time is a very rare thing.
I have not heard that Zhu Yuchen has any "scumbag" behavior, why is it difficult to come together in the end?
There is a key person in the middle, that is, Zhu Yuchen's mother.
03
When Zhu Yuchen and Tang Wei were in contact, his mother did not intervene.
But from childhood to adulthood, zhu Yuchen's life affairs are basically handled by her mother.
From eating and wearing to life planning in the future, there is a standard in the mother's heart.
It is probably this standard that makes Zhu Yuchen's heart form a certain dependence.
Although he wants to resist, decades of psychological dependence are not something you can get rid of if you want to get rid of it.
In this way, when Zhu Yuchen came to the house with Tang Wei.
Zhu Yuchen's mother immediately rejected the son's girlfriend because she was dressed inappropriately.
In her thinking, she is still more conservative.
In addition to dressing, after marriage, it is also a concept within the male and female protagonists.
04
Of course, maybe it wasn't the mother who just let them break up.
But her words played a key role, and the breakup of Zhu Yuchen and Tang Wei can be said to be her indirect "separation".
Even the subsequent interaction with Jiang Yan was more or less because of the interference of Zhu Yuchen's mother, and the two broke up.
It's emotional, but what about life?
05
Mother Zhu almost became a nanny for the sake of her son.
She has a habit she has adhered to for 10 years, that is, to get up at 4 a.m. every day to boil rock candy sydney pears for her son.
In addition to this matter, including the bits and pieces of life, the mother is personally involved.
Everyone knows that this is love, but this is enough to destroy a person's "coddling".
Once, when Zhu Yuchen was having dinner with friends, he didn't know if he drank a little too much.
After his friend left, Zhu Yuchen suddenly began to cry bitterly.
Looking at the figure of him sobbing on the table, the mother off the camera could not help but cry.
At that moment, she finally knew that her "love" really "hurt" her son.
epilogue
Parents in the world love their children.
But if you really love, you should let them fly on their own.
Otherwise, you will only lose the ability to fly forever.
Do you agree?
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