In "Know It or Not", although the sheng family's official rank is not high, but there is the guidance of the only daughter of the Yongyi Earl's Palace, Mrs. Sheng, and the family of Wang Ruofu, the eldest daughter of the Sheng family, although sheng is moderate, it is also a cautious and enterprising character, and the Sheng family is also smooth and smooth, and the career is stable and smooth.
Sheng Hong had a wife and two concubines, the eldest lady Wang Ruofu, Lin Xiaoniang Lin Xiaoshuang, and Minglan's mother Wei Xiaoniang.
It is often said that things have priorities and people have priorities. The old saying also has "marry a wife and marry a sage, and take a concubine".
In that era, it was said that the weight of people should be based on the wealth of the mother's family, or on the talent and virtuousness.
On honor, there is the king Ruofu.
On the basis of talent, although Wei Xiaoniang only appeared in two episodes, her daughter Minglan made Sheng Hong look at her whether it was throwing pots or "knowing things and knowing good and evil".
The gentleman's six arts, shooting for its fifth, can raise such an excellent daughter of Wei Xiaoniang, Sheng Hong also perceives that she is full of talent.
And Lin Xiaoniang and Sheng Hong, although there is some taste of free love, the two can also sing poetry and dance ink, and later made various mistakes, Lin Xiaoshuang was driven out of the Sheng family, and finally killed by Sheng Hong.
Later, Lin Wanshuang's daughter Mo Lan interceded for the little bride, asking her father to add incense to Lin Jiaoshuang, and Sheng Hong's eyes were tearful, but he still agreed.
Throughout the play, it can be seen that Sheng Hong's wife has virtue but few sages, and concubines have both merit and color.
Then, why can Lin Yanshuang "occupy the first place" in Sheng Hong's heart?
First of all, let's talk about the big lady Wang Ruofu, the mother's family has strength and background, it is a low marriage, three media and six hired big women, but the temper is really hot.
Wang Ruofu acted rashly, recklessly, often ignoring his head and tail, and was used by people with ulterior motives.
As the old lady of the Sheng family said: "This big lady of our family lived too well when she was a child, so that she did not know how to tolerate weakness and would not balance and coercion." Over the years, it was only by Lin Xiaoniang that she took advantage of her."
Despite this, but for Wang Ruofu, whether it is the eldest daughter Hua Lan, the second son Changbai, or the fifth daughter Rulan, the children's pure nature is inseparable from her earnest teachings, the marriage is considered to be happy, and the son has a smooth career.
Therefore, her position as the grand lady of the family is stable and unstoppable, and she is not shaken by anyone.
Wang Ruofu is a person in temperament, dashing and wanton, sometimes "dashing", more leaking out of the feeling of "elegance".
That's why I like her, there are so many shrewd calculations in life, and seeing her always smiles and is as easy as promised.
She loves her children and also shows her vividly, treating other children of the Sheng family, never pretending to be vain, like and hate, all written on her face.
What Wang Ruofu lacked most in his treatment of his husband was tenderness and patience.
She disdained mannerism, even if she asked for Sheng Hong, it was only a good face for three minutes, and if Sheng Hong insisted on not changing her original intention, Wang Ruofu would find it difficult to hide her impatient personality.
Therefore, the husband and wife are not on the same channel at all, which is what is now called the three views of discord.
But Wang Ruofu is wholeheartedly for the Sheng family, for the husband, managing the backyard is also a good hand, small things Ma Daha, when encountering big things, good nature, with daughters to help each other, knowledgeable and courteous.
Wei Xiaoniang, on the other hand, was sick and needed money, so she came to the Sheng family to exchange money.
Wei Xiaoniang is a child of a family of readers, who has heard about it since childhood, and is also a serious person who has taken great pains to educate and grow up.
She is in the Sheng family, cautious and cautious, and she is a person who strives for survival in the cracks.
Wei Xiaoniang is intelligent, and her integrity and heart cannot be underestimated.
She knew that Wang Ruofu had his mother's family as a patron and was honored. Lin Qiao Cream has a lot of pampering and is decent.
And she was just a pawn who was pulled to balance Lin Yanshuang, so Wei Xiaoniang was stoic and did not want to be with anyone, but only wanted to live a calm life.
She didn't like Sheng Hong, and she wouldn't be happy, so when Sheng Hong went to see her and praised her talent, she brushed it over, without explanation, and was afraid that Minglan's mouth would be unobstructed and destroy the peace, and Wei Xiaoniang would persuade Sheng Hong to go to another house.
Wei Xiaoniang is not cowardly, when she saved Fluttershy, her look and posture have everyone's demeanor.
She knew how to admit her fate, and when she saw that she could not turn things around, she knelt down and begged Sheng Hong, and also moved the old lady and the big girl in.
In the end, Wei Xiaoniang successfully saved Fluttershy.
She loves her daughter, knows how to think deeply about her daughter, and she knows that only by following the old lady can her daughter have a better way out.
She has both moral integrity and ability, is well versed in the world, and has said to Minglan: "The big sister hurts you, and you hurt her, which is very good." Some things are the pain of the skin for her, and for you, the pain of bone and blood. ”
Little Minglan was not deeply aware, but here it was seen that Wei Xiaoniang was a wise and resourceful woman.
Before Wei Xiaoniang died of difficult childbirth, she also taught Minglan: Put away the sharp edge, live the biggest, and know how to be grateful.
It can be seen that Wei Xiaoniang is a woman who is restrained and sharp, and she has her own high, even if she is alive, in the Sheng family, she is still not favored.
Because she doesn't care to fight, and she doesn't want to fight, this is a kind of self-preservation.
She is transparent, asks for less, and desires less.
Since women cannot be loyal to the king and love the country, and live wantonly and freely, it is a simple and pure life.
In her life, living in peace and quiet is already a quiet life, just as "walking to the end of the water, sitting and watching the clouds rise" is indifferent.
What about Lin Xi Cream?
Lin Jiaoshuang is a weak-looking, scheming, good at impressing others with tears and words to achieve his own goals, wanting to compete for the top spot in everything, and fighting with Wang Ruofu in the inner mansion for several years without falling behind.
Women who can be favored all year round are not simple. Moreover, she was also a lady before, the family was copied, she was sold as a slave, and she came to the Sheng family after entrusting her relationship.
After studying with Mrs. Sheng for a few years, she was familiar with Sheng Hong's lineage, soft-hearted, easy to grasp, and met Wang Ruofu, a housewife with insufficient heart, although she was a concubine in the Sheng family, she lived a more beautiful life than the eldest lady.
What's so special about her?
Haruki Murakami has a saying: What many people in the world need is not practical advice, but warm echoes.
Lin Jiaoshuang is exactly such a person who knows how to echo it.
She saw Sheng Hong accurately, and she also felt through Sheng Hong's disposition.
On the surface, Lin Yanshuang looks at Sheng Hong, looks at the sky with the ground, and looks at the moon with the stars.
She always shows Sheng Hong's success, whether it is hypocrisy or flattery, and these, for Sheng Hong, highlight his confidence as a man, which is very useful.