Wen 丨 虞白
Editor 丨 賴賴爷
"Obviously, I'm sorry, let's get a divorce, I'm in love with someone else."
When Yingning whispered these words, he did not dare to look into Zhao Mingming's eyes.
He knew that he had done something wrong.
However, he could not cheat on his wife.
Zhao Mingming looked at his daughter in his arms with beauty.
Newborn baby, with crumpled skin, eyes that have not yet been opened, thick hair, looks a lot like Dad.
Zhao Mingming suddenly heard her husband Yingning say that he wanted to divorce, and he did not react at once.
Thinking she had heard it wrong, she asked, "What did you just say?" ”
"I'm sorry, I'm in love with someone else, let's get a divorce." Yingning looked up at Zhao Mingming, his face full of guilt.
Zhao Mingming's tears flowed down, and she asked, "How long has it been, you guys?" ”
"It's been more than a year."
"Okay, I agree." Zhao Mingming wiped away his tears and hugged his daughter tightly.
As a northeastern girl, she can afford to take it and put it down.
Just after giving birth to a daughter, still in the month, she was divorced, and the fates of Zhao Mingming and his sister-in-law Song Dandan were so similar.
However, their endings are very different.
Perhaps, many people do not know who Zhao Mingming is.
She was once the most beautiful costumed beauty, and the Zhao Feiyan she played was considered the most classic.
What kind of life story does she have?
Let's take a look.
1
Zhao Mingming was born in 1970 in Shenyang, Liaoning Province.
His father worked at a magazine and his mother was a doctor.
She has two older sisters, the youngest daughter in the family, and the most beautiful.
Zhao Mingming also knew his own advantages.
Because she was often praised for being beautiful, she was very proud.
When she was in elementary school, she looked down on her female classmates who looked uglier than her and gave people nicknames.
He even bullied others.
When the bullied classmates found the house and her father asked her why she bullied others, Zhao Mingming held her head high and replied loudly: "Because I look beautiful." ”
Usually very fond of her, never scolded her father, after hearing this answer, frowned, very angry said: "What is so great about you looking beautiful, can you bully others if you are beautiful?" The beauty of the heart is more beautiful than the beauty of the exterior. ”
Seeing that Zhao Mingming was still unconvinced, her father continued to say to her: "According to your theory, you can bully others if you are beautiful, so is it not possible that people who are more beautiful than you can bully you?" Can you guarantee that you will always be beautiful?"
Hearing this, Zhao Mingming lowered his head in embarrassment.
She apologized to the bullied classmates and promised her father that she would never bully others again and would get along with her classmates in the future.
In television, when Zhao Mingming saw the film and television works of actor Gong Li, he liked it very much and became a loyal fan of Gong Li, often secretly practicing Gong Li's lines.
Under the guidance of her idols, Zhao Mingming also has a clear plan for her future, and she wants to be an actor when she grows up.
When Zhao Mingming told his father about the idea of wanting to be an actor, the enlightened father did not object, and he respected Zhao Mingming's opinion.
However, he said: "Being an actor is not an easy thing, first of all, you have to improve your academic performance, in addition, you have to learn dance, song, more talent, just by good looks, you can't be a good actor." ”
Zhao Mingming said that she was not afraid of hardship.
So her father enrolled her in dance and piano tutoring classes.
Every day after school, she would go to study and train, and the wind and rain would never stop.
For the sake of the actor's dream, she can eat any bitterness.
Kung Fu pays off.
In 1988, 18-year-old Zhao Mingming took the college entrance examination and was successfully admitted to the jilin art college.
Because of his beauty, Zhao Mingming has many suitors.
The boys who liked her, in order to get a chance to get close to her, did not hesitate to invite her to dinner with her dorm classmates and let them help create opportunities to meet and pass on love letters.
No matter how good the boy who pursued her was, Zhao Mingming ignored it.
Because, she has secretly fallen in love with a boy, that is, Yingning.
2
Yingning is two years older than Zhao Mingming, tall and handsome, and her family background is also quite good.
His family is an artistic family, and his grandfather was once one of the founders of the Ta Kung Pao.
His father, Yingruozhi, graduated from the Central Academy of Fine Arts and taught at the Jilin Academy of Arts.
Moreover, he also has two cousins, Yingda and Yingzhuang, who are also very talented.
Growing up in such an environment, Yingning naturally attracted girls more than other boys.
Therefore, there are also many girls who write love letters to him or secretly send Qiu Bo.
In fact, Yingning also secretly liked Zhao Mingming.
However, seeing so many boys pursuing Zhao Mingming, Yingning was a little unconfident and ashamed to confess.
Men chasing women, next to the mountain; Women chase men, compartment paper.
Zhao Mingming took a brave step first, and she was also worried that if she didn't pick it out, Yingning would be snatched away by other girls.
One day, after Zhao Mingming and Yingning finished rehearsing the show, she stopped Yingning and said, "Can you do me a favor?" ”
"What's the rush? You say it anyway. Yingning said.
Seeing that Yingning had agreed to be so happy, Zhao Mingming smiled slightly and said softly: "Many boys pursue me, but I don't like them, you... Can you stop me? ”
"Block it? How to block? Did you tell me to beat them up? YingNing did not react for a moment and asked with a frown.
"Fool, who told you to fight?" Zhao Mingming replied shyly.
Yingning couldn't believe his ears.
He was stunned, immediately understood, and said: "I understand, let me be your boyfriend." I agree, but I'm going to be a real boyfriend. ”
Zhao Mingming blushed and nodded.
Because the school has a rule, students are not allowed to fall in love.
Zhao Mingming and Yingning engaged in an underground romance.
However, he was still reported to the teacher by the jealous classmates.
When the teacher asked them if they were in love, Zhao Mingming and Yingning generously admitted, and said that no one could break them up and get married after graduation.
The teacher really had no choice but to call the parents of both sides to come over, but it still didn't work.
Parents on both sides are very open-minded and do not interfere too much.
Therefore, Zhao Mingming and Yingning are happily in love and planning a better future.
During his college years, because of his outstanding appearance, Zhao Mingming took over three film and television works, namely: "Iron Man", "Love Rhyme" and "Iron Blood Heroes".
However, the audience response was flat, and Zhao Mingming did not catch fire.
In 1992, Zhao Mingming ushered in her highlight moment.
Director Pan Xia was devastated by the heroine of "Women Are Not the Moon".
There are so many actresses interviewed, none of them are suitable.
At this time, a friend recommended Zhao Mingming to her.
When she saw Zhao Mingming's photo, she didn't feel her eyes light up, and immediately agreed to let her audition.
When Zhao Mingming stood in front of him, director Pan Xia closed her mouth happily: "It's her, she is exactly the same as I imagined." ”
For the needs of the plot, the filming process is basically plain.
However, Zhao Mingming is born beautiful, in fact, he does not need cosmetics to embellish at all.
A face that is naturally carved and decorated is so beautiful under close-ups, without a single flaw.
After "Woman Is Not the Moon" was broadcast in a central set of programs, the alleys were empty.
Some people say that when the TV series was broadcast, the people of the whole country were watching the buckle, and even the dogs in the village did not bark.
Zhao Mingming's fire spread all over the country and became a hot star.
In the same year, Zhao Mingming and Yingning graduated.
They also fulfilled their vows.
On the sixth day after graduation, the two lovers took the household registration book and went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to register their marriage.
Sentient drinking water is full.
There was no marriage room, no car, no wedding, and they got married.
Lovers eventually become dependents, and the gods and immortals are envious.
After marriage, Zhao Mingming and Yingning joined hands to develop in Beijing.
What about life in Beijing for the couple?
3
When they first arrived in Beijing, Zhao Mingming and Yingning lived in a dilapidated coal shed.
It was ventilated on all sides, there was not even a piece of glass on the windows, and there were no water pipes in the kitchen.
However, the two young people are happy every day and do not feel bitter at all.
Yingning works as Zhao Mingming's assistant and agent, using all resources to find opportunities for her to participate in the performance and advertising endorsement.
In 1993, Yingning and Yingda cooperated and began to prepare for the TV series "I Love My Home".
Every miller draws water to his own mill.
At that time, Yingda was already married to Song Dandan.
Therefore, Yingning and Yingda's respective daughters-in-law play an important role in the play.
Song Dandan plays the eldest daughter-in-law of the Jia family, Heping, and Zhao Mingming plays the daughter of the Jia family, Jia Xiaofan, a beautiful college student.
As soon as "I Love My Home" was broadcast, there was a fire.
However, it is precisely because of this drama that Yingda and Liang Huan have a good feeling for each other.
After that, Yingda filed for divorce from Song Dandan, and even ignored his son Inbatu and did not fulfill his responsibilities as a father.
At that time, Zhao Mingming was still secretly fighting for Song Dandan.
But what she never expected was that in a few years, she would also have the same experience of being abandoned as Song Dandan.
With the increase of income, Zhao Mingming and Yingning's living conditions in Beijing gradually improved.
In 1994, Zhao Mingming and Yingning moved to a semi-basement near Donghua Gate.
Although the house was only half on the ground, however, they were huddled together and felt very warm.
A few months later, Zhao Mingming and Yingning moved into a building near Xizhimen.
With separate bathroom and kitchen, life is getting better and better.
They are content.
One day in 1996, Zhao Mingming and Yingning were studying the script at home, when Zhao Mingming received a phone call saying that there was a play called "Han Palace Feiyan" that asked her to audition.
Hearing that he wanted to play Zhao Feiyan, Zhao Mingming was a little hesitant.
A director told her before that she was only suitable for playing a good family woman, not a bad woman and a comedy.
Therefore, she did not know whether she could play this role well, and she was particularly unconfident.
At this time, Yingning encouraged her: "As an actor, you must break through the limitations, and all kinds of roles must be tried, so that there will be progress and a wide play path." I'm bullish on you, you're the best. ”
Hearing her husband's encouragement, Zhao Mingming decided to go to the audition.
Unexpectedly, both the director and the investor thought that she was the most suitable actor.
However, it is required that she must lose weight.
Because, Zhao Feiyan could stand on the emperor's palm and dance.
Before and during filming, Zhao Mingming was losing weight all the time.
At that time, she was 1.67 meters tall and weighed only 83 pounds.
Every day, she spent her days in hunger.
Moreover, there are also many shots of dance.
Several times, she almost fainted on the set.
Once "Han Palace Flying Swallow" was broadcast, it was also a fire.
The audience called Zhao Mingming "the most beautiful Zhao Feiyan" and said that she was the first beautiful woman in ancient costumes.
However, Zhao Mingming said that she did not like the role because the feeling of hunger and not being able to eat enough was too painful.
As Zhao Mingming's fame grew, he spent more and more time filming.
Even during the Spring Festival, Zhao Mingming could not accompany Yingning back to the northeast.
Moreover, as the gap between the fame of the two people became wider and wider, some people sarcastically said that Yingning was a soft rice eater and a small white face.
Therefore, the young and vigorous Yingning began to have a small emotion, and the husband and wife also began to quarrel.
After Zhao Mingming realized the problem of estrangement between husband and wife, he consciously changed himself and tried to take time as much as possible to increase the opportunity to accompany her husband.
And, because of their age, they decided to have a baby.
In 1998, Zhao Mingming became pregnant.
When she told Yingning the good news for the first time, Yingning did not show surprise at being a father, and even frowned.
Zhao Mingming didn't care too much at that time.
During pregnancy, Zhao Mingming was at ease raising a fetus at home.
Yingning went out more and more time, often coming home late.
Every time Zhao Mingming asked him what he was busy with, why didn't he spend more time with himself at home.
Yingning always replied impatiently: "I don't go out to earn money, how will I raise children in the future?" ”
Listening to him say this, Zhao Mingming couldn't blame him anymore.
In October, she was pregnant and gave birth to a daughter.
However, Zhao Mingming, who likes to be a mother, is not waiting for her husband's hug and care, but Yingning's desperate divorce.
That's the scene at the beginning of this article.
Perhaps, Zhao Mingming began to perceive it during pregnancy, but she couldn't believe that this was the truth.
Zhao Mingming knew that Yingning's heart had already left him and was irretrievable.
So a few days later, she signed the divorce agreement.
Since then, the two have parted ways.
A good first love may not be able to stay together for a lifetime.
After the divorce, Zhao Mingming completely withdrew from the film and television circle, and has not remarried so far, and has always been single.
In order to let her daughter grow up healthy and happy, she never said that Yingning was not good in front of her daughter.
Moreover, father and daughter can see each other at any time, and she never stops them.
Therefore, the daughter is lively and cute, has a sunny and cheerful personality, and it is impossible to see that she is a child who grew up in a single-parent family.
Also divorced, abandoned, once concubine Song Dandan, lived a completely different life from Zhao Mingming.
Abandoned, not abandoned.
Six months after divorcing Yingda, song Dandan met Zhao Yuji, a businessman who was seven years older than her, through the introduction of friends, and 28 days later, the two flashed marriage.
Song Dandan was spoiled like a little princess.
Although they have been married for more than 20 years, the two people still walk with ten fingers together, kiss me and me, and envy others.
Moreover, Song Dandan has been active in the film and television stage, and the road to acting is also smooth.
Years have not spared anyone, and Zhao Mingming, who is now 52 years old, has lost his former style.
Because she has been out of show business for too long, many young people don't know her.
In 2016, when the crew of "I Love My Home" reunited, even Yang Lixin, who played Jia Zhiguo, saw Zhao Mingming and did not recognize who she was.
It can be said that in addition to Zhao Mingming, the actors of "I Love My Home" are all on fire.
Zhao Mingming said that fame and fortune are not the goals she pursues, and loving life and living happily is her belief in life.
Some people said she was stupid, she said: "Self-interest, but not to hurt others." ”
Be happy, your own life is your own decision.