Liti Zhong: "I dare say that I have given my heart to every marriage. The first two paragraphs did not get a good ending, not that I did not deserve it, but the somewhat cheesy sentence: 'I didn't meet the right person...'"
In 1994, Zhong Liti, who had just debuted, played with Zheng Yijian and Jin Chengwu and starred in "Little Beauty" in "The Legend of the Mermaid".
The pure and rambling little mermaid incarnated as an elf and sprinkled white moonlight on the hearts of countless people.
There was a pure and lustful face, smiling with a charming danger.
Zhong Liti, who has maintained the reputation of "sexy goddess" for 30 years, is full of twists and turns emotionally.
To give birth to a woman who has known a man for a month; She conceived two daughters with her second husband but fell in love with the itch for seven years.
Almost thinking that she did not deserve to be loved, the 12-year-old type man Zhang Lunshuo squeezed in.
Maybe it really responds to the phrase "the right person does the right thing."
"I'm a round older than you and have children, can you and your family really accept me?"
In order not to worry his lover, 34-year-old Zhang Lunshou immediately went home to "get" his parents.
Then she married 46-year-old Zhong Liti and took over the "father" status of her three daughters.
"I really want to have you a baby..."
" I already have three children, don't I?" ”
Zhong Liti never expected that she, who was born in Canada, would completely fall in love with a city because of a person.
"I am Zhong Liti, the daughter-in-law of Qingdao!" After three marriages, Zhong Liti has been introducing herself like this...
01 Debut is the peak
Zhong Liti, a mixed-Race Chinese-Vietnamese woman, was born in Montreal, Canada's second-largest city, in 1970.
He went to school and graduated from the Department of Business Marketing at the University of Quebec.
Instead of becoming a business person, she came to Hong Kong in 1993.
Step out of the winning track of the "Miss Chinese International" pageant.
Debut is the peak, the first play is with Leung Ka Fai, Andy Lau two superstars cooperation "Supreme Thirty-Six Plans to Steal the Day".
The 23-year-old Zhong Liti became one of the objects of Jia Ling's "jealousy".
Because in this drama, she played the girlfriend of Jia Ling's idol Andy Lau, "Lily".
Then appeared in "The Legend of the White-Haired Witch 2" starring Lin Qingxia, Chen Jinhong and Zhang Guorong.
Although in it she only played a supporting role like the Kunlun Sect disciple "Ling Yue'er".
But because of its touching smile, it was remembered by the audience.
Between 1994 and 1997, it was the peak of Zhong Liti's career development.
Because of a lost pearl, the mermaid "Xiaomei" and "Teacher Zhou" began a fantastic love story.
"The Legend of the Mermaid" made "Little Beauty" Zhong Liti from the domestic fire to Southeast Asia.
Domestic people call her "The Most Beautiful Mermaid", and the Singapore and Malaysia region calls her "Sexy Jade Girl".
What follows is even more out of control.
Participated in "Nine Pin Sesame Officer's White Bread Blue Sky", "The King of Destruction", "Pearlescent Treasure", "97 Family Happy Events", "Kung Fu Kid Breaks through", "Tiger And Mighty Dragon" and other movies.
Zhong Liti has cooperated with Zhou Xingchi, Wu Mengda, Zhang Min, Wu Qianlian, Jet Li, He Jiajin and other big coffees almost all over again.
And many cooperation with Zhou Xingchi have made Zhong Liti have a love affair for "Xingye".
At that time, Stephen Chow was agonizing over three failed applications to immigrate to Canada.
Zhong Liti took the initiative to contact after knowing and said: "If you want to have a Canadian passport, you can marry me, so simple." ”
But she didn't know that Zhou Xingchi wanted to immigrate because of Zhu Yin.
02 There are many contradictions behind flash marriage
Without getting a response from Zhou Xingchi, Zhong Liti could only digest this love affair on her own.
It wasn't until 1998 that she found her self-conceived home.
Glen Ross is a romantic Belgian whose handsome appearance and gentle personality keep Liti Chung in the net.
The two had only known each other for a month and then received a low-key license, and not long after the marriage, 28-year-old Zhong Liti became pregnant.
At that time, Liti's career was greatly affected.
And she didn't think much about it and gave up her career decisively.
After giving birth to daughter Yasmine Ross in 1999.
Zhong Liti was relieved to run the family, and the little woman was full of posture.
"Because I got married very quickly, in a month's time, we didn't know each other enough, and our personalities didn't run into each other, and there will be a lot of contradictions after marriage."
With the personality difference between her husband and her husband, Zhong Liti can also compromise and cooperate.
But when there was a disagreement in the upbringing of children, Zhong Liti did not give in.
Zhong Liti is a sensual person, her husband is more rational, always a bunch of big truths.
If the child does not want to eat and keeps fooling around, Zhong Liti will warm the rice, follow the child, and eat it when she wants to eat.
But Glen is not used to it, first reason with the child, and then use "intimidation" after finding it useless:
"If you don't eat now, you'll be hungry for an afternoon!" Listening to her father's words, Yasmine would often cry even louder.
Zhong Liti did not advocate the husband's "rule education", so the contradiction between husband and wife changed from small to large.
Separated in 2001, Ms. Chung seemed to realize that the relationship was coming to an end.
While adjusting his mood, he tried to return to the film and television circle.
This year, she starred in Thailand as the charming and beautiful stepmother in "Late Bride".
It also incarnated the seductive "Pama" of "Color Ring".
In 2002, Glen left her daughter when she chose to divorce.
Zhong Liti has won the title of "Asian Sexy Goddess" and returned to the peak.
03 Marry Yan Zheng, I don't regret it
The end of the first marriage brought some harm to Zhong Liti.
But compared with the second love, it can also be said that it is a small witch.
In her work, she met the musician Yan Zheng, and Zhong Liti fell in love with his talent and then fell in love with him.
Probably a lesson learned from the first marriage.
This time, Zhong Liti did not rush to get married, but took her daughter and Yan Zheng for two years.
Feeling emotionally friendly enough to start a family, they entered the marriage hall in 2004.
Sending her eldest daughter to live with her parents in Canada, Zhong Liti followed in her husband's footsteps and shifted her focus to Beijing.
Instead of becoming housewives, the young couple went their separate ways for a better future.
Zhong Liti's starting point is high, and her career progress is fast and good.
Although Yan Zheng released his own album, he later became a guitarist at Qi Qin Music Studio, and his fame was not as high as his wife.
At that time, when the media mentioned Zhong Liti, they would always replace Yan Zheng's name with "second husband".
Over time, Yan Zheng's sense of disparity in his heart became more and more sufficient.
Coupled with the first 4 years after marriage, Zhong Liti has been working without touching the ground.
Gathering less and leaving more, Yan Zheng gradually gave birth to some complaints.
He gave birth to Jaden in 2008 and Yan Zhiling (koala) in 2010.
The arrival of the two daughters did not save the feelings between Zhong Liti and Yan Zheng.
In 2011, when the marriage reached its 7th year, Yan Zheng proposed divorce.
"You're fighting too hard for your career, I'm really under a lot of pressure, can you feel it?" I want to take care of my family, but I don't earn as much as you. I know you don't mind, but I do, I want to have a name and don't want to be a useless husband. ”
Hearing these words, Zhong Liti was only difficult to understand at first.
But after calming down for a while, she faced up to the problems in the marriage that had been ignored by herself.
The husband is a traditional man who does not depend on him himself, nor does he find his self-doubt in time to give him ideological affirmation and support.
It turned out that after living together for several years, her husband's ideological baggage had overwhelmed him so much that he did not want to stay at home.
Agreeing to divorce Yan Zheng, 41-year-old Zhong Liti took her two daughters.
At that time, the media made a lot of speculation about this matter, and even poured some dirty water on Yan Zheng.
Zhong Liti also stood up to speak up for Yan Zheng. She said:
"I have never regretted marrying Yan Zheng, and there is no third party between us. If there's anything to blame, it's that we don't communicate enough. I should have reviewed, without giving him any explanation of his thinking. ”
"It's not that he doesn't love me, it's just that he can't accept that I'm still just me after marriage!"
Zhong Liti could not get out of this emotional failure for a long time.
The experience of getting married and divorced twice made her understand that a woman in a marriage must have sensibility and reason.
And the strength and weakness of the character should be measured, weak at the right time, and strong when necessary.
And as a mother of three children, now is the time for Zhong Liti to be strong.
While working and taking care of her children, Liti Chung strives to balance her career and family.
04 When I meet love again, I want to be brave
The successive emotional setbacks made her a little withdrawn, feeling that she was not worthy of a happy love.
In the eyes of outsiders, Zhong Liti is still the same as before, bright and charming and confident.
But when she was alone, behind the child's invisible, she could not pull herself out of tears, loneliness and vulnerability.
I long for love in my heart, but I am afraid of being hurt again.
Zhong Liti forced herself not to want so much, and took over her eldest daughter to live with, and she moved forward in the company of her three children.
But the going and staying of love is never by anyone, Zhong Liti in 2015, encountered a belated fate.
In 2015, Zhong Liti was invited to participate in the variety show "If Love".
In the show, she and Zhang Lunshuo, a latecomer in 82, formed a "hypothetical lover".
Zhang Lunshuo is a full 12 years younger than Zhong Liti, he is 182 years tall, has a stylish figure, and looks handsome.
And Zhong Liti because of perennial fitness, the figure remains very good, the appearance is online.
At the request of the program team, Zhang Lunshuo substituted himself into the role of Zhong Liti's boyfriend and carefully cared for him.
Light a candle for dinner and pick a gift to give implicitly.
Walking hand in hand on the beach, let the sea wrap a chaotic heart and wash away the soul.
Unconsciously, Zhang Lunshuo's feelings for Zhong Liti spread from the show to life.
Anyone watching in front of the TV can see that Zhong Liti also has a great liking for Zhang Lunshuo.
But when Zhang Lunshuo formally expressed his love, Zhong Liti flinched.
"I'm many years older than you, and I still have three children, don't you really mind?"
"If I had minded, I wouldn't have confessed to you. Thinking that you will live with me in the future, then I am willing to do my best to take on the responsibilities of my father. Believe me well? ”
Happiness and emotion filled her heart, and Zhong Liti decided to give herself a brave chance.
But just opened the heart of the admirer, the problem of the Zhang family's parents was in front of them again.
Although the son is 34 years old and still not married, it is really difficult for parents to accept their son marrying a woman who is 12 years older and has 3 children.
Zhong Liti can understand the feelings of the Zhang family's parents, but she does not want to give up.
Zhang Lunshou did not disappoint.
Back in Qingdao to face his parents' emotions, he tried to appease him without making any concessions.
"I'm an adult and I know what I'm doing. Mom and Dad, you might as well meet the person your son chose, she's really nice, give us a chance, okay? ”
Seeing that his parents were slightly loose, Zhang Lunshou hurriedly took Zhong Liti to Qingdao, and everyone tried to get along.
"Don't be nervous, if you can't come anywhere, we can live in Beijing in the future, you don't have to be too aggrieved yourself."
I have to say that Zhang Lunshou is a person who is very willing to take care of his lover's feelings, but his worries are a bit superfluous.
Zhong Liti knows how to get along with her elders.
Naturally, he took over Zhang's mother's bowl of rice. When Zhang Dad was going out for morning exercise, they went out for a run together.
Learn to cook Qingdao-style meals, buy a massage chair for Zhang's mother to relieve low back fatigue...
The small things in life can most touch people's hearts, and it feels that Zhong Liti is not a woman who "looks for sexual encounters" distorted by the media.
They finally nodded and let their son make decisions about their life's events.
In November 2016, Zhong Liti's parents came from Canada to talk and laugh with Zhang Lunshuo's parents.
The newcomers on the stage are full of happiness, and the parents and children offstage are also full of smiles.
05 Because of a person, fall in love with a city
With her three daughters and Zhang Lunshuo forming a new family, Zhong Liti is immersed in happiness.
In October of this year, Zhang Lunshou took the 6-year-old "koala" to participate in "Where Did Daddy Go 4".
Zhang Lunshuo in the show does not have some restructured families, and the novice father is "kind" to non-biological children.
Koalas who make mistakes will criticize and will give correct explanations and guidance after the child calms down.
If the koala does something worthy of praise, Zhang Lunshou will not skimp on his praise and let the child get affirmation.
Truly accepting his wife's children, Zhang Lunshuo did as if they were his own, and also got a sincere "Daddy" from the three sisters.
Deeply moved, Zhong Liti asked her daughters for permission and changed their names.
The eldest daughter is called Zhang Minjun, the second daughter is called Zhang Sijie, and the third daughter is called Zhang Kailin, all following Zhang Lunshuo's surname.
Although the married life is full of joy and laughter, Zhong Liti and her mother-in-law still have a regret.
That is, Zhang Lunshou does not have a child who is connected by his own blood.
Zhang Mu also said in a certain show that "if not, I will be very sorry."
Zhong Liti is 46 years old, not easy to get pregnant, not to mention, the risk of childbirth is also very large.
Although Zhang Lunshou has always advised that "the body is the most important".
She still tried everything she could, but the results were not satisfactory.
Zhang Lunshuo knew that his parents actually put a lot of pressure on his wife, so he often did his parents' ideological work in private.
Fortunately, Zhang Dad and Zhang Mama are not unreasonable people, and gradually they are relieved and no longer ask questions.
Zhong Liti was very touched by her in-laws' understanding, and she also relaxed her mood and went with the flow.
Moved to Qingdao to live with her in-laws.
Because she loves her husband, she falls in love with Qingdao cuisine, the people of Qingdao, and the whole of Qingdao.
"I am Zhong Liti, the daughter-in-law of Qingdao, and I am learning the Qingdao dialect. I am tired of Qingdao-style food, Qingdao people are very good, humorous and interesting, generous and enthusiastic. If you want to go out for a walk during the holidays, welcome to my hometown, Qingdao City! ”
In the program, Zhong Liti decently told her love for Qingdao.
It also shows from the side how much she loves her family, how happy she is in the family.
The couple, who were not optimistic about the media at the beginning, seriously entered the 6th year after marriage.
People will meet too many people in this life, everyone walks and stops, and the chance of holding hands and true love in the vast sea of people is limited.
When you encounter love, you may wish to be bold.
Zhong Liti has also been discouraged by herself, and she has also shown an inferiority complex in front of love.
But she eventually chose to believe in herself and her beloved partner.
Because once you hold hands, you may be able to enjoy the sweetness and beauty of love for a lifetime.
Now, Liti Zhong seems to have gambled right!