The separation of loving husband and wife is an unspeakable pain in the world.
When a loved one dies, it is even rarer to be able to take on the responsibility of supporting the former parents.
Moko, a good man in Chinese sports, died of illness after five months of marriage, but he still supported his ex-wife's parents.
His beloved wife Wang Fan died
At the end of January 2010, the temperature in Beijing had fallen below zero, but moko, a member of the Bayi Shuanglu men's basketball team, was colder than the weather outside.
At this time, he was standing in the corridor of Beijing 309 Hospital, fidgeting and looking at the intensive care unit.
In the intensive care unit, lying in the intensive care unit, his wife, who has just been married for five months, Wang Fan, a member of the Bayi Guangbo women's basketball team.
Wang Fan was lying quietly on the hospital bed, and the ventilator on his body and the instruments around him were particularly eye-catching.
"Moko has not replied to the text message today, I believe there is good news he will tell you." Bayi Fubon Club staff said.
Not long ago, Wang Fan also updated his QQ personality signature, "My husband sang to me again." "Usually boring training competition Wang Fan has long been used to, but since he and Moko, life is more colorful.
Although the athletes and husbands get together less and more, the two people are not affected by this, but they understand and believe in each other more and pursue their basketball dreams together.
So affectionate, but can't stand Providence.
On September 9, 2009, the pair of bi people who loved each other chose to register for marriage, at that time, for Moko and Wang Fan, looking at the little red book in their hands, the most expected thing in their hearts was to grow old with white heads.
However, the accident and tomorrow, never know who will come faster.
On January 24, 2010, on the day of the bayi Shuanglu match against Shandong, Moko did not go with the team, but recuperated at the Yunhai Hotel in Ningbo, and in the afternoon, after learning about Wang Fan's fainting, he quickly returned to Beijing.
According to club staff, Moko's hand holding the mobile phone kept shaking after learning the news.
Wang Fan was transferred to the intensive care unit after being sent to the emergency room for rescue, but several days passed, and Wang Fan still did not wake up.
The deputy captain of the Eight-In-One Engineering Brigade revealed that Wang Fan has been actively rescuing, and no one expected such a situation to occur, and everyone's mood is very heavy.
According to the staff of Bayi Guangbo, Wang Fan's condition was "pulmonary infarction".
Wang Fan has been in the intensive care unit since he was sent to the 309 Hospital on January 24.
What is heart-wrenching is that Wang Fan once breathed and his heart stopped beating, but after the doctor's emergency rescue, he eased up.
Wang Fan and Moko are both excellent basketball players of the Bayi team, and Beijing 309 Hospital has invited many experts from the military for consultation.
However, there are still no miracles in this world.
On February 15, 2010, Wang Fan died of ineffective pulmonary embolism, and the memorial service was held at the Babaoshan Cemetery in Beijing.
In front of the memorial hall, the black wreath was conspicuously written "Mourning the Martyr Wang Fan", the narrow spiritual hall was filled with wreaths sent by relatives and friends, the remains of Wang Fan wearing a military uniform were placed in the middle, and the wreaths sent by her husband Moko wrote affectionately: "Bear, love you without complaint or regret."
At 9:45 on the day of the memorial service, the hearse carrying Wang Fan's body appeared in everyone's sight, Andmoko was dressed in military uniform, holding the portrait of his beloved wife, and sitting in the co-pilot's seat with a sluggish gaze, while Wang Fan's parents who were sitting in the back had long been unable to cry.
Moko guarded Wang Fan almost inseparably for more than twenty days, and his body and mind suffered great torture, on this day he held the portrait, it was difficult to support himself to go down, and it was necessary to rely on the support of the staff to come to the scene of the memorial service.
Subsequently, 6 staff members in suits carried coffins covered with party flags, and Moko looked back at his beloved wife's coffin from time to time, clinging to them, making everyone present feel sad after watching it.
After only five months of marriage, Moko must face the pain of losing his beloved wife, and how to go in the future, Moko has also been confused.
Wang Fan was gone, and although Moko could not come out of the heavy sadness for a while, his life still had to go on.
Because Wang Fan didn't want to see Moko go down like this all the time.
Two years after Wang Fan's death, Moko and Zhou Yafei combined to walk out of the pain brought to him by Wang Fan's death; Although he had started a family again, Moko had not forgotten Wang Fan's parents.
Life looks forward
On May 12, 2012, Liaoning men's basketball player Zhang Qingpeng held a wedding in Fushun, Liaoning Province, and Moko brought his girlfriend Zhou Yafei, who had been in love for a long time, to the scene to send blessings.
On this day, in order to participate in her friend's wedding, Zhou Yafei also specially chose a pair of red earrings with the word "hi" to send her blessings to her friends.
As part of the wedding process, Moko will take the stage as a representative of relatives and friends to send blessings to the newlyweds.
So Moko has been very busy this day, as a good friend of the newlyweds, he also helped prepare for today's wedding banquet.
But what Zhou Yafei doesn't know is that in fact, she is also one of the protagonists today.
Before going out to the wedding banquet, Moko took advantage of Zhou Yafei's lack of attention and hid the prepared proposal ring in his clothes pocket.
So as soon as he arrived at the wedding scene, he first had to connect with the general manager today's marriage proposal process, and then he didn't come and sit down until he was finished.
Looking back, Zhou Yafei said with some surprise: "When he came to the stage, I was still happily applauding him below." Unexpectedly, she and Moko became the protagonists.
Zhou Yafei was suddenly invited to the stage by Moko, and she did not figure out what the situation was for a while.
Then Moko suddenly got down on one knee, still holding the engagement ring that had been prepared, and waited for Zhou Yafei to nod.
Zhou Yafei said that at that time, she was ignorant, but when she saw this scene, the tears could not help but flow down, and she tearfully agreed to Mo
After Moko carefully prepared the marriage proposal, the photos of the marriage proposal scene also circulated on the Internet, and Zhou Yafei's relatives and friends sent their blessings and praised Moko.
For the marriage proposal, Moko spent a lot of thought, and Zhou Yafei also ate this set of romance.
"When I used to talk, I said that I was still looking forward to getting a romantic marriage proposal, and he took this to heart." Zhou Yafei said.
On October 7, 2012, Moko and Zhou Yafei were married.
The wedding ceremony was held in Changchun, and the wedding theme of the two was "Fei" you "Mo", and both sides took a word in their names as a symbol of entering the marriage hall.
In fact, long before Moko and Wang Fan got married, Zhou Yafei's coach Yao Ying had a crush on Moko.
Zhou Yafei said that she had followed Coach Yao Ying for more than ten years, and she regarded herself as a pro-girlfriend.
In the Chinese men's basketball team, Yao Ying's favorite is Du Feng and Mo Ke, and later Du Feng became his son-in-law, and Yao Ying also wanted to match Zhou Yafei and Mo Ke together.
At that time, Yao Ying once asked Moko if he had a girlfriend, and Moko was in love with Wang Fan, and his feelings were very strong, so the matter was abandoned.
Until the summer of 2010, Yao Ying once again wanted to match, and Moko and Zhou Yafei naturally came together.
Zhou Yafei grew up in a very happy big family, and also developed her optimistic and positive personality.
At that time, Moko was in a very depressed stage, his beloved wife died, but he still had to continue training.
When he was very tired, Zhou Yafei was always able to bring him comfort and mobilize his emotions, and the breath of joy on his body could always infect him, which made Moko quickly open his heart to her, and all the way to the right results.
Although it seems that the process of two people falling in love and getting married is very smooth, there are still many twists and turns, because Moko once had an unforgettable marriage after all.
Moko's parents were very satisfied with the daughter-in-law, and from the first time they saw her, they regarded her as if they were their own daughters.
Zhou Yafei's father was very fond of her, and Zhou Yafei said that her father once told her that the happiest thing in this life was to have such a daughter as her.
So looking for a second-married boyfriend, Zhou Yafei's family helped her hide from her father, and her father was the last to know.
Because of Zhou Yafei's insistence, both of his father's sideburns were white, but Zhou Yafei did not marry Moko, and his father had no way.
One day, Zhou's father found Zhou Yafei and made a list for her, he said: "The above is all I can think of, after you marry him, you will face some problems." If these questions you can accept, including his previous marriage, because although his ex-wife is gone, her parents are still there. ”
Zhou Yafei said that her father told her that if she could accept these problems, then marry him.
In fact, to this day, Moko is still caring for the parents of his ex-wife Wang Fan.
For this matter, Moko said: "For myself, it is because I have called my father and mother, and now although I say that his daughter is gone, I am still here, when time permits, such as a holiday, or some festival, I will go over to see." ”
Zhou Yafei is also very supportive of Moko doing such a thing, Zhou Yafei said: "I will do some things that I should do when he is not allowed in time, and help him do some things." ”
It is precisely because of Zhou Yafei's understanding of Moko and the mutual tolerance of the two people that they have walked together for ten years.
Nowadays, Moko and Zhou Yafei live happily.
On May 16, 2022, Zhou Yafei posted a group of photos on her personal social media, with the caption: "10th Anniversary thanks to time, this life is not worthy of the encounter." The future can be expected, and we can move forward together. ”
This commemorates the tenth anniversary of their marriage.
Zhou Yafei's social media rarely updates her daily life, but almost every update is inseparable from the family.
Moko and Zhou Yafei have a very cute pair of children.
On June 23, 2021, Zhou Yafei sent a set of family portraits, and although Moko's sideburns have some white spots, he is still very energetic.
He sat in a chair, his son sat on his knee, his daughter stood on the right hand side holding his arm, and Zhou Yafei stood on the left side, reaching out to protect his son, close to Moko, with a happy face.
On June 11, 2019, Zhou Yafei did not update social media for a long time, and suddenly a bubble appeared online.
This is also the first time that she has posted a photo of a family of four on social media since giving birth to her second child.
It was a set of very Chinese-style photos, zhou Yafei and Moko were sitting on stools, one holding a child, and the atmosphere was warm.
The family is happy, and Moko and Zhou Yafei's personal career has not fallen.
In 2014, Moko joined the Sichuan men's basketball team, but in the end he was not able to join smoothly, and then he announced his retirement.
But that doesn't mean the end of his basketball career.
Moko's basketball skills are very comprehensive, both able to attack on the inside and pull down the outside for three-point shots, and the defensive ability is also extremely strong, and he is especially good at moving without the ball, with good turning vision and ability.
Therefore, as the best supplement to the "Moving Great Wall" Yao Ming and Wang Zhizhi, It is a pity for the Chinese men's basketball team that Moko has left basketball since then.
However, even after retiring from the front line, Moco can still work as a coach.
In October 2019, less than a month before the start of the CBA, Moko suddenly chose to join the Sichuan men's basketball team.
However, this time he did not appear as a player, but as an assistant coach of the team.
In the two seasons before that, the results of the Sichuan men's basketball team were not still good, and the team had a very obvious shortcoming, that is, the lack of internal line.
Moko happens to be an expert in this regard, so after he joined, with his rich experience, he brought vitality to the Sichuan men's basketball team and provided great help to the players in the inner line.
And Moko is a righteous person, so he has a very good relationship with everyone in the basketball circle, and he quickly mingled with everyone after he arrived at the Sichuan men's basketball team.
In the years of the Sichuan team, Moko is also conscientious, and the Sichuan team has also made some achievements.
On May 9, 2022, according to sports media reports, after Zhou Jinli left office, Moko, who had been an assistant coach for nearly three years, was finally promoted to the head coach of the Sichuan team.
This is also his first time as a head coach in the CBA League, and all walks of life are very much looking forward to his performance.
However, the official announcement of this blockbuster news was not announced until May 23, 2022.
The official Account of Chinese Basketball expressed its congratulations and expectations for the news: "Moko Coach joined Sichuan Jinqiang Club in 2019 as assistant coach of the first team, and has been doing his duty for three seasons. We believe that after Coach Moko becomes the head coach of the team, he is bound to implant his tough style and tenacious fighting spirit into the team. ”
On May 26, Moko also accepted an interview with basketball reporter Jia Lei, telling his decision to become the head coach of the Sichuan team.
Moko said: "The incident was also relatively sudden, resting in Beijing, during the offseason, suddenly received a call from the team, saying that Zhou Zhi's side wanted to return to Tianjin, which was also a temporary decision. "So the team wants Moko to be promoted to head coach.
Moko said: "Due to the suddenness of the matter, to be honest, I am not ready to take on this managerial position. I had thought about it before, but I didn't expect this opportunity to come so quickly, and I felt that I still had some deficiencies, and I felt a little bottomless in my heart. ”
But despite this, Moko also expressed his determination to lead the Sichuan team.
Moko said that after so many years in the Sichuan team, first of all he felt that this team was very united; Whether it is a new team member or an old team member, including foreign aid, they are very united after coming.
On the field, I also dare to fight, and the most valuable thing is that there is no conspiracy in this team.
Moko has now returned to the Sichuan team to train, but due to the impact of the epidemic, there are still some players who have not been able to fully return to the team for formal training.
Moko revealed that the coaching team will be reorganized now, and an assistant coach may be introduced later.
Subsequently, Moko introduced some new personnel changes in the offseason of the Sichuan team, as well as the preparation for the next season, and also revealed that Yuan Tangwen will return to the Sichuan team from Shanghai.
Today, Moko and the Sichuan team have slowly entered the right track.
Moko's career is booming, and Zhou Yafei is not far behind.
After Zhou Yafei retired from retirement, she became a special commentator of CCTV5, and her profound professional knowledge and senior competition experience made Zhou Yafei feel at ease in the interpretation world.
Zhou Yafei herself is a very passionate personality, so that the explanation can bring the audience an immersive sense of experience watching the game.
At the 2015 Kazan World Swimming Championships, swimmer Ning Zetao won the men's 100-meter freestyle, and Zhou Yafei 'won' with a passionate voice, making many swimmers unforgettable.
In 2018, Zhou Yafei served as a commentator at the FINA World Swimming Championships, leaving a deep impression on the audience with her solid interpretation skills and energetic and beautiful appearance.
"A successful game requires the outstanding performance of the athletes, and it is inseparable from the commentary to bring the audience to empathy. ...... The most impressive Ning Zetao Kazan World Championships won the championship, Miss Zhou Yafei's sister 'won', this life can not forget ..."
However, in recent years, Zhou Yafei should have focused her life on the family, and rarely appeared in the commentary seat.
In 2022, a number of heavyweight swimming competitions were held, and countless spectators missed the era of Zhou Yafei's commentary.
"Or Zhou Yafei explains that there is passion."
"Swimming still has to listen to the explanation of Han Qiaosheng and Zhou Yafei."
Whether zhou Yafei is swimming or explaining, her professional ability is unquestionable, and her kind and passionate commentary style has captured the hearts of swimmers.
The sun is always after the wind and rain
Moko was unlucky that he had lost his beloved wife.
But Moko was also lucky, after being injured, there was an optimistic and kind woman like Zhou Yafei who comforted him, and the two of them worked hand in hand, taking care of their own small family at the same time, but also taking care of Wang Fan's parents.
Moko is a well-deserved good man in The Chinese sports world, and Zhou Yafei is also a well-deserved good wife.
Resources
"Wang Fan has passed away, Moko Cherishes"
"Tiehan Moko's Romantic Proposal Successfully Plans to Hold a Wedding with Zhou Yafei in October This Year", 2012 Southland Morning Post
Beijing Satellite TV "Very Couple" December 6, 2012