"Love comes from two loves, there is no age limit." Love is a peculiar element, and no age, gender can limit two people who love each other.
In recent years, various grandchildren have been criticized by netizens, and many people cannot accept such love. But love is a matter for two people, and if we feel sorry for each other, then we should bless them even more.
Married to 21-year-old Kou Zhenhai
The time when the filming of the play "Flowers Drift Zero" was also the day when Kou Zhenhai met the true love of life. At that time, Kou Zhenhai already had a certain position in the entertainment industry, and it can be said that he was an old actor.
He has seen countless beautiful girls, and he has experienced two failed marriages, and he has long matured.
In the play, he will play a big boss, and the opposite of him is a waiter. The role of this waiter is a new person found by the crew, she is Li Ting.
Li Ting, who graduated from the Communication University of China, although she has a solid theoretical foundation, has appeared in relatively few works. When the two first met, Li Ting was very restrained when she saw Kou Zhenhai.
Li Ting's blushing face made Kou Zhenhai cry and laugh, and at the same time, he also attracted his attention.
In the process of filming, Li Ting's shooting process at all times, sitting in the car against Kou Zhenhai, Li Ting will take the initiative to lean into the car, such a move makes Kou Zhenhai very moved.
Facing this young actress, Kou Zhenhai also had a good feeling. At the end of filming, I couldn't help but praise the people next to me.
In the process of the later drama, Kou Zhenhai also found that the emotions between the two had changed.
Li Ting was deeply trapped by Kou Zhenhai and enthusiastically expressed her love for him.
As a man in his twenties, Kou Zhenhai has also had failed marriages before and has also had his own children. Intellectually he told him that he could not accept it, but it was difficult to control, and the two people still came together.
Although the feelings born of the drama between the two are sincere and moving, they also have a lot of difficulties in the worldly vision and background.
Willing to bear a son for the 54-year-old
In the face of such a combination, it was difficult for people to accept it in the era at that time. Kou Zhenhai is about the same age as Li Ting's parents. This made it difficult for the woman's family to accept him.
Li Ting's parents believe that their daughter should marry a man from an ordinary family, rather than looking for a man who is much more mature than herself.
And after learning about the two of them, they frantically objected and found a blind date for their daughter.
Kou Zhenhai really missed this girl so much that he ran to the woman's family and used his emotions to impress Li Ting's parents.
We also can't know how much effort it took for Li Ting's parents to agree to the marriage. It is not difficult to see that Kou Zhenhai's feelings for Li Ting can be described as stronger than Jin.
With the consent of their parents, the two entered the palace of marriage. Li Ting, who is just young, has a successful career but is three marriages, Kou Zhenhai, such a pair of unoptimized combinations, held a wedding in Beijing and Qingdao.
After this, the two ushered in their own sons.
Unlike others, Kou Zhenhai was already in his fifties that year, which can be said to be an old man, which also caused many strange sounds.
Looking at the difference between his father and other people's fathers, when he was a child, Kou Zhenhai's son once asked him, "Dad, how old are you, why are you different from the fathers of other classmates?" ”
This made Kou Zhenhai fall silent for a while, and in the face of his son's questioning, Kou Zhenhai helplessly lied.
Kou Zhenhai did not pick up his son to school or let his son appear around, worried that his son would be humiliated because of himself. It is precisely for this reason that Kou Zhenhai began to work out and work hard to maintain his body and maintain his youth.
Let yourself be more age-reducing in appearance and not embarrass your family.
Marriage is two loves, you and I, without too many rules, this is the purest love look.
The reason why many people think that people of similar ages are not optimistic is because there are many bad precedents.
For example, if the rich man raises a small three or a rich woman raises a small milk dog, this thunderous thing has really happened.
Some people also think that in marriages with large age differences, there is a generation gap and gap between the two themselves, and it is difficult to have true happiness.
But is this really the case?
Nobel laureate scientist Mr. Yang Zhenning, many people know his life's achievements, but few people know that his partner and his age difference is tens of years.
Are there some kind of interests between two people? The answer is no. Yang Zhenning's wife is a well-known figure herself, and there is no shortage of money.
The union of two people is the sympathy of each other, the mutual care of each other, although it is incomprehensible by many people, but the marriage of two people has always been very low-key and happy.
There is another couple in the entertainment industry who is the same. Zhang Lunshuo and Zhong Liti, the age of the two is also a certain gap, and Zhong Liti is also married and has three lovely daughters.
When the two people were first together, they were also questioned by netizens, but they used time and companionship to respond to the netizens' denials.
And Zhang Lunshou also took his daughter to participate in the variety show, the program reflected her love for her daughter, and even netizens felt that Zhang Lunshou had raised four daughters, which was enough to see how happy Zhong Liti was when she married the right person.
So, the age gap doesn't mean anything, and there shouldn't be any prejudice against their feelings.
Looking at others with colored glasses is in itself a grossly impolite thing.
epilogue
When Kou Zhenhai chose to marry Li Ting, Kou Zhenhai once asked his daughter, the age of the daughter and his wife is very similar, Kou Zhenhai he was worried that his daughter could not accept, but the daughter is the person who supports him the most.
Because she knows that feelings should not be limited by all external forces, as long as it is a feeling of mutual satisfaction, it is worthy of encouragement and support.
Or perhaps with the support of his daughter and family, Kou Zhenhai was able to take that step more firmly and bravely.