#Happiness to Wanjia Essay #Zhao Liying's new drama "Happiness to Wanjia" is too strong, although it is a TV series with rural themes, it has captured the hearts of hundreds of millions of viewers from the first episode. 随着剧情的发展，赵丽颖演的幸福与唐曾演的庆来，这一对来自农村的恩爱夫妻，进城之后表现出了巨大的人格差异，以至于观众们都觉得两个人不分开是不行了。 Why?
Happiness and Qinglai also grew up in the countryside and were also the eldest in their respective original families, but after the two people entered the city, there were great differences in their integration and getting along with the surrounding environment, so that they produced completely different results.
Happiness has won the love of many people with her true kindness; And with an open and enterprising attitude, we have won opportunities for ourselves. Ben was temporarily hiding in the city, but she did not stop for a moment, actively looking for opportunities to work to earn money.
She found a job advertisement on a small poster, so she applied for a job to try, starting from cleaning work. While working hard, she observes new things in the city and strives to transform herself. In the work of the law firm, through continuous hard work and learning, she went from cleaning to the front desk, and actively searched for case sources, creating performance for the law firm and achieving a personal growth leap.
In terms of dealing with people, happiness and understanding, while thanking others for help, she strives to rely on herself to struggle for change, rather than blindly relying on and troubleing others. In the handling of household chores, she reflects the responsibility that should be taken as the boss.
On the other hand, after entering the city, Qinglai is like a wall with the surrounding world. His world of inferiority, cowardice, doubt, and resentment filled his world, and he was like a bomb with negative energy, ready to explode. The life of his younger brother, Qingzhi, is in danger due to his brother's arrival. Qinglai did not look like he had come into the city to hide, but like he had come to collect debts.
Since then, Qinglai has completely lost the style of the eldest in a family, but has revealed the character defects in his childhood growth, and he is still a person who has not grown up completely.
When he was a child, Qinglai lived in a hurtful environment, his father always appeared incompetent and evasive, and his mother was overly protective of coddling, which made Qinglai not get a positive growth when his personality was formed.
He is difficult to integrate into the crowd, and his mother allows his personality to develop into a lonely and cowardly, she is always strong in front of him, eager to live for her son, everything for him to make ideas, so that Qinglai is used to relying, accustomed to listening to his mother's words, accustomed to relying on others to get a life.
Therefore, after entering the city, without the protection of his parents, Qinglai seemed to be uncomfortable everywhere, encountered walls everywhere, and refused to take off his shell to actively adapt. He screwed like that, struggling to blend in with the outside world.
"Man cannot be taught, only help him to discover himself." From the different opportunities of happiness and qinglai development, we can see that the frustration education owed by childhood must be made up in the melting pot of future social life.